Nobody will question how black people are often hyper-masculinized in general, but especially actively seen as aggressive and traits associated with is again associated with masculinity in our society, and how that bias 1000% is why nobody ever will assume a black person is non-binary

The person was nice, didn’t misgender me after and apologized. Didn’t make a big deal. That’s such. But I still know there’s nothing I can really do that won’t make people clock me as anything but a man cause non-binary is reserved for androgynous white people in most peoples eyes

"this meeting could have been a clay tablet"

This may look like half the crowd on stage, but we’re actually just a regular sized ska band

Certainly fits a pattern there.