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Mel
@swismiself.bsky.social
Twin Cities resident, Wisconsinite by zip code, but still a Jersey Girl at heart. She/her. 🩷💛💙
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"He isn't the only one in the room who knows about the tug-of-war between being yourself and being palatable."

Relatable, Cat Sebastian.
Heck of a drive home tonight.
November 12, 2025 at 5:26 AM
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Reminder that Violent J of Insane Clown Posse has the correct response to a lot of the shitty things he said in the early days.
October 21, 2025 at 3:58 PM
"The heels on our big feet are way older than their boots at our neck." - Post, by
@herreraimages.bsky.social
July 18, 2025 at 2:47 PM
Cheers to GMHC AIDS Walks and Act Up in '90s NYC, to MN United for All Families in 2012, to cheering the Obergefell v Hodges decision 10 YEARS AGO TODAY...and not taking any of it for granted.
June 26, 2025 at 6:58 PM
The FDA finally approved lenacapavir! Except it costs about $28,000 per year, which is almost as bad as what PrEP could be for some people after it was bounced from the list of ACA-protected preventative medications.
June 19, 2025 at 12:38 AM
Just when you think they can stoop no lower:

www.nytimes.com/2025/06/18/w...
Trump Administration Will End L.G.B.T.Q. Suicide Prevention Service
www.nytimes.com
June 18, 2025 at 5:42 PM
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The National Guard has arrived in Los Angeles, but they were not requested by California. Both Governor Newsom and Mayor Bass made it clear that the state did not authorize or want federal troops deployed.
June 8, 2025 at 2:58 PM
Woke up this morning, and it's 1992. Stay strong, LA✊🏼
June 8, 2025 at 3:07 PM
I really don't want AI taking over the creative parts of my life, but feel free to wash my dishes and find my cancers.
May 24, 2025 at 12:36 AM
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We’re the Queerest generation since the 1960s and we’re not going ANYWHERE.

From POST: poems, prayers and grudges.
April 11, 2025 at 8:11 PM
Finished my 100th book, just before midnight
May 15, 2025 at 4:56 AM
HS band playing an '80s throwback comp, and all us parents aren't even trying to be chill about it.
May 11, 2025 at 12:43 AM
Nothing like being a parent walking around a place away from home your kid frequents, only to find a Tupperware item you didn't know you were missing, full of questionable leftovers.
May 1, 2025 at 11:29 PM
Might have made a...slight miscalculation today in forgetting that tiramisu, especially when lovingly homemade by a coworker, can contain a significant amount of caffeine.
April 23, 2025 at 1:17 AM
Supremely annoyed at the poll worker here who wore a political t-shirt while verifying my ID and address against the voter registration list. Illegal, and highly indecorous. Shame on you.
April 2, 2025 at 4:59 AM
Say No to HIV Prevention cuts!
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New/Mode | Make your voice impossible to ignore
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March 18, 2025 at 11:39 PM
That moment you remember that, unlike your teen, you are not, in fact, on spring break tomorrow
March 17, 2025 at 6:00 AM
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Please to be developing historical perspective and a spinal column and do the damn work. Do we have this? Absolutely not. Can we do this? Probably…but it involves doing the damn work.
March 11, 2025 at 1:48 AM
Really want to take an Anatomy & Physiology course just so I can learn the names of all the things that hurt
March 10, 2025 at 10:01 PM
0/10 did not enjoy my drive home tonight
March 5, 2025 at 2:17 AM
The longest minute in my world is the last minute on my washer's spin cycle.
March 2, 2025 at 12:55 AM
The wind is blowing hard enough to move all my heavy, metal furniture 😬
February 28, 2025 at 3:52 PM
The teenager just asked his dad if he shrunk.
February 18, 2025 at 4:58 AM
Really unhappy with how much the US military is recruiting from my child's high school this year.
February 17, 2025 at 7:29 PM