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They turned a LAW into the law.
December 10, 2023 at 8:09 PM
If you have any availability this week, my roommate's cat has cancer (and now worms) but she won't give him his meds bc the vets are stupid and it's all a big scam.
December 4, 2023 at 3:51 AM
I get that it played out that way, but the first exchange was "should I finish" and "be thankful you have the option". Then I got accused of attacking her. Sometimes people disagree with others or explain their positions, and that's not the same as a personal attack.
December 2, 2023 at 7:16 PM
Yeah, that actually was helpful. I was told that sub-tweeting was an asshole thing to do, bc that's what I interpret this to be, but OK.

The thread ownership isn't intuitive. In my mind, once a convo is started nobody owns it. I'd detach this from the main thread but I don't know how.
December 2, 2023 at 6:54 PM
Huh? I was asking about social etiquette, since I just started using it a year ago. People say, "then make your post", but that's the definition of sub tweeting, right?
December 2, 2023 at 6:32 PM
It's a conversation. If you don't want to continue a convo, you just leave, right? I just assume that you want to continue if you're still replying.
December 2, 2023 at 6:29 PM
And yeah. I admit I don't really understand how Twitter style social media works. Should I just QT or sub tweet? That seems passive aggressive.
December 2, 2023 at 6:26 PM
Unfortunately not. Every person walked out of the room, like "How the f did he pass?!?" Even ppl in totally different fields.

The PI was a bully and didn't want to be embarrassed by having a student fail. That's why the trans student was bullied out instead of being allowed to defend.
December 2, 2023 at 6:25 PM
I was in the room when that student presented. They couldn't answer a single question their committee asked and still passed. Meanwhile, minority students were pushed out.

That's not perpetuating abuse and is not about OP. It's calling out inequality and discrimination that is endemic in academia.
December 2, 2023 at 6:17 PM
I apologize for misgendering you. That's on me for not checking.

It really doesn't apply to you. I was responding to the other comments accusing me of attacking you.

Not everyone gets the chance to go to college, much less get a PhD, so we should keep fighting for it.
December 2, 2023 at 6:11 PM
I watched an extremely talented, hardworking labmate get tortured by a PI and mobbed until they imploded. Simply because they were trans. Another student in my building off'ed themselves.
So, yeah, I'm a *little* disgruntled about that. And we should be glad we're still fighting.
December 2, 2023 at 5:57 PM
My dude, you are taking my personal experience way too personally. I never said you don't deserve the degree. I'm saying that discrimination leads to a disparity in outcomes.
I have examples and none of them involved you. People respond to posts, but you don't have to respond to every one.
December 2, 2023 at 5:45 PM
I'm saying that difficulty or success is determined more by bias than effort or actual merit.

The people I knew who weren't allowed even the chance of finishing were 100% more qualified than people who couldn't even explain they chose the experiments they did at their defense.
December 2, 2023 at 2:59 PM
You're right; I didn't mean to scold. The system is broken.

I've seen people graduate who were hand-held, did mediocre work, or others who never finished due to lack of interest or were making bank. They were in the same lab as students pushed out for their orientation or disability.
December 2, 2023 at 2:40 PM
Astral projecting into a body that can breathe.
December 2, 2023 at 2:28 PM
Be thankful that's a viable option. Some people never get the chance, based solely on their identity.
December 2, 2023 at 2:27 PM
So thanlful for the Franco-Prussian War for all it's innovations.
December 1, 2023 at 7:38 AM
Vicarious fears of strength from the comfort of your couch.
December 1, 2023 at 7:35 AM
Schfifty-five!
December 1, 2023 at 7:32 AM
Serious answer: all babies go to heaven. There's a cutoff point for "accountability" that only God knows.
November 14, 2023 at 11:13 PM
Treat it like prison. The first night after move-in, find the most expensive car and cover it with suction dildos. Make sure they're coated with someone really gooey, like honey but clear.
November 14, 2023 at 12:17 AM
I know mirtazapine is really effective for increasing appetite in older/sick animals.
November 8, 2023 at 1:34 PM
Need some "I read the classics" bros to chime in with some advice rn.
November 6, 2023 at 6:03 PM