RoundAlt (he/him)
roundalt.bsky.social
RoundAlt (he/him)
@roundalt.bsky.social
Gay mid-30s FtM. Originally intended to be a kink blog but we live in interesting times. Can't even be weird on the Internet in peace.

Disabled and queer. Overthinking everything and caring too much even about people who see me as subhuman.
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3/ Sex and kinks are not inherently abusive/unsafe. But abusive people are always willing to use a scapegoat as an excuse for their own shitty behavior

Remember that.
January 31, 2026 at 10:31 PM
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2/ The next time you see someone claiming that sex is evil or that kinks are immoral/unsafe/exploitative, I really, REALLY want you to question whether or not that person actually understands the difference between CONSENSUALLY engaging in activities w/ others vs ABUSING people through manipulation
January 31, 2026 at 10:29 PM
I appreciate the specific phrasing.
February 1, 2026 at 5:49 AM
We have to wait until people aren't disappearing by ICE. I just hope it gets abolished fast enough that we haven't been made fully illegal to exist yet. I know that's coming fast. And I hope enough people care.
FWIW he did mention trans rights in a different video.
January 31, 2026 at 6:57 AM
Pondering, "What sort of man do I want to be?" I was told asking for help, listening with empathy, and admitting when I was wrong would out me as FtM or gay. That only underscores how emotionally deprived men dehumanize themselves & others.

Honesty, empathy, and flexibility are not weaknesses.
January 30, 2026 at 9:44 PM
That must be an incredible rush of validation. Sorely needed. I'm impatiently waiting until I get off work to watch it, as I already know it deserves my full attention and energy. (A few min checking bsky is shorter than the video :p)
January 30, 2026 at 8:20 PM
FWIW, It made me feel better as a disabled trans man for you to even mention we're human too. Most queer people don't have a voice anyone will listen to.
Silence has been so deafening I confronted my work's executives-- terrifying. Still employed! People need to say that things are not acceptable!
January 23, 2026 at 12:30 AM
Dirty Labs has a fragrance free dishwasher powder that is safe for even me, who is severely allergic to fragrances. It's not a cheap option but it's safe.
December 10, 2025 at 1:36 PM
Remember when "woke" was not only an endonym, but a compliment? That's going to be very confusing for historians examining this period in history.
June 4, 2025 at 6:06 PM