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FromSurvivorToThriver
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DA survivor & advocate. Passionate about helping those stuck in the cycle of abuse regardless of race or sex,as abuse does not discriminate. Provide guidance to escape toxicity, so that victims can gain empowerment & lead a more elevated & fulfilling life.
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There is an awakening that is taking place. More and more people are becoming aware that the behaviors exhibited by our parents in our youth was in fact abuse, not just a stern hand. We owe it to ourselves to break the cycle and be healthier for our kids.
#oprahinterview#eggshellparent #toxicparent #emotionalabusesurvivor #estrangedparents
TikTok video by dr kim🦋psychologist
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November 29, 2025 at 12:16 AM
Trump’s vicious words to the woman reporter today IS abuse. It is prime Narc speak. This caustic example can be hard to explain to the untrained ear. Because it’s vile w/o the use of cursing which many associate as being the worst way to put someone down. But this punch down hits hard at the psyche.
Women are watching abusive dynamics play out on the national stage and for many it feels very, very familiar to what they’ve experienced regularly—

I hope midterms are a referendum
November 19, 2025 at 1:48 AM
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. DV is a pattern of abusive behaviors, including physical, sexual, & psychological attacks as well as economic coercion. Abusers use a range of tactics to frighten, terrorize, manipulate, hurt, humiliate, and often injure & sometimes kill a partner.
October 19, 2025 at 9:25 PM
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I posted earlier this year that given the current political climate, it will be as important as ever to find time to do things that bring you joy. This is another reminder as we are all feeling the heaviness right now.
Feeling discouraged? Here is my counterintuitive advice. #melrobbins #dailyinspiration #mindsetmotivation #negativethinking #overwhelm #positivechanges #findyourhappy #spotlighteffect
TikTok video by Mel Robbins
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October 2, 2025 at 9:17 PM
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This recent incident is interesting. Women can abuse men. However, she didn’t perceive shoving her bf to be abuse. This misconception is more commonly found on the victim side until a fist is landed. This may also have been a reactive abuse scenario. Best choice. Leave.
#ShaCarriRichardson repeatedly called #ChristianColeman "a coward" during her arrest last month, new police video shows. Full story at the 🔗in bio!
TikTok video by TMZ
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August 14, 2025 at 5:24 PM
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“Why didn’t you just leave?” is victim blaming. It’s easy for those on the outside to say what they would’ve done. However, abuse is never just physical. It’s really the emotional & psychological duress that keeps a person mentally trapped in these escalating situations.
#fyp
TikTok video by Toure YT: ToureTube
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May 17, 2025 at 12:57 AM
Abusers employ Flying Monkeys to do their bidding, so they can wash their hands of accountability. Reporting back to them your every move, thoughts and feelings, under the guise they are a shoulder to cry on. They blindly support and enable your abuser for their own gain.
April 27, 2025 at 6:38 PM
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Subtle example of Raging. An abuse tactic that encompasses verbal assaults at close range, hitting walls/breaking items, to elicit fear. Can include restraining& pushing. This behavior is often overlooked by victims but DOES escalate.Call the police. File the report.
#JackDougherty's girlfriend called the cops on him after he allegedly threatened her! 😱
TikTok video by TMZ
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April 1, 2025 at 4:29 PM
Are you stuck in the Cycle of Abuse?Signs may seem obvious 4 some, but the truth is many never make the connection. I was belittled, rage baited, mocked &on occasion restrained, but because I never ended up in the ER, I didn’t believe I was being abused. Broken bones &bruises are not the only form.
March 24, 2025 at 4:30 PM
Empowered women, Empower women. Always be on the lookout for the opportunity to help straighten another woman’s crown. 👑
March 16, 2025 at 8:47 PM
International Women’s Day slogan for 2025. “Empower, Inspire, Elevate”, is a call to action. It urges us to uplift the women around us, ensuring they have equal opportunities to thrive & succeed. Empowering women means giving them the tools, education,& confidence to take charge of their own lives.🩷
March 8, 2025 at 8:14 PM
The AMBUSH of Zelensky in the Oval Office was the 1st time in years my CPTSD from Narc abuse was triggered. If ever there was an example that perfectly encapsulates what a narc victim endures regularly, it was that. An absolute psychological assault. Isolation, belittling, humiliation,rage baiting.
March 5, 2025 at 6:01 PM
I just finished watching Alice, Darling, staring Anna Kendrick. This movie perfectly captures the subtle tactics found in a psychologically & emotionally abusive relationship. The fear, shame, & dismantling of a victim. Tough watch, but a necessary one. #narcissism #toxic #annakendrick #abuse
February 12, 2025 at 4:38 AM
As a DA advocate, I want to be clear THIS is the face of abuse. Narcissistic psychological & emotional abuse. Manipulation, alienation, control, & shaming are all tactics.The perfect crime, because it leaves no outward visible scars. While an extreme example, THIS IS what the average victim endures.
February 4, 2025 at 6:37 PM
Conspiracy or Coincidence? Was Elonia’s phrasing itself another tell? If you assign numerical value to each first letter in My Heart Goes Out To You, it totals 88.
M=13/H=8/G=7/O=15/T=20/Y=25
88 is the numerical code for Heil Hitler.Screenshot Anti Defamation League’s website.So coincidence??
January 28, 2025 at 3:07 PM
Someone shared this video w/ regards to our political climate, but I want to share it because the tactics he speaks about are commonly found in domestic abuse relationships, and why I advocate so strongly for the extreme dangers these tactics inflict on victims.

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Once You Know This, Every PSYOP Becomes Obvious
YouTube video by Chase Hughes
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January 24, 2025 at 3:41 AM
With 🤡 firmly in office, the gaslighting will be coming at U 2x as much.Unlike a romantic relationship w/ a Narcissist, in which U would ideally leave &block, we won’t get that option.Therefore, in order 2 protect UR peace, limit UR engagement w/ negativity.Take time to do things that bring you joy.
January 21, 2025 at 5:03 AM
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Petition to demand Tom Cotton resign.
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Demand the Resignation of Senator Tom Cotton
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January 18, 2025 at 8:55 PM
One of the most common misconceptions about domestic violence is that it is only physical in form. Wrong. Emotional & psychological abuse are equally as dangerous. Deteriorating your self image &worth, leaving you a shell of your former self. Long term exposure can rewire your brain causing C-PTSD.
January 17, 2025 at 1:11 AM
As I read through social media comments related to Jack Smith’s released report, the MAGA men continue to use the diss, “Trump is your daddy”, which is SO weird. I had a discussion w/ChatGPT, why it believes “heterosexual” males would refer to another unrelated heterosexual male as such.
January 15, 2025 at 3:38 PM
👏🏼 Shout out to Kathryn Barger for calling out the CEO of Go Fund Me for excessive fee collecting at a time when you have an unprecedented natural disaster. Corporate America shouldn’t have to be plead upon to help Americans in the most desperate of circumstances.🛑 the greed! #lacounty #lafires
January 11, 2025 at 4:53 PM