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Nia Òla
@shakingsheets.bsky.social
The Disabled Sexplorer.

Writer. Womanist. Heaux Extraordinaire.

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I know I’m not okay everytime I choose to rewatch Power.

Anyway, the theme song is soooo catchy
February 9, 2025 at 3:51 AM
I’m ovulating… oh no
January 20, 2025 at 3:09 AM
Also, I was supposed to end my time on TikTok throwing ass, but they wouldn’t let me upload a video for my last hour so I’ma just put it here. Enjoy.
January 19, 2025 at 5:59 AM
So I wrote a new essay, an attempt to explain why I refuse to name my personal politic.

I’d appreciate it if you gave it a read.

open.substack.com/pub/thatdeep...
January 13, 2025 at 6:10 PM
So this actually means a lot to me.

Stumbling across videos & following me is one thing but choosing to seek out my writing is much more intimate and moving for me.

I’ve always had shit to say & seeing that quality be supported in such a grand way is lovely.

To a thousand more in the new year!
December 24, 2024 at 1:02 PM
Just uploaded a video on TikTok about today but all I’ll add is…

Sex work saved my life, I’m not being hyperbolic. Had I not been afforded economic agency & a robust community willing to ride for me, I’d have died in a very violent, home 10 years ago.

I love us and will see to our freedom someday
December 17, 2024 at 8:58 PM
What portal has the world walked through my guy
December 11, 2024 at 12:41 AM
What’s not to love about dating apps? 🙃🙃
December 10, 2024 at 9:20 PM
Oh my Ori KNEW I was going to end my relationship this summer, she was preparing me 😭😭
December 4, 2024 at 3:46 PM
Huh 😶😶
November 26, 2024 at 10:58 AM
Some of my favorite passages from my latest essay. Can you tell the All Roads Lead to Sex section was the easiest to write?

open.substack.com/pub/thatdeep...
November 16, 2024 at 2:39 AM