After you do it enough times, just asking stops being just asking and becomes an attack in its own right, becomes a threat, that at minimum the harassment won't stop until you give in. And "just asking" is like the minimum, baseline, backstop level of bad shit that men get up to

Like they're like "oh well it SHOULD be okay to emotionally blackmail someone into having sex" but if someone asked you "do you want to fuck?" and you were like "uh, no thanks" and the same person just stared at you glassy-eyed and repeated themself 15 seconds later it'd piss you right off

“The Imperial need for control is so desperate because it is so unnatural. Tyranny requires constant effort. It breaks, it leaks. Authority is brittle. Oppression is the mask of fear. Remember that.“

ATE DOWN.

today i'll remind them...!

Because it reveals to me that the popular notion of misogyny, gender, and patriarchy makes most cis women believe that if exploitative sexualized violence happens to a feminized subject, if said feminized subject has a "male body", it's not really misogyny and doesn't register as gendered imbalance.

People that haven't studied abuse online, and aren't in community with Black women that receive the most abuse online, trying to make systems to reduce toxicity online?

Makes as much sense as RFK Jr being head of Health and Human Services.🤡

There are real doctors that have studied both topics.