Pamela Mars
@pamelamars.bsky.social
I enjoy walks in the park and the occasional existential crisis
The judgement came from inside the house…I’d just let them think what they wanted to think but they thought that gave them permission to make their fucking comments. Let’s just say, none of my actual friends liked any of them.
November 15, 2025 at 4:00 PM
The judgement came from inside the house…I’d just let them think what they wanted to think but they thought that gave them permission to make their fucking comments. Let’s just say, none of my actual friends liked any of them.
I used to work on a show that shall remain nameless but I created a persona that was mistaken for my own & I’d improv stuff others could play off of while not getting much in return.
Well the judgement I received for creating entertainment...prob why I keep getting messages about being missed LOL
Well the judgement I received for creating entertainment...prob why I keep getting messages about being missed LOL
November 15, 2025 at 3:58 PM
I used to work on a show that shall remain nameless but I created a persona that was mistaken for my own & I’d improv stuff others could play off of while not getting much in return.
Well the judgement I received for creating entertainment...prob why I keep getting messages about being missed LOL
Well the judgement I received for creating entertainment...prob why I keep getting messages about being missed LOL
Something I think is funny about people who don’t know who Father John Misty is, is that some of them believe he’s a pastor named John Misty.
Girl, if they knew…
Girl, if they knew…
November 15, 2025 at 3:46 PM
Something I think is funny about people who don’t know who Father John Misty is, is that some of them believe he’s a pastor named John Misty.
Girl, if they knew…
Girl, if they knew…
I had a fitting and was wondering why every skirt was way too big for me, then I realised she measured below my waist, so she was using my upper hip measurement as my waist, so she was fitting me for a waist that was over 30“
Let’s see if my wardrobe fits on the day
Let’s see if my wardrobe fits on the day
November 15, 2025 at 12:18 AM
I had a fitting and was wondering why every skirt was way too big for me, then I realised she measured below my waist, so she was using my upper hip measurement as my waist, so she was fitting me for a waist that was over 30“
Let’s see if my wardrobe fits on the day
Let’s see if my wardrobe fits on the day
Got to love the massive detours uber/lyft drivers take on the way to pick you up when you know there’s no road construction in the area
November 14, 2025 at 12:05 PM
Got to love the massive detours uber/lyft drivers take on the way to pick you up when you know there’s no road construction in the area
Getting dirty looks cuz I’m standing near this girl’s ugly boyfriend. Black under his fingernails, shit breath…girl, no one wants him. Stop being delusional.
November 13, 2025 at 3:02 PM
Getting dirty looks cuz I’m standing near this girl’s ugly boyfriend. Black under his fingernails, shit breath…girl, no one wants him. Stop being delusional.
Product size is also why I chose not to buy the Yves Rocher advent. It’s full of their own products & I can’t justify spending $70 for such little product even though I really want the fun of opening an advent calendar.
They could afford to throw in a few full size products
They could afford to throw in a few full size products
November 11, 2025 at 9:00 PM
Product size is also why I chose not to buy the Yves Rocher advent. It’s full of their own products & I can’t justify spending $70 for such little product even though I really want the fun of opening an advent calendar.
They could afford to throw in a few full size products
They could afford to throw in a few full size products
I get things cost more these days but why are we now having to pay for perfume samples?
The least they can do ia offer a trial size instead of charging us for those little vials that used to be complimentary
The least they can do ia offer a trial size instead of charging us for those little vials that used to be complimentary
November 11, 2025 at 8:56 PM
I get things cost more these days but why are we now having to pay for perfume samples?
The least they can do ia offer a trial size instead of charging us for those little vials that used to be complimentary
The least they can do ia offer a trial size instead of charging us for those little vials that used to be complimentary
And again, disagreements aren’t gaslighting!! Gaslighting is the intentional act of convincing someone they’re crazy. It’s not a “that tastes like onion” “it’s not onion, it’s garlic“ ”WELL IT TASTES LIKE ONION” type deal…if that’s even a good example or not lol
November 11, 2025 at 5:57 PM
And again, disagreements aren’t gaslighting!! Gaslighting is the intentional act of convincing someone they’re crazy. It’s not a “that tastes like onion” “it’s not onion, it’s garlic“ ”WELL IT TASTES LIKE ONION” type deal…if that’s even a good example or not lol
Like I remember back when I was modelling, someone said someone should model & I said this person will have to get into shape. This was met with accusations I was calling the person fat when I wasn’t. I was simply stating there was a standard this person didn’t meet.
November 11, 2025 at 5:51 PM
Like I remember back when I was modelling, someone said someone should model & I said this person will have to get into shape. This was met with accusations I was calling the person fat when I wasn’t. I was simply stating there was a standard this person didn’t meet.
Like if it’s happened before where there’s been an underlying meaning other than what was stated, yes, address that. but if someone is simply communicating a point, don’t jump to conclusions, dictating they meant something else.
November 11, 2025 at 5:47 PM
Like if it’s happened before where there’s been an underlying meaning other than what was stated, yes, address that. but if someone is simply communicating a point, don’t jump to conclusions, dictating they meant something else.
Normalise not adding context to people’s words. So many arguments happen when people misidentify what people are saying because they’re not actively listening.
Intent matters. Sometimes we hear dog whistles loud and clear, but you can’t accuse everyone of it.
Intent matters. Sometimes we hear dog whistles loud and clear, but you can’t accuse everyone of it.
November 11, 2025 at 5:46 PM
Normalise not adding context to people’s words. So many arguments happen when people misidentify what people are saying because they’re not actively listening.
Intent matters. Sometimes we hear dog whistles loud and clear, but you can’t accuse everyone of it.
Intent matters. Sometimes we hear dog whistles loud and clear, but you can’t accuse everyone of it.
If you are encouraging others to take care of their health, yes, you are working to better lives, but if you’re turning your nose up at people for not dedicating their lives to getting abs, you need to get that ego checked.
November 11, 2025 at 4:30 PM
If you are encouraging others to take care of their health, yes, you are working to better lives, but if you’re turning your nose up at people for not dedicating their lives to getting abs, you need to get that ego checked.
I’m not referring to everyone who goes to the gym but there are several fitness types who believe they are superior to others simply due to their focus on exercise.
It‘s a great thing to make an effort to be active and take care of your body, but it gives people such a sense of achievement that..
It‘s a great thing to make an effort to be active and take care of your body, but it gives people such a sense of achievement that..
November 11, 2025 at 4:28 PM
I’m not referring to everyone who goes to the gym but there are several fitness types who believe they are superior to others simply due to their focus on exercise.
It‘s a great thing to make an effort to be active and take care of your body, but it gives people such a sense of achievement that..
It‘s a great thing to make an effort to be active and take care of your body, but it gives people such a sense of achievement that..
Wish people live streaming concerts would shut up and not sing along cuz all you can hear is them singing off key.
November 11, 2025 at 2:45 AM
Wish people live streaming concerts would shut up and not sing along cuz all you can hear is them singing off key.
We’ve been brainwashed and gaslit as a society to accept less & less so those who don’t need it can have more & more
November 10, 2025 at 6:51 PM
We’ve been brainwashed and gaslit as a society to accept less & less so those who don’t need it can have more & more
It also goes ignored that it isn’t possible for a human being to work as long as they’d have to in multiple min wage jobs to afford what the government claims is affordable.
People end up disabled or chronically ill by being worked to death, which put a major strain on the system.
People end up disabled or chronically ill by being worked to death, which put a major strain on the system.
November 10, 2025 at 6:50 PM
It also goes ignored that it isn’t possible for a human being to work as long as they’d have to in multiple min wage jobs to afford what the government claims is affordable.
People end up disabled or chronically ill by being worked to death, which put a major strain on the system.
People end up disabled or chronically ill by being worked to death, which put a major strain on the system.
Earning more isn’t simply a result of working harder as there is currently more supply than demand.
Under our current employment model, it’s impossible that every citizen work a job that pays over min wage as that volume of jobs do not exist.
Under our current employment model, it’s impossible that every citizen work a job that pays over min wage as that volume of jobs do not exist.
November 10, 2025 at 6:48 PM
Earning more isn’t simply a result of working harder as there is currently more supply than demand.
Under our current employment model, it’s impossible that every citizen work a job that pays over min wage as that volume of jobs do not exist.
Under our current employment model, it’s impossible that every citizen work a job that pays over min wage as that volume of jobs do not exist.
From my understanding, employers will limit hours because it’s cheaper for them. It costs them less to employ a part time worker than a full time one, so its not even likely to get a full time min wage job.
I realise Americans get confused when I call $18 min wage. In Ontario, it’s $17.60/hr.
I realise Americans get confused when I call $18 min wage. In Ontario, it’s $17.60/hr.
November 10, 2025 at 6:45 PM
From my understanding, employers will limit hours because it’s cheaper for them. It costs them less to employ a part time worker than a full time one, so its not even likely to get a full time min wage job.
I realise Americans get confused when I call $18 min wage. In Ontario, it’s $17.60/hr.
I realise Americans get confused when I call $18 min wage. In Ontario, it’s $17.60/hr.
I was watching a TikTok where a guy was saying $18/hr isn’t enough to survive on and the miscalculations in the comments are hilarious.
These low wage positions woupd be scheduled for 4-8hr shifts, putting that worker’s annual gross around $30k-36k.
These low wage positions woupd be scheduled for 4-8hr shifts, putting that worker’s annual gross around $30k-36k.
November 10, 2025 at 6:38 PM
I was watching a TikTok where a guy was saying $18/hr isn’t enough to survive on and the miscalculations in the comments are hilarious.
These low wage positions woupd be scheduled for 4-8hr shifts, putting that worker’s annual gross around $30k-36k.
These low wage positions woupd be scheduled for 4-8hr shifts, putting that worker’s annual gross around $30k-36k.
It’s wild I haven’t learned my lesson yet regarding surrendering to life as it comes. My anxiety steps up, then I’m proven wrong in think a loss was a loss.
Good things find you when you go with the flow.
Good things find you when you go with the flow.
November 10, 2025 at 4:39 PM
It’s wild I haven’t learned my lesson yet regarding surrendering to life as it comes. My anxiety steps up, then I’m proven wrong in think a loss was a loss.
Good things find you when you go with the flow.
Good things find you when you go with the flow.
This is in regards to bg work on set btw.
Then wardrobe will have racks upon racks of clothing.
No clue why agents will give the regular spiel like everyone has this endless vault of clothing. I don’t think people should be denied work for not having the clothing.
Then wardrobe will have racks upon racks of clothing.
No clue why agents will give the regular spiel like everyone has this endless vault of clothing. I don’t think people should be denied work for not having the clothing.
November 10, 2025 at 4:09 PM
This is in regards to bg work on set btw.
Then wardrobe will have racks upon racks of clothing.
No clue why agents will give the regular spiel like everyone has this endless vault of clothing. I don’t think people should be denied work for not having the clothing.
Then wardrobe will have racks upon racks of clothing.
No clue why agents will give the regular spiel like everyone has this endless vault of clothing. I don’t think people should be denied work for not having the clothing.
I’m confused why some productions think people will just have specific clothing items just lying around.
They’ll be like bring a specific pair of shoes and your best forest green suit. Or bring clothes from 1994, & you’ll find this out at midnight with a 6am call time.
They’ll be like bring a specific pair of shoes and your best forest green suit. Or bring clothes from 1994, & you’ll find this out at midnight with a 6am call time.
November 10, 2025 at 3:55 PM
I’m confused why some productions think people will just have specific clothing items just lying around.
They’ll be like bring a specific pair of shoes and your best forest green suit. Or bring clothes from 1994, & you’ll find this out at midnight with a 6am call time.
They’ll be like bring a specific pair of shoes and your best forest green suit. Or bring clothes from 1994, & you’ll find this out at midnight with a 6am call time.
Anyway, it took a hard turn into winter & I'm in hermit mode.
Who said any of us were ready for snow, Mother Nature!
Who said any of us were ready for snow, Mother Nature!
November 10, 2025 at 3:28 PM
Anyway, it took a hard turn into winter & I'm in hermit mode.
Who said any of us were ready for snow, Mother Nature!
Who said any of us were ready for snow, Mother Nature!
I’m the one who did research by purposely picking fights with the worst misogynists I could find on the internet, trust that I’m not scared of some angry loser in a comment section
November 10, 2025 at 3:26 PM
I’m the one who did research by purposely picking fights with the worst misogynists I could find on the internet, trust that I’m not scared of some angry loser in a comment section