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Pamela Mars
@pamelamars.bsky.social
I enjoy walks in the park and the occasional existential crisis
Alcohol affects people differently and if they’re clearly out of it, why is sex on the table?

My other question is why tf no one stepped in when they saw where it was going. Like they said the camera man followed them into the bathroom and filmed it. That’s deranged.
February 17, 2026 at 3:55 PM
The Shandi thing in this new doc about antm brings to question why anyone thought it was okay to hook up with a person they don’t know who is extremely drunk. lets put away the “ they shouldn’t have drank that much” nonsense & really acknowledge most men can’t perform if they’re are as wasted.
February 17, 2026 at 3:53 PM
Anonymous accounts with no content shouldn’t be allowed to comment

It’d save a lot of petty arguments from happening

BUT we all know those accounts are used to say the most vile shit cuz they think it’s a way they can be racist/sexist/etc consequence free
February 17, 2026 at 3:04 PM
Had I given in to a few, I’d prob be married too but I don’t believe in lowering standards for a relationship, esp post abuse, which I’m sure he denies, but I have too much in writing.

Divorce rates would be lower if people stopped settling for losers.
February 17, 2026 at 2:50 PM
Then they'll pressure them cuz they got aroused. Like blue balls was fucking bs.

Society groomed girls into believing being chosen was the ultimate accomplishment in life, which is why so many loser men are married.
February 17, 2026 at 2:47 PM
They’ll parrot rapist shit cuz they see dating as transactional, so they think any money spent, even the lowest amount, warrants intimacy.

They’ll use substances to get what they want, including getting their date drunk.
February 17, 2026 at 2:45 PM
Women are pressured/conditioned from childhood to give every loser who looks their way a chance, which we’ve seen change in recent years with Gen Z.

These loser guys response has to become red pilled incels who'll use force instead of simply becoming a better person.
February 17, 2026 at 2:42 PM
It’s why they’re delusional regarding their appeal. They believe they can let themselves fall apart physically, mentally, hygienically, etc & still get the girl of their dreams, who they'll treat like shit & use as a sex doll cuz they think their options won’t ever cease to exist.
February 17, 2026 at 2:40 PM
These guys are so self important that they believe the internet needs to fully cater to them, even though they’ve contributed little to nothing to society.

Point out their lack of attractiveness to them, they’ll say men don’t have to be attractive, which is nonsense.
February 17, 2026 at 2:37 PM
Men need to deprogram themselves out of believing women solely exist for their viewing pleasure.

Every time I see a particular actor posted, there’s always loser guys in the comments letting it be known that they don’t find them attractive. These guys are rarely good looking themselves.
February 17, 2026 at 2:35 PM
Like someone explain why my doctor gatekept a neurologist too???

During my eeg, none of my triggers were used. Like it wasn’t sleep deprived either. So catching anything during that hour wasn’t likely. But my doctor thinks no further testing is necessary so I get to just suffer.
February 16, 2026 at 2:23 PM
Just venting it out on the internet cuz these professional who exist to help won’t help me

The epilepsy foundation was validating at least. I just wished they had directed me to a neurologist so I can skip the negligence at my doctor’s office
February 16, 2026 at 2:20 PM
BUT my issue there would then be having to find a new doctor which isn’t easy now that drug ford has destroyed healthcare, however I can’t be denied care while having a condition that requires medical attention. And I don’t want to see my doctor for anything now.
February 16, 2026 at 2:18 PM
My other issue is it could nit even be epilepsy. It could be an issue with my neck or circulation or a fucking tumour etc etc etc

So my doctor just cutting off investigating this due to a negative eeg really does make me want to submit an official complaint
February 16, 2026 at 2:17 PM
But guess when my first seizure was…I was 11 months old. They never thought to check in on that while I was growing up even though I was displaying traits of epilepsy
February 16, 2026 at 2:15 PM
its just such an insult after finally finding an answer independently to this lifelong mystery I complained about since childhood & having my doctor act annoyed about helping me get diagnosed
February 16, 2026 at 2:12 PM
I see the errors, I missed them before posting, but maybe I shouldnt correct them so people can see the dysfunction this shit causes
February 16, 2026 at 2:10 PM
At this point, I think they only way to get taken seriously us to have a serious seizure, the only type people know about so they can see I’m not just making claims…but why tf would I lie to get seizure medication???? I wont even take a tylenol unless I’m desperate.
February 16, 2026 at 2:08 PM
And ford has gutted healthcare. so my chances of getting a diagnosis are slim now.
People have told me to just pay thousands to get one but this is an issue with my brain, not elective surgery. If you suggest it, then fucking give me the money for it.
February 16, 2026 at 2:06 PM
I put this online so there’s a record in case of sudep, which I don’t think I’m at risk for but in the event, there’s a public record of being denied medical care regarding a lifelong problem.
February 16, 2026 at 2:04 PM
I ask again are seizures and these events normal for migraines even…cuz idk, seems abnormal to me but he just refuses to help me get a diagnosis cuz I had a negative eeg…it’s pretty common to have a neg eeg even while having seizures daily. it in no way means epilepsy is off the table
February 16, 2026 at 2:02 PM
Once again, temporal lobe epilepsy type activity this morning…these random Headrush type things that feel like deja vu at first

I check my log and they’ve been increasing…but my doctor says they’re just *shoulder shrug* “idk, migraines?”
February 16, 2026 at 2:00 PM
If you come at them with facts, they gaslight you.

They’ll pick apart your wording if its not a direct reiteration from the top of google…they use these tactics cuz it worked on them.

Like they’ll argue that your name is something different from what’s on your birth certificate ffs
February 15, 2026 at 11:59 PM
Most of it made zero sense. I think anyone who had undiagnosed cluster b disorders were the majority of the targets & most can’t even tell you why they went to extremes without parroting slogans.

It’s why they always fail in debates when yelling and fallacies don’t work.
February 15, 2026 at 11:56 PM
I’ve been saying for a long time that I think brainwashing techniques were used in maga…and well, there’s been a ton of proof in how cult like the following is, but now I think it’s the IDU using it everywhere.

Just look at the amount of radicalisation to the alt right occurred during Covid
February 15, 2026 at 11:54 PM