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Straight 4 pay.

Heart of lion, pecs like dinner plates, mind of a caffeinated six year old with a new puppy.

Totally #gay for my amazing husband and boyfriend.

Hearing aid wearing #deaf #gay #vegan
Hive mind! Help!

What mundane thing annoy you? Slow drivers, over sharers, influencers?

What people annoy you? Trump, Rowling?

It's for a project I'm working on. Think "I've got a little list" from the Mikado.
January 21, 2026 at 2:55 PM
🎉COMING SOON🎉

Bothan Bound: City to Countryside Carticles

Two city slickers trade neon buzz for Galway boreens in this raw, rhyming odyssey of leaky roofs, rogue sheep, sidhe whispers, and hard-won belonging. Sullivan-esque verses from sweat-soaked chaos to starlit peace.
January 20, 2026 at 1:12 PM
This gonna get messy.
January 16, 2026 at 10:26 PM
The gym is like a fucking crèche today!
January 16, 2026 at 4:00 PM
Ugh. New passport has arrived. It’s hideous. I want my nice EU passport back!
January 15, 2026 at 4:43 PM
I want to see the application form that went in to the national lottery for funding for #Pillion.
January 14, 2026 at 9:46 PM
The boyfriend has loaned me his violin.

Soon, I shall sing the song of my people.
January 14, 2026 at 7:19 AM
Do I buy a violin?
January 12, 2026 at 11:49 PM
It’s actually really disappointing how many people don’t clean the equipment after they’ve used it at the gym.
January 12, 2026 at 2:06 PM
Why am I seeing so much love for rapist David Bowie recently?
January 11, 2026 at 6:29 AM
H to the A to the M to the MERD!
January 9, 2026 at 2:03 AM
I have instant regret
January 9, 2026 at 12:38 AM
Folks. FOLKS!

All of you!

Yes you at the back.

And you with the tacos.

And you with the smile.

I’m getting drunk.

This don’t happen often but it’s happening tonight.

I apologise now.
January 8, 2026 at 10:04 PM
GTFI! Increased my leg press weight by 20kg.

Gonna vom but hey-ho!
January 5, 2026 at 8:35 AM
-3 and I’m getting looks for being in shorts.

I’m going to tell myself the looks are because I have amazing legs.
January 5, 2026 at 6:44 AM
I think a cup of tea is called for.
January 4, 2026 at 2:39 AM
This I’m going to write one film review a day. Or rather I’m going to try. I may do them on one day and back date them. I’ll stick them on my site (bearbares.com) and on Letterboxd.

Jan 1 - Weapons - boxd.it/cprPGR
Jan 2 - Nobody - boxd.it/cps4FJ
"Fuzzy on the outside, feelings on the inside!" – Fuzzy on the outside, feelings on the inside!
bearbares.com
January 3, 2026 at 10:57 AM
I have resigned myself to the fact that I have to clean the gym machines before I use it as well as after as no asshole seems to do it after!
December 30, 2025 at 12:14 PM
Begonia bored me so much I decided to give myself another piercing.
December 28, 2025 at 9:59 PM
How does Dwayne Johnson get acting work? He’s so bad.
December 25, 2025 at 11:57 PM
I’m watching Wicked. Not seen it before. Please tell me, why was it so popular? It’s utter trash! The writing is so bad! As a librettist I’m arrogantly confident that every single thing I’ve written is superior to this, and I’m my own worst critic. What am I missing? What made this such a success?
December 25, 2025 at 4:15 PM
As Jerry Hall said “My mother said it was simple to keep a man, you must be a cook in the living room, a whore in the kitchen and a maid in the bedroom.”
December 25, 2025 at 12:50 PM
Merry Christmas.
December 25, 2025 at 7:59 AM
In other news, how long does it take for another sense to improve as it’s been 35 years (ish) since I lost my hearing and don’t see any change in the other senses.
December 25, 2025 at 7:58 AM
Thoughts while awake in the early hours…

You know the theory that if you lose one of the five main sense then one of the other ones improves?

So, what if a surgeon detaches my retina for a bit, until my hearing improves then reattaches it once iI’m at a point that I don’t need my hearing aids?
December 25, 2025 at 7:57 AM