Also, people are really going to be sad if I say that my experience in sf congoing fandom is such that I just assume any random unknown-to-me man in sf congoing fandom has committed at least one instance of aggressive sexual predation if not outright assault, because the actual rate is that high.

my jaw is on the floor

good morning

now reading

oh, one does, does one? :p

you like cigars because they evoke an urbane drawing room with hardwood floors and leather upholstery, i like cigars because they evoke the alley behind a leather/Levi bar, we are not the same 😌

incredibly flattered ty!

walker "cptsd: from surviving to thriving" (sighhh)

"many also minimize the deleterious effects of their addiction and jokingly dismiss their need to end or reduce their reliance on them" buddy what you're describing is basically the entirety of my twitter/bsky presence, don't take this away from me

hwæt up

oh agreed, i guess that's what feels so weird about that whole discourse on both sides. like, this isn't some hypothetical! we all are already making the decision to buy bananas or not!

i was already not buying bananas for ethical reasons and i didn't think that was a particularly fringe position