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Ry
@ryanhg87.bsky.social
📍PHX | 🏳️‍🌈 Queer | Open/Poly | he/him | 38

Fan of ambient lighting, nerdy, Trekkie, cooking and cocktails, gaymer, casually outdoorsy, (aspiring) traveler. Occasionally NSFW.
Today’s plan: see some cool sea creatures, and be the hot dad at the aquarium
November 22, 2025 at 3:57 PM
Hey, sometimes the upcharge is worth it. 😘
October 21, 2025 at 11:43 PM
It was 80°F (and sunny, but it's basically always sunny in Phoenix) this afternoon so I took a walk before dramatically trimming back the beard. Felt like a bit of a reset was in order.
October 6, 2025 at 12:00 AM
Time to start a new week. #MonochromeMonday #mcm
September 29, 2025 at 2:51 PM
if you see this, repost with a game from the year you were born
September 28, 2025 at 2:57 PM
Me for the next two days. (At least the Tension Tour live album is out tomorrow for a work day dance party.)
September 25, 2025 at 3:02 PM
If you see this, post a concert pic you took

Kylie Minogue
Phoenix, AZ
April 19, 2025
September 22, 2025 at 4:02 AM
I'm gonna really enjoy this color combo! 😍
September 20, 2025 at 12:24 AM
I get so much use from this screenshot of a tweet. (Work was dumb today but none of it is my fault.)
September 18, 2025 at 2:17 AM
Love the idea (and the song is still a bop) but my phone never makes noises. 😂
September 16, 2025 at 8:18 PM
Happy Thighsday! Going through the closet and reorganizing means I found some underwear I forgot about. 😏
September 12, 2025 at 5:45 AM
A delicious way to celebrate twenty years together. I wonder what those two kids in 2005 sitting on the KU campus, talking all night, would make of the life and family we've built together over these two decades? ❤️ 😘 @dbenhg.bsky.social
September 5, 2025 at 3:31 AM
Just being lazy on this Saturday morning, waiting for my pancakes and coffee.
August 9, 2025 at 2:32 PM
Awwww yeah, we’re back baby!
August 9, 2025 at 12:25 AM
Thanks to the magic of science my hair will soon be a fun color again (and shorter).
August 8, 2025 at 11:25 PM
Said speedo. I only brought one for this trip which tbh was an oversight. Oh well. Next time. 😆
July 25, 2025 at 6:13 PM
Started the day with local coffee, a local donut, and a fantastic view. Now I'm lounging by a pool in a speedo. Not a bad beginning to a long weekend. 🏜️ 😎
July 25, 2025 at 5:34 PM
Don't forget to stretch! #Thighsday
July 24, 2025 at 10:58 PM
"I've been known to twinkle a toe or two."
July 20, 2025 at 9:28 PM
Happy Pancake Saturday!
July 19, 2025 at 3:06 PM
If you’re seeing this, drop an old pic of yourself that you still love

(ca. 2011)
July 12, 2025 at 3:25 PM
Happy Monday, folks. It's a new week and I'm feeling good. #MCM #MonochromeMonday
July 7, 2025 at 4:03 PM
Ahhhh summer in Phoenix. (It "feels" several degrees cooler because of the ridiculously low humidity, but that doesn't really change things at these temperatures.)
June 30, 2025 at 10:48 PM
My attempt at fresh pasta turned out pretty good. Nothing fancy, just the simple "fettuccine alfredo" from Rome with some chicken and parsley.(The fettuccine is a touch too thick but that's on me for being impatient and rolling by hand.)
June 30, 2025 at 2:10 AM
Sparkling water restock time.
June 28, 2025 at 6:13 PM