"didnt land well" being an understatement of the year. i was not focusing on the trauma i could bring up and that was fucked up of me

no, youre right. im sorry, i was trying to make a point that didnt land well. do you want me to delete?

which is where i was going. even the lives of ppl that were supposedly supposed to be "saved" by adoption (like from an abusive parent that likely would have killed everyone involved) still are fucked over by the entire system that relies on adoption to "solve" these issues instead of doing anything

not gonna trauma dump but our ma DID try to get this guy arrested multiple times but he has a lot of "ins" at the local PD. im not even saying dont be mad but it was seriously the cops corruption and the dad that were the super fucked up ones here, not the then homeless 20yr old w no social support

its hard yk bc his dad almost killed her like 3x and then would make it REALLY clear he was able to and woulve killed me bc "he gave up his kid while keeping me" like i still have nightmares about his dad. so i understand the anger but i just wanted it directed at his dad more than our ma

Depressed to the point of no longer being depressed. I just sorta feel like Im.... there. Going thru the motions, but not even able to do that. I'm seriously not okay I've literally been crying on and off since i woke up and idk what to do anymore

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hes not like, irredeemably bad i wouldnt fw him otherwise, but i literally asked him for his input on something and deferred to him as an expert on a subject ik he knows a lot about and his response was to be a condescending dick about it like ?

thank you honestly it feels good to not be alone here. like hes low key coming off like an irritating ass lib that "recognizes his privlege" but doesnt really act like it when it comes to his actual input w/i his interpersonal relationships? grateful my partner also hates this side of the guy tho

okay apparently hes just "like that" with the things he thinks hes an expert on which is actually a REALLY BAD LOOK IF YOU ARE A STRAIGHT WHITE DUDE WHOSE PARENTS OWN TWO HOUSES???

but the problem is that *I* feel like im an outsider in the group already bc theyre mostly my partner's friends from school except one person that i actually have a lot in common w/ but theyre not reachable rn and my partner is across the country and im alone except for this one guy im TRYING WITH

not to mention how many friends dropped me after i came out bc of how "annoying" i was for being trans and mentally ill and food/housing insecure.

like i genuinely don't get why this guy thinks its cool to respond w nothing but hostility when he KNOWS hes got the most privlege out of all of us