Jessie Sage
@sapiotextual.bsky.social
probably napping, reading, or daydreaming. lover of strong coffee & the smell of books. she/her.
Dropping my son off at school on my way to work and a woman slows down, rolls down her window, and says, “I don’t know who you are, but you’re killing it in that outfit, KILLING IT!”
My favorite catcalls come from suburban moms in the drop off line. 😍
My favorite catcalls come from suburban moms in the drop off line. 😍
October 24, 2025 at 12:35 PM
Dropping my son off at school on my way to work and a woman slows down, rolls down her window, and says, “I don’t know who you are, but you’re killing it in that outfit, KILLING IT!”
My favorite catcalls come from suburban moms in the drop off line. 😍
My favorite catcalls come from suburban moms in the drop off line. 😍
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October 17, 2025 at 11:41 PM
I just watched the Charlie Sheen doc and for how success he was, it doesn’t seem to me like he spent much on hookers. I bet he was a terrible client.
September 29, 2025 at 12:15 PM
I just watched the Charlie Sheen doc and for how success he was, it doesn’t seem to me like he spent much on hookers. I bet he was a terrible client.
Life imitates art. Or maybe it’s the other way around.
September 25, 2025 at 4:06 PM
Life imitates art. Or maybe it’s the other way around.
My physical therapist outed herself as monogamous when she said she just this week discovered Google Calendar.
September 24, 2025 at 8:45 PM
My physical therapist outed herself as monogamous when she said she just this week discovered Google Calendar.
I can’t imagine wanting a “high level husband.”
September 24, 2025 at 8:20 PM
I can’t imagine wanting a “high level husband.”
Was having knee & back problems so a few months ago I started a pretty intense regime that includes PT, yoga, weight training, and sauna & cold plunge and my body is so tired that my mind is quiet.
Honestly, I highly recommend this approach given the current state of the world.
Honestly, I highly recommend this approach given the current state of the world.
September 23, 2025 at 8:32 PM
Was having knee & back problems so a few months ago I started a pretty intense regime that includes PT, yoga, weight training, and sauna & cold plunge and my body is so tired that my mind is quiet.
Honestly, I highly recommend this approach given the current state of the world.
Honestly, I highly recommend this approach given the current state of the world.
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I get very depressed if I think too much about the Epstein shit because personally I believe that survivors deserve more than just the promise of maybe being a pawn in someone else’s political game after publicly retraumatizing themselves
September 19, 2025 at 10:11 PM
I get very depressed if I think too much about the Epstein shit because personally I believe that survivors deserve more than just the promise of maybe being a pawn in someone else’s political game after publicly retraumatizing themselves
I remember a time when poly used to cause me anxiety and now I’m like, “Wait, it means that I have a Friday night alone in my house to work on my writing, organize my lingerie, and eat ice cream while watching TV my partner doesn’t like?”
It is actually amazing. 😍
It is actually amazing. 😍
September 19, 2025 at 10:41 PM
I remember a time when poly used to cause me anxiety and now I’m like, “Wait, it means that I have a Friday night alone in my house to work on my writing, organize my lingerie, and eat ice cream while watching TV my partner doesn’t like?”
It is actually amazing. 😍
It is actually amazing. 😍
Dawn Hartman & I made some magic ✨
September 8, 2025 at 7:53 PM
Dawn Hartman & I made some magic ✨
One of the great things about being shot by your photographer partner is that you get to see how they see you through their eyes ♥️
September 4, 2025 at 5:32 PM
One of the great things about being shot by your photographer partner is that you get to see how they see you through their eyes ♥️
Fringe and fishnets for the win
September 4, 2025 at 2:52 PM
Fringe and fishnets for the win
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a big mistake we made was computers *should* be refrigerator sized and live in special basements, not ride along in everyone's pocket like an evil Jiminy Cricket
September 2, 2025 at 2:30 PM
a big mistake we made was computers *should* be refrigerator sized and live in special basements, not ride along in everyone's pocket like an evil Jiminy Cricket
On Labor Day, don't forget that sex work is (precarious) work. Show some love to the sex workers who work hard to bring joy and pleasure into your life.
September 1, 2025 at 5:19 PM
On Labor Day, don't forget that sex work is (precarious) work. Show some love to the sex workers who work hard to bring joy and pleasure into your life.
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Here’s an interview I did with with @sapiotextual.bsky.social for @buzzfeed.com in 2021 about talking to sex workers online.
www.buzzfeed.com/jessiesage/h...
www.buzzfeed.com/jessiesage/h...
The Dos And Don'ts Of Reaching Out To A Sex Worker, As Told By Sex Workers
Want to know how to reach out to a sex worker and get the experience you want? Here are a few pointers, from sex workers themselves.
www.buzzfeed.com
August 11, 2025 at 3:45 PM
Here’s an interview I did with with @sapiotextual.bsky.social for @buzzfeed.com in 2021 about talking to sex workers online.
www.buzzfeed.com/jessiesage/h...
www.buzzfeed.com/jessiesage/h...
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This beautiful article helps me articulate my sexuality... I'm passionate about sex. I love to serve my lover, shower with love & ravish her with pleasure. We show up for each other, being present & make connections, caring for the pleasure & needs of our lovers...
“Being ‘good at sex’ is not a matter of technique or physical prowess, it’s a matter of connection — of being present with and for another person.” This week in my Pittsburgh City Paper column Pillow Talk, I talk about what it takes to be “good at sex.”
www.pghcitypaper.com/columns/what...
www.pghcitypaper.com/columns/what...
What does it mean to be “good at sex”?
The things that make a person good at sex often have much more to do with soft skills, not hard ones (pun intended).
www.pghcitypaper.com
June 4, 2025 at 1:48 AM
This beautiful article helps me articulate my sexuality... I'm passionate about sex. I love to serve my lover, shower with love & ravish her with pleasure. We show up for each other, being present & make connections, caring for the pleasure & needs of our lovers...
On International Whores' Day, I found out that my 19-year-old son's girlfriend's parents are forbidding her from coming to my house to visit with him because they did a deep dive, found my writing, and think I'm a corrupting force.
Sex work stigma impacts every part of my life.
Sex work stigma impacts every part of my life.
June 2, 2025 at 11:51 PM
On International Whores' Day, I found out that my 19-year-old son's girlfriend's parents are forbidding her from coming to my house to visit with him because they did a deep dive, found my writing, and think I'm a corrupting force.
Sex work stigma impacts every part of my life.
Sex work stigma impacts every part of my life.
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Don’t miss our latest episode with Zalika U. Ibaorimi, PhD! Listen here: nothustling.com/episode/s3-e... or wherever you get your podcasts. 💚
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March 19, 2025 at 3:16 PM
Don’t miss our latest episode with Zalika U. Ibaorimi, PhD! Listen here: nothustling.com/episode/s3-e... or wherever you get your podcasts. 💚
@nohumaninvolved.bsky.social
@sapiotextual.bsky.social
@nohumaninvolved.bsky.social
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A friend is coming over this afternoon and we are body doubling for each other while we do taxes. I’m pretty sure that’s the only way I’ll be able to face it. Send money for pizza and ice cream 😂
March 19, 2025 at 2:49 PM
A friend is coming over this afternoon and we are body doubling for each other while we do taxes. I’m pretty sure that’s the only way I’ll be able to face it. Send money for pizza and ice cream 😂
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🎉 GIVEAWAY! 🎉
When We’re Not Hustling and Hobby Whores are teaming up again for a special collab episode featuring @miawalsch.bsky.social to discuss the art of leatherwork, and to celebrate, we’re giving away a custom leather harness made by Mia!
When We’re Not Hustling and Hobby Whores are teaming up again for a special collab episode featuring @miawalsch.bsky.social to discuss the art of leatherwork, and to celebrate, we’re giving away a custom leather harness made by Mia!
March 18, 2025 at 3:13 PM
🎉 GIVEAWAY! 🎉
When We’re Not Hustling and Hobby Whores are teaming up again for a special collab episode featuring @miawalsch.bsky.social to discuss the art of leatherwork, and to celebrate, we’re giving away a custom leather harness made by Mia!
When We’re Not Hustling and Hobby Whores are teaming up again for a special collab episode featuring @miawalsch.bsky.social to discuss the art of leatherwork, and to celebrate, we’re giving away a custom leather harness made by Mia!
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In S3 E11 of When We’re Not Hustling, Jessie Sage and Dr. Zalika U. Ibaorimi, PhD, explore identity, race, and sex work—discussing humanism, Black femme identity, and the notion of “no humans involved.” 🫀
March 17, 2025 at 3:31 PM
In S3 E11 of When We’re Not Hustling, Jessie Sage and Dr. Zalika U. Ibaorimi, PhD, explore identity, race, and sex work—discussing humanism, Black femme identity, and the notion of “no humans involved.” 🫀
It’s my 47th birthday today. I’m not mad about it!
March 16, 2025 at 4:13 PM
It’s my 47th birthday today. I’m not mad about it!
I love that it’s warm enough to sleep with the windows open. Simple pleasures.
March 15, 2025 at 2:57 PM
I love that it’s warm enough to sleep with the windows open. Simple pleasures.
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Think you’d be a great guest? Reach out via email at JessieSage_WWNH@proton.me or fill out our contact form here: nothustling.com/contact. 🎤
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March 14, 2025 at 2:44 PM
Think you’d be a great guest? Reach out via email at JessieSage_WWNH@proton.me or fill out our contact form here: nothustling.com/contact. 🎤
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Gotta point out (again) the empowerment conversation is silly.
90% of sex workers don't talk about being empowered. They talk about being employed.
Empowerment doesn't pay bills. Money does. Sex workers work for the same reasons as everyone else- It costs money to be alive.
90% of sex workers don't talk about being empowered. They talk about being employed.
Empowerment doesn't pay bills. Money does. Sex workers work for the same reasons as everyone else- It costs money to be alive.
Another fevered story in the Daily Mail this morning attacking OnlyFans. The British tabloid press has been amping up antiporn stories, in what I suspect is a coordinated campaign to gin up public (and thus legislative) anger.
We've seen this before.
We've seen this before.
February 23, 2025 at 7:10 PM
Gotta point out (again) the empowerment conversation is silly.
90% of sex workers don't talk about being empowered. They talk about being employed.
Empowerment doesn't pay bills. Money does. Sex workers work for the same reasons as everyone else- It costs money to be alive.
90% of sex workers don't talk about being empowered. They talk about being employed.
Empowerment doesn't pay bills. Money does. Sex workers work for the same reasons as everyone else- It costs money to be alive.