Pamela Mars
@pamelamars.bsky.social
I enjoy walks in the park and the occasional existential crisis
We’re witnessing the death of discernment in real time
November 16, 2025 at 5:11 PM
We’re witnessing the death of discernment in real time
I kept seeing people comment about danish cookies being made in India so I look up the videos and they’re all ai, and people are believing they're real.
The words will be morphing, hands moving in impossible ways, mice materialising out of thin air, etc & people think it’s real
The words will be morphing, hands moving in impossible ways, mice materialising out of thin air, etc & people think it’s real
a cartoon of homer simpson standing in the grass with the words `` the secondhand embarrassment is too real ''
ALT: a cartoon of homer simpson standing in the grass with the words `` the secondhand embarrassment is too real ''
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November 16, 2025 at 5:10 PM
I kept seeing people comment about danish cookies being made in India so I look up the videos and they’re all ai, and people are believing they're real.
The words will be morphing, hands moving in impossible ways, mice materialising out of thin air, etc & people think it’s real
The words will be morphing, hands moving in impossible ways, mice materialising out of thin air, etc & people think it’s real
Say someone beat someone up causing permanent damage after that person stole something from them.
The person who got beat up is still a thief while also being a victim.
Why have people forgotten this shit?
The person who got beat up is still a thief while also being a victim.
Why have people forgotten this shit?
November 16, 2025 at 4:06 PM
Say someone beat someone up causing permanent damage after that person stole something from them.
The person who got beat up is still a thief while also being a victim.
Why have people forgotten this shit?
The person who got beat up is still a thief while also being a victim.
Why have people forgotten this shit?
Say there’s a court case where the defendant countersued.
Both plaintiff and defendant can be charged.
The defendant can be charged for what they were accused of & the plaintiff can also face charges for anything they did.
BOTH CAN BE WRONG!!!
Both plaintiff and defendant can be charged.
The defendant can be charged for what they were accused of & the plaintiff can also face charges for anything they did.
BOTH CAN BE WRONG!!!
November 16, 2025 at 4:01 PM
Say there’s a court case where the defendant countersued.
Both plaintiff and defendant can be charged.
The defendant can be charged for what they were accused of & the plaintiff can also face charges for anything they did.
BOTH CAN BE WRONG!!!
Both plaintiff and defendant can be charged.
The defendant can be charged for what they were accused of & the plaintiff can also face charges for anything they did.
BOTH CAN BE WRONG!!!
Why tf do people no longer understand that two things can exist at the same fucking time
Two people can be wrong and one facing consequences doesn’t negate the other person’s wrongdoing
How have people gotten so DUMB?!
Two people can be wrong and one facing consequences doesn’t negate the other person’s wrongdoing
How have people gotten so DUMB?!
November 16, 2025 at 3:58 PM
Why tf do people no longer understand that two things can exist at the same fucking time
Two people can be wrong and one facing consequences doesn’t negate the other person’s wrongdoing
How have people gotten so DUMB?!
Two people can be wrong and one facing consequences doesn’t negate the other person’s wrongdoing
How have people gotten so DUMB?!
It’s been like 4 years since I’ve dated anyone nor been interested in putting myself out there for some loser to be dramatic over nothing whilst not even checking on how I feel
I don’t want post after post about something I lack interest in
I’m fine. I’m healed. I don’t give a fuck about my ex ffs
I don’t want post after post about something I lack interest in
I’m fine. I’m healed. I don’t give a fuck about my ex ffs
November 16, 2025 at 3:16 PM
It’s been like 4 years since I’ve dated anyone nor been interested in putting myself out there for some loser to be dramatic over nothing whilst not even checking on how I feel
I don’t want post after post about something I lack interest in
I’m fine. I’m healed. I don’t give a fuck about my ex ffs
I don’t want post after post about something I lack interest in
I’m fine. I’m healed. I don’t give a fuck about my ex ffs
Turned out HE wasn’t over me. HE reached out, HE made plans, HE initiated a reunion…I got gaslit about it by friends & others who thought they knew more about the situation than I did.
People keep you in the loop involuntarily, then wag fingers at you for getting stuck.
People keep you in the loop involuntarily, then wag fingers at you for getting stuck.
November 16, 2025 at 3:12 PM
Turned out HE wasn’t over me. HE reached out, HE made plans, HE initiated a reunion…I got gaslit about it by friends & others who thought they knew more about the situation than I did.
People keep you in the loop involuntarily, then wag fingers at you for getting stuck.
People keep you in the loop involuntarily, then wag fingers at you for getting stuck.
I had people relay info I never wanted about an ex for over a fucking decade.
Then if I wondered what he was up to, I’d get lectures from people insisting I wasn’t over him when I was simply curious about a person who played a significant role in my life.
Then if I wondered what he was up to, I’d get lectures from people insisting I wasn’t over him when I was simply curious about a person who played a significant role in my life.
November 16, 2025 at 3:08 PM
I had people relay info I never wanted about an ex for over a fucking decade.
Then if I wondered what he was up to, I’d get lectures from people insisting I wasn’t over him when I was simply curious about a person who played a significant role in my life.
Then if I wondered what he was up to, I’d get lectures from people insisting I wasn’t over him when I was simply curious about a person who played a significant role in my life.
The way people try to keep you in the healing phase after a break up. I’ll already be sick of talking about an ex, yet people will contact me with news and I just don’t care. I don’t want to watch video after video about it either. I want cute animal videos and that’s fucking it.
November 16, 2025 at 3:05 PM
The way people try to keep you in the healing phase after a break up. I’ll already be sick of talking about an ex, yet people will contact me with news and I just don’t care. I don’t want to watch video after video about it either. I want cute animal videos and that’s fucking it.
Last night my nephew tells my twin and I that people are talking to him in his room at night…how do you even respond to that?
I kept trying to tell him someone was just watching a video on their phone, but he kept insisting it was someone talking to him.
I kept trying to tell him someone was just watching a video on their phone, but he kept insisting it was someone talking to him.
November 16, 2025 at 2:46 PM
Last night my nephew tells my twin and I that people are talking to him in his room at night…how do you even respond to that?
I kept trying to tell him someone was just watching a video on their phone, but he kept insisting it was someone talking to him.
I kept trying to tell him someone was just watching a video on their phone, but he kept insisting it was someone talking to him.
The judgement came from inside the house…I’d just let them think what they wanted to think but they thought that gave them permission to make their fucking comments. Let’s just say, none of my actual friends liked any of them.
November 15, 2025 at 4:00 PM
The judgement came from inside the house…I’d just let them think what they wanted to think but they thought that gave them permission to make their fucking comments. Let’s just say, none of my actual friends liked any of them.
I used to work on a show that shall remain nameless but I created a persona that was mistaken for my own & I’d improv stuff others could play off of while not getting much in return.
Well the judgement I received for creating entertainment...prob why I keep getting messages about being missed LOL
Well the judgement I received for creating entertainment...prob why I keep getting messages about being missed LOL
November 15, 2025 at 3:58 PM
I used to work on a show that shall remain nameless but I created a persona that was mistaken for my own & I’d improv stuff others could play off of while not getting much in return.
Well the judgement I received for creating entertainment...prob why I keep getting messages about being missed LOL
Well the judgement I received for creating entertainment...prob why I keep getting messages about being missed LOL
Something I think is funny about people who don’t know who Father John Misty is, is that some of them believe he’s a pastor named John Misty.
Girl, if they knew…
Girl, if they knew…
November 15, 2025 at 3:46 PM
Something I think is funny about people who don’t know who Father John Misty is, is that some of them believe he’s a pastor named John Misty.
Girl, if they knew…
Girl, if they knew…
I had a fitting and was wondering why every skirt was way too big for me, then I realised she measured below my waist, so she was using my upper hip measurement as my waist, so she was fitting me for a waist that was over 30“
Let’s see if my wardrobe fits on the day
Let’s see if my wardrobe fits on the day
November 15, 2025 at 12:18 AM
I had a fitting and was wondering why every skirt was way too big for me, then I realised she measured below my waist, so she was using my upper hip measurement as my waist, so she was fitting me for a waist that was over 30“
Let’s see if my wardrobe fits on the day
Let’s see if my wardrobe fits on the day
Got to love the massive detours uber/lyft drivers take on the way to pick you up when you know there’s no road construction in the area
November 14, 2025 at 12:05 PM
Got to love the massive detours uber/lyft drivers take on the way to pick you up when you know there’s no road construction in the area
Getting dirty looks cuz I’m standing near this girl’s ugly boyfriend. Black under his fingernails, shit breath…girl, no one wants him. Stop being delusional.
November 13, 2025 at 3:02 PM
Getting dirty looks cuz I’m standing near this girl’s ugly boyfriend. Black under his fingernails, shit breath…girl, no one wants him. Stop being delusional.
Product size is also why I chose not to buy the Yves Rocher advent. It’s full of their own products & I can’t justify spending $70 for such little product even though I really want the fun of opening an advent calendar.
They could afford to throw in a few full size products
They could afford to throw in a few full size products
November 11, 2025 at 9:00 PM
Product size is also why I chose not to buy the Yves Rocher advent. It’s full of their own products & I can’t justify spending $70 for such little product even though I really want the fun of opening an advent calendar.
They could afford to throw in a few full size products
They could afford to throw in a few full size products
I get things cost more these days but why are we now having to pay for perfume samples?
The least they can do ia offer a trial size instead of charging us for those little vials that used to be complimentary
The least they can do ia offer a trial size instead of charging us for those little vials that used to be complimentary
November 11, 2025 at 8:56 PM
I get things cost more these days but why are we now having to pay for perfume samples?
The least they can do ia offer a trial size instead of charging us for those little vials that used to be complimentary
The least they can do ia offer a trial size instead of charging us for those little vials that used to be complimentary
And again, disagreements aren’t gaslighting!! Gaslighting is the intentional act of convincing someone they’re crazy. It’s not a “that tastes like onion” “it’s not onion, it’s garlic“ ”WELL IT TASTES LIKE ONION” type deal…if that’s even a good example or not lol
November 11, 2025 at 5:57 PM
And again, disagreements aren’t gaslighting!! Gaslighting is the intentional act of convincing someone they’re crazy. It’s not a “that tastes like onion” “it’s not onion, it’s garlic“ ”WELL IT TASTES LIKE ONION” type deal…if that’s even a good example or not lol
Like I remember back when I was modelling, someone said someone should model & I said this person will have to get into shape. This was met with accusations I was calling the person fat when I wasn’t. I was simply stating there was a standard this person didn’t meet.
November 11, 2025 at 5:51 PM
Like I remember back when I was modelling, someone said someone should model & I said this person will have to get into shape. This was met with accusations I was calling the person fat when I wasn’t. I was simply stating there was a standard this person didn’t meet.
Like if it’s happened before where there’s been an underlying meaning other than what was stated, yes, address that. but if someone is simply communicating a point, don’t jump to conclusions, dictating they meant something else.
November 11, 2025 at 5:47 PM
Like if it’s happened before where there’s been an underlying meaning other than what was stated, yes, address that. but if someone is simply communicating a point, don’t jump to conclusions, dictating they meant something else.
Normalise not adding context to people’s words. So many arguments happen when people misidentify what people are saying because they’re not actively listening.
Intent matters. Sometimes we hear dog whistles loud and clear, but you can’t accuse everyone of it.
Intent matters. Sometimes we hear dog whistles loud and clear, but you can’t accuse everyone of it.
November 11, 2025 at 5:46 PM
Normalise not adding context to people’s words. So many arguments happen when people misidentify what people are saying because they’re not actively listening.
Intent matters. Sometimes we hear dog whistles loud and clear, but you can’t accuse everyone of it.
Intent matters. Sometimes we hear dog whistles loud and clear, but you can’t accuse everyone of it.
If you are encouraging others to take care of their health, yes, you are working to better lives, but if you’re turning your nose up at people for not dedicating their lives to getting abs, you need to get that ego checked.
November 11, 2025 at 4:30 PM
If you are encouraging others to take care of their health, yes, you are working to better lives, but if you’re turning your nose up at people for not dedicating their lives to getting abs, you need to get that ego checked.
I’m not referring to everyone who goes to the gym but there are several fitness types who believe they are superior to others simply due to their focus on exercise.
It‘s a great thing to make an effort to be active and take care of your body, but it gives people such a sense of achievement that..
It‘s a great thing to make an effort to be active and take care of your body, but it gives people such a sense of achievement that..
November 11, 2025 at 4:28 PM
I’m not referring to everyone who goes to the gym but there are several fitness types who believe they are superior to others simply due to their focus on exercise.
It‘s a great thing to make an effort to be active and take care of your body, but it gives people such a sense of achievement that..
It‘s a great thing to make an effort to be active and take care of your body, but it gives people such a sense of achievement that..
Wish people live streaming concerts would shut up and not sing along cuz all you can hear is them singing off key.
November 11, 2025 at 2:45 AM
Wish people live streaming concerts would shut up and not sing along cuz all you can hear is them singing off key.