and second, you deserve better than that. i know you’ll never see this, because it’s near the end of several, i said several, words. all strung together and everything. but yes, you, even you! deserve better.

remember that.

don’t give your peers the power to dictate your attractions, your feelings that come from your body. don’t let them tell you who you are allowed to love, as if you need their permission. you don’t, first of all.

i’m bringing you care *before we even match*. all of you! even when i’m not matching you! and what are you bringing? only the projection of how much you have been taught to hate yourself and your own body.

i am handing you *everything* you need to *avoid* matching with me and dooming yourself to be haunted by the observable fact that you are attracted to *very* openly trans women. i’m not trying to haunt you! although i do think it’s very funny. i’m trying to help you.

this is the visible overlay text because it is the first bit of text in my profile.

now, fellas. i’m not gonna tell you how to live your life or use these apps. but i’m going above and beyond over here.

said visible text overlay reads:

if you swiped right on me, you’re already attracted to trans women! unmatching me won’t change that, but if you’re still running from yourself, we’re a poor fit anyway, and i’ll thank you for showing yourself out 👋🏼☺️