Sharmane Fury (詩織)
@sirauntiemane.bsky.social
Black-Japanese-British-American | Cat Mom | Widow | MLS Student Class of Spring 2027
Podcaster:
Militantly Mixed • BlerdcoMIXed • Matcha, Masala & Murder • Curmudgeons for the Culture
Podcaster:
Militantly Mixed • BlerdcoMIXed • Matcha, Masala & Murder • Curmudgeons for the Culture
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Host of Militantly Mixed and co-hosts of Blerdcomixed and Matcha, Masala & Murder podcasts. Mother of Cats, recently widowed and maneuvering grief, and Sir Auntie to Mixed folks everywhere.
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The latest episode of Militantly Mixed is out now! youtu.be/cM2o6hNOwoc?... Available on Apple, Spotify, Youtube, and more!
Militantly Mixed | Ep. 258 | A Second First Home with Traci Hobson
YouTube video by Militantly Mixed
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November 18, 2025 at 9:56 PM
The latest episode of Militantly Mixed is out now! youtu.be/cM2o6hNOwoc?... Available on Apple, Spotify, Youtube, and more!
#KnitNovember Update: Day 14 bit.ly/ManeKnitNov 🧶
Terrible migraine all day. Spent most of the day laying down 👀 covered & feeling 🤢. I did manage to finish the 🟡 hat though after hours of not restful rest. I also casted on a new hat w/ the remaining skein of 🟢 I used for the fake ombré hat.
Terrible migraine all day. Spent most of the day laying down 👀 covered & feeling 🤢. I did manage to finish the 🟡 hat though after hours of not restful rest. I also casted on a new hat w/ the remaining skein of 🟢 I used for the fake ombré hat.
November 15, 2025 at 5:27 PM
#KnitNovember Update: Day 14 bit.ly/ManeKnitNov 🧶
Terrible migraine all day. Spent most of the day laying down 👀 covered & feeling 🤢. I did manage to finish the 🟡 hat though after hours of not restful rest. I also casted on a new hat w/ the remaining skein of 🟢 I used for the fake ombré hat.
Terrible migraine all day. Spent most of the day laying down 👀 covered & feeling 🤢. I did manage to finish the 🟡 hat though after hours of not restful rest. I also casted on a new hat w/ the remaining skein of 🟢 I used for the fake ombré hat.
This is a rough month for me bcuz it’s my hub’s “death month.” Everyday I can either remember exactly what we’re were doing or it’s a complete blank. I’m also trying to work on final projects for 1st semester of law school, #knitNovember, & doing my Japanese & ASL practice. It feels like too much.
November 10, 2025 at 7:19 PM
This is a rough month for me bcuz it’s my hub’s “death month.” Everyday I can either remember exactly what we’re were doing or it’s a complete blank. I’m also trying to work on final projects for 1st semester of law school, #knitNovember, & doing my Japanese & ASL practice. It feels like too much.
Day 9 Update: Knit November
Spent the day purging clothes & reading from a REAL book for school. I had less knitting time this weekend than last week but I’m making progress on a hat with a decorative pattern.
Fundraiser: $78 of $250 for the American Cancer Society.
- bit.ly/ManeKnitNov
Spent the day purging clothes & reading from a REAL book for school. I had less knitting time this weekend than last week but I’m making progress on a hat with a decorative pattern.
Fundraiser: $78 of $250 for the American Cancer Society.
- bit.ly/ManeKnitNov
November 10, 2025 at 7:10 AM
Day 9 Update: Knit November
Spent the day purging clothes & reading from a REAL book for school. I had less knitting time this weekend than last week but I’m making progress on a hat with a decorative pattern.
Fundraiser: $78 of $250 for the American Cancer Society.
- bit.ly/ManeKnitNov
Spent the day purging clothes & reading from a REAL book for school. I had less knitting time this weekend than last week but I’m making progress on a hat with a decorative pattern.
Fundraiser: $78 of $250 for the American Cancer Society.
- bit.ly/ManeKnitNov
Day 8 Knit November Update
Didn’t get much knitting done. It’s been a rough week—school, podcasts, life. But knitting’s been a bright spot. Three hats done, a few inches of hat # 4 completed today. The fundraiser’s at $78 of $250! Donate/share: bit.ly/ManeKnitNov
(Kreia aka Darth Traya pictured)
Didn’t get much knitting done. It’s been a rough week—school, podcasts, life. But knitting’s been a bright spot. Three hats done, a few inches of hat # 4 completed today. The fundraiser’s at $78 of $250! Donate/share: bit.ly/ManeKnitNov
(Kreia aka Darth Traya pictured)
November 9, 2025 at 8:08 AM
Day 8 Knit November Update
Didn’t get much knitting done. It’s been a rough week—school, podcasts, life. But knitting’s been a bright spot. Three hats done, a few inches of hat # 4 completed today. The fundraiser’s at $78 of $250! Donate/share: bit.ly/ManeKnitNov
(Kreia aka Darth Traya pictured)
Didn’t get much knitting done. It’s been a rough week—school, podcasts, life. But knitting’s been a bright spot. Three hats done, a few inches of hat # 4 completed today. The fundraiser’s at $78 of $250! Donate/share: bit.ly/ManeKnitNov
(Kreia aka Darth Traya pictured)
Day 7 Update: #KnitNovember
Another widow day, I was in full turtle mode, but I kept knitting. Finished a grey Seafarer’s Watchman’s Cap with the same leftover squishy cotton yarn from my nephew’s baby blanket. Hat #3 done.
Fundraiser is now at $78 of $250, thank you, Chuck!
bit.ly/ManeKnitNov
Another widow day, I was in full turtle mode, but I kept knitting. Finished a grey Seafarer’s Watchman’s Cap with the same leftover squishy cotton yarn from my nephew’s baby blanket. Hat #3 done.
Fundraiser is now at $78 of $250, thank you, Chuck!
bit.ly/ManeKnitNov
November 9, 2025 at 6:03 AM
Day 7 Update: #KnitNovember
Another widow day, I was in full turtle mode, but I kept knitting. Finished a grey Seafarer’s Watchman’s Cap with the same leftover squishy cotton yarn from my nephew’s baby blanket. Hat #3 done.
Fundraiser is now at $78 of $250, thank you, Chuck!
bit.ly/ManeKnitNov
Another widow day, I was in full turtle mode, but I kept knitting. Finished a grey Seafarer’s Watchman’s Cap with the same leftover squishy cotton yarn from my nephew’s baby blanket. Hat #3 done.
Fundraiser is now at $78 of $250, thank you, Chuck!
bit.ly/ManeKnitNov
Day 6 #KnitNovember Update: the first donation came in today! I started out today a regular knitting machine but then grief took over & fucked the rest of the day. But I did manage to finish the Easy Ombré hat that I started yesterday so here’s a pic.
November 7, 2025 at 4:52 AM
Day 6 #KnitNovember Update: the first donation came in today! I started out today a regular knitting machine but then grief took over & fucked the rest of the day. But I did manage to finish the Easy Ombré hat that I started yesterday so here’s a pic.
youtu.be/TUkyeGKK-u0
Day 5 Update: Knit November
I didn’t quite have the energy to finish editing last night, but here is my video for Day 5 of #KnitNovember.
Pls donate to my fundraiser for the American Cancer Society. I am trying to raise $250. Any donation or share helps.
Bit.ly/ManeKnitNov
Day 5 Update: Knit November
I didn’t quite have the energy to finish editing last night, but here is my video for Day 5 of #KnitNovember.
Pls donate to my fundraiser for the American Cancer Society. I am trying to raise $250. Any donation or share helps.
Bit.ly/ManeKnitNov
Knit November | Day Five | 5 November 2025
YouTube video by Sharmane Fury
youtu.be
November 6, 2025 at 11:35 PM
youtu.be/TUkyeGKK-u0
Day 5 Update: Knit November
I didn’t quite have the energy to finish editing last night, but here is my video for Day 5 of #KnitNovember.
Pls donate to my fundraiser for the American Cancer Society. I am trying to raise $250. Any donation or share helps.
Bit.ly/ManeKnitNov
Day 5 Update: Knit November
I didn’t quite have the energy to finish editing last night, but here is my video for Day 5 of #KnitNovember.
Pls donate to my fundraiser for the American Cancer Society. I am trying to raise $250. Any donation or share helps.
Bit.ly/ManeKnitNov
Day 4 of #KnitNovember for @AmericanCancerSociety ✅
Busy day with appointments, errands, AND class but I still got my stitches in while doing school reading.
Help me hit my $250 goal to support cancer research + care: bit.ly/ManeKnitNov
Video update here: youtu.be/QvncxOZBafA
Busy day with appointments, errands, AND class but I still got my stitches in while doing school reading.
Help me hit my $250 goal to support cancer research + care: bit.ly/ManeKnitNov
Video update here: youtu.be/QvncxOZBafA
Knit November | Day Four
YouTube video by Sharmane Fury
youtu.be
November 5, 2025 at 6:11 AM
Day 4 of #KnitNovember for @AmericanCancerSociety ✅
Busy day with appointments, errands, AND class but I still got my stitches in while doing school reading.
Help me hit my $250 goal to support cancer research + care: bit.ly/ManeKnitNov
Video update here: youtu.be/QvncxOZBafA
Busy day with appointments, errands, AND class but I still got my stitches in while doing school reading.
Help me hit my $250 goal to support cancer research + care: bit.ly/ManeKnitNov
Video update here: youtu.be/QvncxOZBafA
Life Hit Me with the 1-2 Last Week
Started law school and hot flashes
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September 22, 2025 at 2:42 AM
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Been writing a bit more on my blog lately. I'm going through a very long process of getting an ADHD diagnosis and it has it's challenges with me being a Black-Asian, Queer, Femme that is also grieving the loss of my husband 1 1/2 years ago and perimenopausal...
Been writing a bit more on my blog lately. I'm going through a very long process of getting an ADHD diagnosis and it has it's challenges with me being a Black-Asian, Queer, Femme that is also grieving the loss of my husband 1 1/2 years ago and perimenopausal...
Still on the Long Road to ADHD Diagnosis
ADHD is notoriously underdiagnosed in adults—especially in women, people of color, and queer folks.
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August 23, 2025 at 4:11 PM
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Been writing a bit more on my blog lately. I'm going through a very long process of getting an ADHD diagnosis and it has it's challenges with me being a Black-Asian, Queer, Femme that is also grieving the loss of my husband 1 1/2 years ago and perimenopausal...
Been writing a bit more on my blog lately. I'm going through a very long process of getting an ADHD diagnosis and it has it's challenges with me being a Black-Asian, Queer, Femme that is also grieving the loss of my husband 1 1/2 years ago and perimenopausal...
You know you have made interesting life choices when you are 47 years old and taking a "Hazing Prevention" online course because you about to enter university in 2 weeks.
August 15, 2025 at 6:51 PM
You know you have made interesting life choices when you are 47 years old and taking a "Hazing Prevention" online course because you about to enter university in 2 weeks.
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I guess I have a writing bee in my bonnet, cause I have managed to post two days in a row.
I guess I have a writing bee in my bonnet, cause I have managed to post two days in a row.
What Does It Mean to Be an American?
Today I am burdened with the question: what does it mean to be an American?
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June 16, 2025 at 12:18 AM
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I guess I have a writing bee in my bonnet, cause I have managed to post two days in a row.
I guess I have a writing bee in my bonnet, cause I have managed to post two days in a row.
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I finally wrote something that wasn't primary focused on grief.
I finally wrote something that wasn't primary focused on grief.
A Love Letter to My Toto Bidet Seat
Or: How I Finally Stopped Raw-Dogging the Toilet Seat Like a Damn Savage
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June 14, 2025 at 11:27 PM
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I finally wrote something that wasn't primary focused on grief.
I finally wrote something that wasn't primary focused on grief.
Proud to be the 234th 😎 on @BackerKit for NIOBE & DURA #1 - #3 & TALES OF ASUNDA V2 #1 - #4. Thanks @strangercomics.bsky.social
June 3, 2025 at 7:25 PM
Proud to be the 234th 😎 on @BackerKit for NIOBE & DURA #1 - #3 & TALES OF ASUNDA V2 #1 - #4. Thanks @strangercomics.bsky.social
Why won’t my house magically clean itself? Doesn’t it know we have a guest coming on Friday!?!
May 15, 2025 at 3:21 AM
Why won’t my house magically clean itself? Doesn’t it know we have a guest coming on Friday!?!
Thinking about learning how to watch rugby, cause they have the thigh meats in that sport. All genders…rugby has the thigh meats!
Do I know anybody that knows how to follow rugby, that could teach me how to follow it? I don’t ONLY want to see the thigh meats but the thigh meats are on the list.
Do I know anybody that knows how to follow rugby, that could teach me how to follow it? I don’t ONLY want to see the thigh meats but the thigh meats are on the list.
May 6, 2025 at 3:32 PM
Thinking about learning how to watch rugby, cause they have the thigh meats in that sport. All genders…rugby has the thigh meats!
Do I know anybody that knows how to follow rugby, that could teach me how to follow it? I don’t ONLY want to see the thigh meats but the thigh meats are on the list.
Do I know anybody that knows how to follow rugby, that could teach me how to follow it? I don’t ONLY want to see the thigh meats but the thigh meats are on the list.
I finally have a trash can! 2 months in my new apartment but I finally got one. Hurray for me!
May 3, 2025 at 12:41 AM
I finally have a trash can! 2 months in my new apartment but I finally got one. Hurray for me!
youtu.be/H0o9QBM4LWQ
Half of the DynaMIXED Duo (Me) is back with a new episode of BLERDcoMIXed. Last week I was in Chicago for C2E2 and got to hang out with some friends so I had to do a recap with one of said friends for y'all.
Half of the DynaMIXED Duo (Me) is back with a new episode of BLERDcoMIXed. Last week I was in Chicago for C2E2 and got to hang out with some friends so I had to do a recap with one of said friends for y'all.
Ep 171 | Recap of C2E2 2025 with DeeDee Sweets | BlerdcoMIXed
YouTube video by BLERDcoMIXed Podcast
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April 21, 2025 at 6:25 PM
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Half of the DynaMIXED Duo (Me) is back with a new episode of BLERDcoMIXed. Last week I was in Chicago for C2E2 and got to hang out with some friends so I had to do a recap with one of said friends for y'all.
Half of the DynaMIXED Duo (Me) is back with a new episode of BLERDcoMIXed. Last week I was in Chicago for C2E2 and got to hang out with some friends so I had to do a recap with one of said friends for y'all.
I ate all my fudge from
C2E2 and now I’m sad.
C2E2 and now I’m sad.
April 16, 2025 at 8:47 PM
I ate all my fudge from
C2E2 and now I’m sad.
C2E2 and now I’m sad.
Day ✌🏽 of C2E2! Ted Lasso at your service. Here to help you become the best version of yourself, win or lose! Barbeque Sauce!
April 12, 2025 at 4:58 PM
Day ✌🏽 of C2E2! Ted Lasso at your service. Here to help you become the best version of yourself, win or lose! Barbeque Sauce!
All checked in for my flight tomorrow, so I guess I should probably pack…right?
April 9, 2025 at 6:17 PM
All checked in for my flight tomorrow, so I guess I should probably pack…right?
4 days til C2E2 and my new apartment is filled with boxes and bins and very little walking space will I find a complete cosplay to wear? 🤷🏻♀️ Stay tuned…
April 6, 2025 at 3:01 PM
4 days til C2E2 and my new apartment is filled with boxes and bins and very little walking space will I find a complete cosplay to wear? 🤷🏻♀️ Stay tuned…
Chairs and toilet seats are so much taller in The Netherlands. My fun size ass has to hop up just to sit down.
March 25, 2025 at 4:00 AM
Chairs and toilet seats are so much taller in The Netherlands. My fun size ass has to hop up just to sit down.