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Deena B
@silentmother.bsky.social
Public health professional in nonprofit management. Collector of historical oddities relating to pregnancy, childbirth, and infancy. Gen X mom of teenagers. Centrist Democrat. silentmother.com
I voted. Did you?
November 4, 2025 at 5:26 PM
@nytimes.com this is they kind of thing that caused people to attack Jews. It makes us unsafe. Do better.
July 30, 2025 at 2:49 AM
This cabinet card caught my eye. There’s quite a bit of 19th photo editing going on here. This little boy (indicated by the large lacy collar and style of dress) has an entire floral motif surrounding him that is overlaid to form the teardrop frame. There is a blur to the background behind him.
July 5, 2025 at 10:28 PM
June 3, 2025 at 3:32 PM
Jews are not safe in America.
June 2, 2025 at 11:30 AM
It’s primary day for mayor. We are also voting on a number of judges and three referendums. I did my civic duty and got a newly designed sticker. Did you vote yet?
May 20, 2025 at 3:18 PM
New on the blog: A Dead Woman, Pronatalism, and the Enlightenment

“Ms. Smith’s story is straight out of Brave New World‘s hatchery, and its author, Aldous Huxley, was a lifelong eugenicist. Viewing or using women as “breeders” is pronatalism.”

www.silentmother.com/2025/05/19/a...
May 19, 2025 at 1:16 PM
“… I intend to keep my focus narrow and do what I do best. This next series of posts will focus on pronatalism, because politics invades every aspect of our reproductive and parenting lives.”

www.silentmother.com/2025/05/15/b...
May 16, 2025 at 3:22 AM
I was reminded today that it’s been a while since I shared any books. This is but a small sample of my books on pregnancy, birth, motherhood, and parenting. This includes Lamaze, Dick-Read, a 1st edition Engelmann and Velvovsky, the Soviet who developed what we now call childbirth education #histmed
May 11, 2025 at 5:18 PM
The books you see here are a fraction of my personal library. Eugenics bleeds into every aspect of pregnancy, birth, parenting, sex, religion, culture, politics, law, and education beginning even before the word eugenics was invented by an American, Galton, as a rebuttal to Darwin’s work 1/4
April 26, 2025 at 7:47 PM
It’s not down for me. I even ran a search. It’s fine
March 2, 2025 at 1:40 PM
An orange candle for the Bibas family.
Shabbat Shalom 🧡
February 28, 2025 at 11:01 PM
When things are difficult, maintaining ritual is helpful in maintaining sanity. I have been baking challah and lighting candles every week since Oct 7. That day was a stark reminder that my comfort and complacency as an American, diaspora Jew did not protect me. עם ישראל חי 🧡🧡🧡
February 21, 2025 at 11:58 PM
I remember reading about how during the Shoa the Nazis killed Jewish babies to save bullets. I remember seeing a picture of this. It is burned into the inside of my eyelids. It is that image that I see for the Bibas boys and it it nauseating. May their memories be a blessing
February 21, 2025 at 2:47 PM
In Yiddish, we call them “pishers”. And yes, the similarity to the word “pisser” is exactly the word’s origin.
February 17, 2025 at 1:21 PM
Oh, see it’s about spreading his seed far and wide and making as many babies as possible with his “superior” genes. It’s a form of eugenics… pronatalism.
February 16, 2025 at 9:47 PM
This is the DOJ’s instagram page. “If you are not complying with federal law, you are next” how is this not authoritarianism?!?!
February 13, 2025 at 2:49 PM
The three hostages could barely walk and were being held up by Hamas militants. They were still paraded in front of the crowds and cameras. 490 days of torture and starvation.

There are 76 more hostages held by Hamas. Two of whom are babies🎗️🎗️🎗️
February 8, 2025 at 1:48 PM
Pittsburgh people! There will be a protest downtown on Wed. I do not believe there is a permit for it. Please use appropriate caution.
February 3, 2025 at 5:48 PM
That’s not true. There are Palestinians that live in Israel. They live in the West Bank and Gaza. Jordan was the Arab split of the land. They have that too. And if you want to learn about ethnic cleansing, please read about the Hebron massacre of 1929.
January 31, 2025 at 3:03 AM
Just going to put this here.
January 29, 2025 at 4:25 AM
That’s literally 19th c anti vax propaganda. the-public-domain-review.imgix.net/essays/the-m...
January 28, 2025 at 2:28 AM
Absolutely unacceptable and illegal. I cannot abide with this.

www.newarknj.gov/news/mayor-r...
January 24, 2025 at 12:21 AM
“Uh, but it wasn’t a Nazi salute” 🧐😒

Really people???
January 23, 2025 at 7:02 PM
If you ever had any doubts as to whether or not Musk is an antisemite…
January 22, 2025 at 10:37 PM