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Soleil Merroir (they)
@soleilmerroir.bsky.social
NB sx therapist. supervisor. sx worker. activist. mother. land back. Liberation for all.
Or maybe it’s just that I kept my child alive and well 🤣
November 6, 2025 at 5:33 PM
Like obviously the answer is just the fact that we are here, means we have inherent worth. But my value in a community is purged in capitalism because it alienates us from community and interdependence and therein a direct relationship with our labor/ production (value as a part of a whole)
November 6, 2025 at 5:02 AM
Because my 12 yr old self was in love with him on MSCL 🤣
October 12, 2025 at 3:42 PM
And we can be careful how everything we say or do has a lot of power given the dynamic. A technique or makeup tutorial becomes a requirement for approval and belonging in the relationship. #disruptivetherapist
October 6, 2025 at 4:53 AM
Is my offering or reflection efficacious for them? Is it consensual to provide it? What are my expectations in sharing? Who am I/ how am I processing this thing later?
October 6, 2025 at 4:43 AM
Every relationship is an exchange of energy, we can’t block the positive experiences we have with clients, the things we learn from them, ways they show us something within us, in parallel. We can’t still be a human in the relationship, while having ethics.
October 6, 2025 at 4:43 AM
September 26, 2025 at 6:07 AM
Men: the way you heal centuries of sexism is redistribution of the extracted resources and energy. Buy the uber. Call out the sexist bartender. Give femmes space to be heard. Have something interesting to contribute. Be generous kind and curious. And maybe then you’ll get laid again.
September 26, 2025 at 6:07 AM
Haha I’m so glad this thread exists.
September 25, 2025 at 5:31 AM
Reposted by Soleil Merroir (they)
It all comes full circle...
“If she wants to know something specific, but doesn’t want people to notice her asking questions, she should simply make incorrect statements while in the company of experts. Her companions will correct her, especially if they're men.”

- Advice for female agents in WW2, provided during SOE training
September 25, 2025 at 2:53 AM
And then the second most bisxual thing happened: we danced and screamed and planned a workshop at the bar, and she goes home with tinder 🐔
September 24, 2025 at 7:49 AM
Like why is it so hard to center and trust femme connections to work out? 🤣
September 24, 2025 at 6:01 AM