Soleil Merroir (they)
@soleilmerroir.bsky.social
NB sx therapist. supervisor. sx worker. activist. mother. land back. Liberation for all.
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Handling the Holidays as a Survivor of Sexual Abuse
Hosted by Saprea
This virtual session explores #healing resources and support for survivors of childhood sexual abuse.
Free- Nov 11th
#childabuse #sexualabuse #survivor #survivors #abuse
www.eventbrite.com/e/handling-t...
Hosted by Saprea
This virtual session explores #healing resources and support for survivors of childhood sexual abuse.
Free- Nov 11th
#childabuse #sexualabuse #survivor #survivors #abuse
www.eventbrite.com/e/handling-t...
Handling the Holidays as a Survivor of Sexual Abuse
A virtual presentation highlighting healing resources for survivors of childhood sexual abuse.
www.eventbrite.com
November 6, 2025 at 10:25 PM
Handling the Holidays as a Survivor of Sexual Abuse
Hosted by Saprea
This virtual session explores #healing resources and support for survivors of childhood sexual abuse.
Free- Nov 11th
#childabuse #sexualabuse #survivor #survivors #abuse
www.eventbrite.com/e/handling-t...
Hosted by Saprea
This virtual session explores #healing resources and support for survivors of childhood sexual abuse.
Free- Nov 11th
#childabuse #sexualabuse #survivor #survivors #abuse
www.eventbrite.com/e/handling-t...
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November 5, 2025 at 11:09 PM
What are the other metrics you’re dreaming of to measure “okayness?”Like if I can never get ahead in American capitalism, I am never allowed to feel okay.
November 6, 2025 at 4:10 AM
What are the other metrics you’re dreaming of to measure “okayness?”Like if I can never get ahead in American capitalism, I am never allowed to feel okay.
In the therapist intake, what info is actually crucial to provide good care day one? My rule of thumb: would you ask this question to a new connection in your community? 💯 never asking if they had surgery, their birth name, the details of their SI or all their trauma stories. Be a Human first.
November 5, 2025 at 9:59 PM
In the therapist intake, what info is actually crucial to provide good care day one? My rule of thumb: would you ask this question to a new connection in your community? 💯 never asking if they had surgery, their birth name, the details of their SI or all their trauma stories. Be a Human first.
Sees cool art. You might be sapiosxual if you’re first thought is to deep google dive the life and work of the artist/ writer to decide if/ how you can hit on them.
October 12, 2025 at 4:39 AM
Sees cool art. You might be sapiosxual if you’re first thought is to deep google dive the life and work of the artist/ writer to decide if/ how you can hit on them.
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All the cool people are cozy on the Trans Rights Hill 💅
Just saying.
Just saying.
I can't speak for anyone else, but if I have to die on a hill, I think trans rights is as fine a hill as any to die on. 🤷🏼🏳️⚧️
October 8, 2025 at 6:39 PM
All the cool people are cozy on the Trans Rights Hill 💅
Just saying.
Just saying.
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This video of Chicagoans intervening to save a man from being abducted off the streets by ICE is making the rounds on Instagram.
Community action works.
Source: www.instagram.com/reel/DPZL2AL...
Community action works.
Source: www.instagram.com/reel/DPZL2AL...
October 5, 2025 at 5:24 PM
This video of Chicagoans intervening to save a man from being abducted off the streets by ICE is making the rounds on Instagram.
Community action works.
Source: www.instagram.com/reel/DPZL2AL...
Community action works.
Source: www.instagram.com/reel/DPZL2AL...
How do my therapist/ helper colleagues sit with the fact that most of our human connections since Covid (and maybe ever) are with clients? The power dynamic creates social comfort, but doesn’t allow for balance in need or accountability.
October 6, 2025 at 4:43 AM
How do my therapist/ helper colleagues sit with the fact that most of our human connections since Covid (and maybe ever) are with clients? The power dynamic creates social comfort, but doesn’t allow for balance in need or accountability.
if you’re still having straight sx with men, what is the benefit? Can you negotiate it beforehand? We likely won’t cum or emotionally connect, so what’s the exchange? Build an ikea desk? Tech support? Drive to appointments? Feed you? #laborexhange #swliberation
September 26, 2025 at 6:07 AM
if you’re still having straight sx with men, what is the benefit? Can you negotiate it beforehand? We likely won’t cum or emotionally connect, so what’s the exchange? Build an ikea desk? Tech support? Drive to appointments? Feed you? #laborexhange #swliberation
the folks who benefit most from the criminalization of sx work are the same people consuming it. They maintain the power dynamic they get off on: shame-fueled dehumanization of another #swrights #decriminalization #swabolition
September 25, 2025 at 5:51 PM
the folks who benefit most from the criminalization of sx work are the same people consuming it. They maintain the power dynamic they get off on: shame-fueled dehumanization of another #swrights #decriminalization #swabolition
We’re still going to play dumb while we’re training you, but now you pay us a fair wage for it.
It all comes full circle...
“If she wants to know something specific, but doesn’t want people to notice her asking questions, she should simply make incorrect statements while in the company of experts. Her companions will correct her, especially if they're men.”
- Advice for female agents in WW2, provided during SOE training
- Advice for female agents in WW2, provided during SOE training
September 25, 2025 at 5:32 AM
We’re still going to play dumb while we’re training you, but now you pay us a fair wage for it.
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It all comes full circle...
“If she wants to know something specific, but doesn’t want people to notice her asking questions, she should simply make incorrect statements while in the company of experts. Her companions will correct her, especially if they're men.”
- Advice for female agents in WW2, provided during SOE training
- Advice for female agents in WW2, provided during SOE training
September 25, 2025 at 2:53 AM
It all comes full circle...
how would you live if you were centering empathy for others?
September 24, 2025 at 7:53 AM
how would you live if you were centering empathy for others?
The most bisexual thing possible just happened: a girl invited a tinder dude to meet her during our “date,” during which I also left for 10 minutes to try to see a dude crush. 🤣
September 24, 2025 at 6:00 AM
The most bisexual thing possible just happened: a girl invited a tinder dude to meet her during our “date,” during which I also left for 10 minutes to try to see a dude crush. 🤣
I have this problem that once you start playing with me my demon become sooo hungry they just want bigger and harder things. Is it ADHD (stimming, intensity seeking) or ritualistic demon purging through your members? Fists are usually the most versatile and durable tool. #gaydemons
September 21, 2025 at 6:24 AM
I have this problem that once you start playing with me my demon become sooo hungry they just want bigger and harder things. Is it ADHD (stimming, intensity seeking) or ritualistic demon purging through your members? Fists are usually the most versatile and durable tool. #gaydemons
safe(r) community mandates collectively unpacking our internalized isms and their impact transparently and directly, in that same community. If you can hear an upgrade and stay in connection we can grow together. #Accountability #community
September 21, 2025 at 6:03 AM
safe(r) community mandates collectively unpacking our internalized isms and their impact transparently and directly, in that same community. If you can hear an upgrade and stay in connection we can grow together. #Accountability #community
How many overthinks is overthinking 🤣. Teaching or facilitating always includes at least 5-10 wtf why did I do that intrusives for the day after. Not pathology, just neurospice integration
September 21, 2025 at 5:54 AM
How many overthinks is overthinking 🤣. Teaching or facilitating always includes at least 5-10 wtf why did I do that intrusives for the day after. Not pathology, just neurospice integration
Gender binaries exist to reinforce patriarchal systems of control. White men are the biggest threat, not trans ppl.
Heritage Foundation has released an absolutely insane policy proposal to label all trans people as domestic terrorists. It uses completely made up instances of terrorism and made up statistics but facts don't matter to them.
They want us all eradicated.
They want us all eradicated.
September 20, 2025 at 5:01 PM
Gender binaries exist to reinforce patriarchal systems of control. White men are the biggest threat, not trans ppl.
AI can’t get you a gf irl, because dudes without gf’s trained the AIs 🤣 come to my AI gf support group for real skillz practice #AIgf #AIbf #AIsupportgroup
September 16, 2025 at 12:22 AM
AI can’t get you a gf irl, because dudes without gf’s trained the AIs 🤣 come to my AI gf support group for real skillz practice #AIgf #AIbf #AIsupportgroup
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The fact that Matthew Dowd lost his job for pointing out Charlie Kirk’s hate speech, while Brian Kilmeade openly suggests we should euthanize the homeless and there is zero outrage, shows exactly what is terribly wrong with today’s political mainstream media.
September 13, 2025 at 8:35 PM
The fact that Matthew Dowd lost his job for pointing out Charlie Kirk’s hate speech, while Brian Kilmeade openly suggests we should euthanize the homeless and there is zero outrage, shows exactly what is terribly wrong with today’s political mainstream media.
Criminalizing poverty is wild because we are all (except for the 1%) going to unable to afford to live in America very soon. Like even if you hate poor people where’s the self preservation? In a country of radical independence, no communities or social supports; one bad month and that’s it.
This is political violence.
September 11, 2025 at 10:01 PM
Criminalizing poverty is wild because we are all (except for the 1%) going to unable to afford to live in America very soon. Like even if you hate poor people where’s the self preservation? In a country of radical independence, no communities or social supports; one bad month and that’s it.
The risk profile of a therapist with multiple identities is 💯 more about the moralism/ bias of the board members than the actual codes. #swtherapists #multipleidentityprofessionals
September 11, 2025 at 1:19 AM
The risk profile of a therapist with multiple identities is 💯 more about the moralism/ bias of the board members than the actual codes. #swtherapists #multipleidentityprofessionals
Your erotic self is NOT your genital response. It’s your authenticity, voice, playfulness, spark to live and give and dare to feel. We were robbed of access to expansive eroticism because it is our power. #audrelorde #eroticismispower
September 10, 2025 at 6:19 PM
Your erotic self is NOT your genital response. It’s your authenticity, voice, playfulness, spark to live and give and dare to feel. We were robbed of access to expansive eroticism because it is our power. #audrelorde #eroticismispower
your romantic/ sxual relationship doesn't have to be the center of your world for it to be a safe connection. We are actually safer when we spread our needs across multiple supportive humans, putting less pressure on a primary connection.
September 9, 2025 at 10:37 PM
your romantic/ sxual relationship doesn't have to be the center of your world for it to be a safe connection. We are actually safer when we spread our needs across multiple supportive humans, putting less pressure on a primary connection.
Empathy skills school- if you manage the courage to listen to someone share a strong feeling, then do two things: pause. Say something that demonstrates you were listening and one that you care. Ie: woah you’re really going through it, thanks for trusting me to listen. Pause again.
September 9, 2025 at 5:47 AM
Empathy skills school- if you manage the courage to listen to someone share a strong feeling, then do two things: pause. Say something that demonstrates you were listening and one that you care. Ie: woah you’re really going through it, thanks for trusting me to listen. Pause again.