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New year, new me. Back in the gym, eating better, fixing my habits.
What are you changing this year

"I put on heels just to remind gravity who’s in charge."

Had fun with this

Started my morning with coffee and eyeliner — one wakes me up, the other makes me dangerous."

Happy new year

Christmas 2025

Happy Christmas everyone

Mood I’m not telling… yet → Looking over your shoulder with a half-smile.

When I hear the word "crossdressing," the first thing that comes to mind is the joy of expressing my true self.
Whether it's getting a makeover—which can be such a fun and affirming experience—or simply going out with friends for coffee, shopping, or a night out.

My advice to anyone starting out: be patient, be proud, and most importantly, be you. Don’t let fear stop you from shining — every time you step out the door as your true self, you make the world a little more accepting.

I also help organize Glam Girls, a monthly night at DV8 in Dublin, where people from all walks of life can come together, have fun, and feel free to be themselves. Seeing others gain the same confidence I’ve found means the world to me.

I now enjoy dressing up, going out with friends, and sharing my journey on social media. I love showing that crossdressing is not about pretending to be someone else — it’s about expressing another side of who you are.

My wife has been incredibly supportive; she even helps me shop and encourages me to be proud of who I am. Coming out to my family wasn’t easy, but honesty has brought me peace and confidence.

I rediscovered my feminine side a few years ago, after putting it away for much of my teens and early adult life. What started as curiosity soon became something much more meaningful — a way to connect with who I truly am inside.

Hi, I’m Sofia Valham, a crossdresser and fashion lover from Dublin, Ireland. I’ve always had a passion for beauty, elegance, and selfexpression. Fashion has been a part of my life for as long as I can remember even as a child, I loved the feeling of transformation that came with clothes and makeup.