if your standard sense of humor is the sort where you routinely heckle and roast your friends I need you to understand you can't just automatically do that to strangers on the internet and expect them to be chill about it. it really just comes off like you are being mean to someone for no reason.

I cannot emphasize enough, if you are queer or a queer ally, you *need* to support pornographic expression
And in turn, if you're a nsfw artist / model or an enjoyer of such works, you *need* to support lgbt folk

It is simply self preservation. The two groups are the same in the eyes of our enemies