how do you not get exhausted by the endless pain of it all? i know that kindness is imperative to our survival and also just seeing and holding people, but man there’s so much pain and i have *so* little spoons. (these, incl brownies, are great points, i’d just love your insight if you have any!)

will try baby steps! thank you

this is so relatable and so helpful, thank you so much. i definitely need to start isometrics for those muscle groups but sometimes even just that sets off my flares

tired of just trying to get to or treading at water level my entire life. like when will i be able to do one thing driven by my wants and desires

it’s *constant* i need her to stop sending me battles

also if you know how to stop lmk, i’m def making my pain worse and it’s so second nature atp lol

oh you’ll love it then! (i’m so sorry about your hip - i also need a full hip replacement bc it’s bone on bone rn so i feel your pain!) i hope it eases a bit for you!

it’s kind of a C shape i would say. i’m a massive flip flopper and i’ve been waking up in the same position i fall asleep bc of the shape of this thing and my hip is considerably less painful. def recommend this as opposed to the long one, i had the same experience w that one!

all of them are so awesome but those are precioussss

the strawberry ones 🍓🩷

i got the momcozy pregnancy pillow, it’s $45 but $35 on tik tok shop if you can snag it there before the ban

my hip is absolutely fucked (i’ve needed a full replacement since 2020 that i can’t get because it’s on my amputated side), but this is helping me get a smidge of relief that i haven’t gotten in years. DO ITTT