I add songs, I audit the list like, once a year, I will probably always keep the first four on this list. (It’s currently filtered to show the most recent additions). You cannot replicate this. I am convinced of it.

But noooooo we just HAD to be easy to exploit 🙄

Notice how these kinds of assessments also tend to get slapped onto non-men 🧐

“This lady was going off in the Starbucks” she was probably being assertive and making sure her drink was to her liking. She was probably rude at worst.

“My boss yelled at me” their boss most likely took them into their office and had a tough conversation with them.

Not to use the word “empath” or whatever but as someone who takes on other people’s feelings and winds up doing more emotional labour than I really need to…people rarely go .5 on the Richter scale.

COME. HOME. DINGUS.