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K Lucian Jones (Kit)
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Horror writer. Queer goth kitchen thembo
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lol yes
("I just don't think anger is a healthy emotion," someone had said to Kristen once. Possibly in a group therapy session. Possibly after sex. "That sounds like a personal problem," she had replied.)
November 19, 2025 at 3:08 PM
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Oof yes (Glass Houses by Madeline Ashby)
"It's America, so remember to dress like a girl," Sumter had joked. (Well. "Joked." He was laughing when he said the words. Somehow that made it into a joke. Or at least, it made it into a thing she was supposed to laugh at. Kristen considered it a major failure of early childhood education that students were encouraged to learn the difference between laughing with and laughing at, without ever learning about laughing for, or how often in life they would be asked to laugh for someone else.)
November 19, 2025 at 2:52 PM
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"California, where people have more feelings" (Glass Houses by Madeline Ashby)
Kristen isn't sure how many CEOs hug their CTOs that way, but things are emotional, and Sumter is from California, where people have more feelings.
November 15, 2025 at 3:19 PM
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The power in recognizing you're the black sheep (Diavola, Jennifer Thorne)
"Where was I? Oh right, so here's the thing, Cat. You were looking for the weak one in the flock, right? The one you could draw aside and push over the edge. Isolate from everyone and feed upon, but see, that was the first flaw in your logic: I'm not a lost lamb. I'm a black sheep. These are two very different things."
November 14, 2025 at 4:50 PM
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My sister has a bunch of beautiful needle felted sea creature ornaments up on her etsy shop, please check it out! @familiaroddling.bsky.social www.etsy.com/shop/Familia...
Needle felted ornaments in a variety of sea creature shapes: lobster, crayfish, seahorse, and crab
November 11, 2025 at 6:35 PM
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"It seemed to Anna that the concept of "vacation" was antithetical to the concept of "family."" - Diavola by Jennifer Thorne
Okay, so there were odd things about this villa. Wafting chills, odd sounds, movement when there shouldn't be any, but looking out at this glorious landscape, this pristine day, did it really matter? This was peace. Vacation. Here, now, while the rest of them were sightseeing. It seemed to Anna that the concept of "vacation" was antithetical to the concept of "family." Vacation required vacancy. The abandonment of all scraps of everyday life.
November 7, 2025 at 2:55 PM
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They say write what you know (excerpt from my novel, Ghosts of Bakersfield)
“No, that’s not. That’s not what I meant.” I stumbled over the words. “I just, I’m afraid. My last ex was. Is. She. We fell into a really bad rut for a long time. I don’t want to do that again, but I’m not sure how to avoid it.” Jaime was silent for several long minutes. His arms were still around me but they had gone limp, and I could feel him withdrawing. “Every relationship is different,” he finally said. “We don’t have to repeat our mistakes.” I shook my head slightly. “Every relationship is different, yes, but I’m still the same me,” I told him. “I don’t know if I know how to tell when it’s time to walk away. I don’t trust myself.” “If you walk away before things even begin, will you ever learn that?” His voice was quiet and a little sad. I felt myself drawn in by his vulnerability and repulsed by it at the same time. I leaned into him and felt his arms tighten around me in response. “You have a point,” I said softly. “I guess I’m most afraid of being the one people are leaning on, only to have them withdraw when I finally need something from them.” “You’re leaning on me right now,” he said, and I laughed.
November 2, 2025 at 6:04 PM
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Happy Halloween! I'm Kit and these are my two demon companions
Selfie, wearing red fox ears with fuschia hair Howl, a black and white sphynx cat, wearing black bat wings, and Teto, a gray sphynx cat, wearing a black sweater with a red pentagram on the front
October 31, 2025 at 3:50 PM
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This part!!! The number of times I've heard T1s as having the "good type" as if we T2s brought this on ourselves with bad behavior.

The primary factors for T2 are: genetics, economic indicators of health, childhood trauma, eating disorders, and chronic stress. I sure brought this on myself huh
those devices as well. And so for the type one community to be exclusive, in this moment, in this grand opportunity for all of us to celebrate together, really sort of broke me down in a way, you know, I was like, Why? Why can't we just keep this open? Why can't we make this a win for everyone? Instead of saying, quote, unquote, type two people don't use these devices? And I think that the reason why it was like it was like a jab in my heart is I think that that claiming does something in society, right? It, it functions to show us that large groups of the diabetes are the type one community feel like, maybe type two diabetics aren't using that technology, because they're the ones who don't care. And they're the ones that the stereotype is about. And so that shows me that we have pockets in our type one community that buy into the stereotype just like the public does.
October 28, 2025 at 6:38 PM
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So often in media (maybe especially horror and thrillers) they get diabetes very wrong, and it's obviously being utilized as a device to accelerate the plot/motivate characters. And they treat insulin as if it does the opposite and highs as if they were lows. Crafting for Sinners gets it right 💕
Ruth was constantly battling her blood sugar, especially when funds ran low and she had to ration her insulin--then her blood sugar would hover too high, and she'd drop weight rapidly. She'd become an expert at dosing, at rationing, at knowing the smallest amount she could inject without going into ketoacidosis and having to trek to the ER. High blood sugar wouldn't kill her—at least not imminently, not like the lows, She lived by the adage, the phrase drilled into her head by every doctor since diagnosis: better to be high than low. But sometimes she pushed it too far, even if out of necessity.
October 28, 2025 at 2:13 PM
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Proud to be in good company (from Jenny Kiefer's Crafting for Sinners, which I'm enjoying very much)
Don't be a LOST SHEEP! Do you know a LOST SHEEP? Are YOU a LOST SHEEP? LOST SHEEP are those who have strayed from the Love and Truth of their Creator. This may include: • Liars • Fornicators • Gamblers • Thieves • Hypocrites • Idolators • Atheists • Homosexuals • Punk Rockers • Goths • Witches • Feminists WE CAN HELP PURIFY THEIR SINS!
October 27, 2025 at 2:05 PM
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Tomie
Frame from Tomie (1998), where Tomie says "You know, men are all worthless animals."
October 24, 2025 at 2:00 AM
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This is how I feel
Photo of a scene in Pumpkinead (1988), with a sign saying "LEAVING HOPE"
October 17, 2025 at 10:53 PM
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Teto, you're gonna start hallucinating if you watch Videodrome like that
Teto, a gray sphynx cat, sitting in front of the TV, watching a scene from Videodrome
October 10, 2025 at 1:09 AM
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Monkey (cat) on my back
Selfie of me leaning over with Howl, a small black and white sphynx cat, sitting on my back
October 2, 2025 at 7:39 PM
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"It is said to taste of your mother's dying whisper." (Moonflow, by Bitter Karella. This book is such a romp! Terrifying terf cultists, bizarre mushrooms, creepy forest deities, it's got it all)
The Purple Viscount (Clitopilus violetus) has a wide rounded cap of varying violet to purple hues, topped with patchy wart-like scales. It excretes a sticky syrup-like substance when disturbed. It is said to taste of your mother's dying whisper. —Field Guide to Common Mushrooms of the Pamogo Forest, T. F. Greengarb (1978)
September 18, 2025 at 1:53 PM
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Post a perfect album from the /90s that isn't Nirvana, Pearl Jam, Soundgarden, or Alice in Chains.
Album cover for Depeche Mode's Violator, depicting a red rose against a black background
September 8, 2025 at 3:05 AM
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"Intimacy is bloody treasure"
There used to be an internet meme about the ordeal of being known, or something like that. But Jamie has always believed the truest joy in life is when someone else holds in their hands a relief map to all your most errant nonsense. Money is fake, fame is bullshit, but intimacy is bloody treasure.
August 30, 2025 at 2:34 PM
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I think about this a lot (from Lessons in Magic and Disaster by Charlie Jane Anders)
We so often talk about "chosen family" as if it's the lack of choice that's the problem. Maybe instead of trying to replicate familial structures, especially that of the nuclear family, we could find something new, a paradigm that allows us to cherish each other without staking any claims-something with room for more people, and many types of relationships at play.
August 30, 2025 at 2:29 PM
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Happy #LetterboxdFriday! #LastFourWatched
My letterboxd recent activity, Thunderbolts, Candyman (2021), A Nightmare on Elm Street 4, A Nightmare on Elm Street 3
August 29, 2025 at 7:52 PM
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Ugh, annoyingly relatable (Charlie Jane Anders' Lessons in Magic and Disaster)
Perhaps the downside of being a witch is too much awareness of your own feelings. You spend so much time trying to sink to the bottom of your own emotional lagoon so you can dredge up one honest want, that you stop being able to hide your feelings from yourself. This is annoyingly therapeutic, and it's ruined Jamie for Jacobean theater and Romantic poetry. Whenever Jamie experiences a strong emotion, she's the first to know, which never used to be the case. And most of the time, Jamie has to act on it.
August 25, 2025 at 1:51 PM
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One of many lines I highlighted in the first three chapters we read for our first meeting
A role is a relationship. That means you don't control your role, but you can negotiate it. People expect things from you that might not be reasonable. When you find yourself blamed for a low-quality product (and that will happen), whoever is blaming you probably suffers from role confusion. Maybe they think your job is to beat the product with the Magic Mallet of Quality before it ships, and they think you didn't hit it hard enough. When you're clear about your role-when you have negotiated it-you have a foundation for setting expectations in any situation that may arise. However, even a clear and appropriate testing role is a demanding one.
August 15, 2025 at 2:51 PM
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Mango butter
Three pint jars sitting on the counter, full of golden orange jam
August 10, 2025 at 3:20 PM
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No cheating. Your last saved celebrity photo is your therapist. Who is it?
I get my news from the only reliable source, cryptic symbolism in my dreams Above a photo of agent cooper from Twin Peaks
August 3, 2025 at 3:21 AM
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I think about this quote sometimes
You own everything that happened to you. Tell your stories. If people wanted you to write warmly about them, they should have behaved better. Anne Lamott Bird by Bird
July 9, 2025 at 4:35 AM