What about their children? Did they "fuck around" and are now needing to "find out"?

Is the collateral damage low enough in your mind to just wave away as "it's sad, but maybe it will make the parents wake up?" Because I'm not comfortable with that.

I hope it goes well for you! This is your journey, nobody else's. Try to find the enjoyment in it; there's no letting anybody down.

One of the most hurtful things to happen to me in the last few months was losing a friend pretty much immediately after raising this issue. Suddenly it was "bad feminism" to point out that maybe there are things we can do to help boys not grow up to be chuds.

Source: I teach teens for a living.

Not to be parasocial, but you have given me hundreds of hours of joy over the last decade in some of my darkest moments. It warms my heart to see you living authentically as yourself. I'm so happy for you Kaye, and thankful that you're out there doing what you do!

This book has been a favorite of mine for many years and is a goldmine of quotes like these, but boy is it incredibly depressing to read now that it's been thrown into such sharp relief.

Recognizing yourself as someone who has retained their critical faculties is cold comfort. The damage is done.

I was having a mild anxiety attack at work yesterday and your videos helped put me back in a good headspace!