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Side B
@sideb.chez.gay
40-something Brit 🇬🇧 living in rural Ireland 🇮🇪 with my bear of a husband 🐻🏳️‍🌈 Sometimes NSFW 🔞 If you don’t want to see my junk, don’t follow me.
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My husband rudely went to work and left me here in bed all alone. 😠

Someone bring me coffee please. I’m sure I could think of a few ways to show my gratitude.
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We went to FRANCE!
November 20, 2025 at 11:04 AM
Right, we’re boarded, next stop Shannon. It’s been a fantastic trip, but plenty more to see and do. I think we’ll be back! 🇫🇷 🥐 🍷

#RABOT @bearbares.bsky.social
November 20, 2025 at 10:41 AM
I’ll never complain about Dublin or Birmingham airports again. CDG is a shitshow.

(I’m totally gonna complain about Dublin tomorrow when we fly to Birmingham.)

#RABOT
November 20, 2025 at 9:02 AM
For our last night in Paris, I booked a dinner cruise on the Seine. This was a really lovely experience, fine dining with an ever changing view of some famous landmarks, culminating in the Eiffel Tower doing its sparkly thing. ✨

#RABOT @bearbares.bsky.social
November 20, 2025 at 7:54 AM
Chatting with The Other Woman who is dogsitting while we’re in Paris.
November 20, 2025 at 12:02 AM
There’s a cute creperie opposite our hotel we wanted to visit but it’s only open 12:00-14:00 and 19:00-21:00 and we haven’t been anywhere near during those hours.

We are tonight, but we’re heading out for dinner on the seine soooo don’t really want a crepe right now.

#RABOT
November 19, 2025 at 5:54 PM
Today we went to the Louvre and had a lovely long wander around. I didn’t really plan anything, we just went where our feet took us so I’m sure we missed some gems but whatever.

Some of the facial expressions on the paintings… this guy looks like he had a really big night out last night. 🥴😆
November 19, 2025 at 3:27 PM
We did a little bar crawl last night, ended up at Raidd which has very confusing airlock style doors and a shower cubicle in the wall. 🚿 #RABOT
November 19, 2025 at 9:19 AM
Leisurely day today, we were both a bit delicate this morning so we had a late breakfast and took the batobus to explore Isle de la Cité, had a fancy croque monsieur for lunch, then headed back to the Eiffel Tower.

#RABOT @bearbares.bsky.social
November 18, 2025 at 7:19 PM
We had planned to go to the catacombs today but I just went online to book tickets and… it’s closed for renovations until spring. 😖

So now we’re gonna go to Notre Dame and then Père Lachaise cemetery, then maybe have a wander around Montmartre before the Eiffel Tower this afternoon. #RABOT
November 18, 2025 at 9:23 AM
We spent today sightseeing and eating, mostly. 😋

Now back at the hotel to get ready for Lady Gaga later.

#RABOT @bearbares.bsky.social
November 17, 2025 at 3:56 PM
We’re booked to see a show at the Moulin Rouge, but we’re a bit early. Had a wander round nearby, found a nice bar to sit outside and people watch.

#RABOT @bearbares.bsky.social
November 16, 2025 at 8:30 PM
I nipped out for some snackies and dwinks for the hotel room and this is basically outside our hotel. ✨ #RABOT
November 16, 2025 at 5:08 PM
Current status: hacking the hotel TV’s hospitality mode so I can install Plex so we can watch stuff while we’re getting ready to go out. 🤓
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November 16, 2025 at 5:01 PM
Bradderly in Paree. #RABOT
November 16, 2025 at 1:24 PM
Up at silly o’clock to get to the airport in time for our flight to Paris (squee!).

Next stop, Shannon airport!

Using the hashtag #RABOT (Rob And Brad On Tour) so you can filter these posts out if you want.
November 16, 2025 at 5:10 AM
Packed and ready to go, have to head off at like 5am 😩 so now I’m gonna shower and order a pizza and we’ll chill on the sofa for a few hours.
November 15, 2025 at 7:26 PM
I’m off work for a week and a bit, heading to Paris tomorrow for Lady Gaga on Monday, back on Thursday but flying to Birmingham on Friday, back on Sunday but have the following Monday off to recover.

I have some fun stuff booked in Paris and plenty of time for leisurely sightseeing. Can’t wait!
November 15, 2025 at 11:52 AM
Rufus is getting so much more tolerant of Timber. Much less grumbling when he gets close, and just now he let him clamber all over him. 🥰
November 9, 2025 at 9:52 PM
Got a fuckbuddy coming over later and I’m supposed to be doing some housework but I’ve got a donkey-kangaroo hybrid on my lap and a cute puppy snoozing next to me who I don’t want to disturb…
November 8, 2025 at 11:14 AM
Joe Marler in a leather jacket… 😮‍💨
November 6, 2025 at 9:51 PM
I just had to call a locksmith for the first time. I feel like I levelled up as an adult.
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November 6, 2025 at 12:34 PM
Our new puppy is mostly Bernese and apparently that means he gets too warm for cuddles. 😭 He’s sleeping on the FLOOR instead of on my lap. 😭😭😭
November 5, 2025 at 11:21 PM
Rufus is still grumbly but is letting Timber get closer. 🥰 (Timber doesn’t give a fuck about the grumbles and growls back.)
November 4, 2025 at 9:03 PM
Rufus is scared of the couch cushions falling on him, if one of them moves he jumps down.

Maya has weaponised this and if she wants to sit where he is, she’ll put her paw on one of the nearby cushions as a threat.

She just tried this on Timber and is very frustrated that it hasn’t worked. 😆
November 3, 2025 at 3:15 PM