OberonRichter(he/they)
@obiedoobiedoo.bsky.social
Amateur sociologist and anti-judgement advocate.
The Four Horsemen of AuDHD.
Object Permanence
Executive Function
Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria
....... I can't remember what I said the fourth one was so let's just go with memory issues
Object Permanence
Executive Function
Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria
....... I can't remember what I said the fourth one was so let's just go with memory issues
April 28, 2025 at 6:52 AM
The Four Horsemen of AuDHD.
Object Permanence
Executive Function
Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria
....... I can't remember what I said the fourth one was so let's just go with memory issues
Object Permanence
Executive Function
Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria
....... I can't remember what I said the fourth one was so let's just go with memory issues
What do the parents of a toddler and a frat bro from Boston have in common?
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They're always asking "if you wanna potty"
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They're always asking "if you wanna potty"
April 24, 2025 at 3:19 AM
What do the parents of a toddler and a frat bro from Boston have in common?
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They're always asking "if you wanna potty"
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They're always asking "if you wanna potty"
I get so much anxiety when I find out someone whose opinion I really respect thinks very highly of me. Honestly, people thinking highly of me in general makes me feel like I'm on display. The higher I am, the harder I can fall.
April 23, 2025 at 6:27 AM
I get so much anxiety when I find out someone whose opinion I really respect thinks very highly of me. Honestly, people thinking highly of me in general makes me feel like I'm on display. The higher I am, the harder I can fall.
Patriarchy is the reason it's more acceptable for a man to cheat than to be poly, and more acceptable to hire a prostitute than to talk to a therapist
March 15, 2025 at 4:48 AM
Patriarchy is the reason it's more acceptable for a man to cheat than to be poly, and more acceptable to hire a prostitute than to talk to a therapist
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Once again I am suggesting that you break some rules for practice. Get comfortable with breaking rules. When the rules are hurting other people, the right thing to do is break them. We need people who follow their moral code over the rules of their society, university, employer, and government.
March 5, 2025 at 4:41 PM
Once again I am suggesting that you break some rules for practice. Get comfortable with breaking rules. When the rules are hurting other people, the right thing to do is break them. We need people who follow their moral code over the rules of their society, university, employer, and government.
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Everybody is so touched by this anglerfish coming to see the light and I’m over here like “actually you are deeply misunderstanding the sensorium of deep sea creatures and that girl was blinded way before she got to the surface.”
March 3, 2025 at 7:31 PM
Everybody is so touched by this anglerfish coming to see the light and I’m over here like “actually you are deeply misunderstanding the sensorium of deep sea creatures and that girl was blinded way before she got to the surface.”
As an anti-judgment advocate, I've cultivated my appearance not only as self-expression, it's a litmus test of where I need to meet you. I might not change your mind, but I can be a data point. If you can't even treat me like a human, I'm protecting my peace
February 28, 2025 at 4:37 AM
As an anti-judgment advocate, I've cultivated my appearance not only as self-expression, it's a litmus test of where I need to meet you. I might not change your mind, but I can be a data point. If you can't even treat me like a human, I'm protecting my peace
Rewatching Futurama(a comfort show since I was a preteen) but I hadn't watched with captions. The extra context clues I've been able to pick up have been wild. I don't know what "The Odd Couple Theme" or "Klingon Battle Music" sounds like, but I know the idea you're trying to convey with it
February 17, 2025 at 9:31 PM
Rewatching Futurama(a comfort show since I was a preteen) but I hadn't watched with captions. The extra context clues I've been able to pick up have been wild. I don't know what "The Odd Couple Theme" or "Klingon Battle Music" sounds like, but I know the idea you're trying to convey with it
A thought I had in gender studies class. If someone is genuinely engaging in a good faith conversation and answering a question, give them credit for not being wrong. Don't belittle them because their answer isn't as right as it could be. Everyone starts somewhere.
February 11, 2025 at 4:40 AM
A thought I had in gender studies class. If someone is genuinely engaging in a good faith conversation and answering a question, give them credit for not being wrong. Don't belittle them because their answer isn't as right as it could be. Everyone starts somewhere.
Just because you do something well, doesn't mean it's easy for you. Just because you are good at something, doesn't mean you don't need help
February 7, 2025 at 11:53 AM
Just because you do something well, doesn't mean it's easy for you. Just because you are good at something, doesn't mean you don't need help
"Oregon Pears"- watercolor 2025
February 5, 2025 at 3:16 PM
"Oregon Pears"- watercolor 2025
In honor of the anniversary of my abusive ex coming out of the woodwork after 9 years, some advice.
If you're fighting with a partner and find yourself thinking "I wish you would hit me so I could leave", that is a sign you should leave.
If you're fighting with a partner and find yourself thinking "I wish you would hit me so I could leave", that is a sign you should leave.
January 23, 2025 at 8:31 AM
In honor of the anniversary of my abusive ex coming out of the woodwork after 9 years, some advice.
If you're fighting with a partner and find yourself thinking "I wish you would hit me so I could leave", that is a sign you should leave.
If you're fighting with a partner and find yourself thinking "I wish you would hit me so I could leave", that is a sign you should leave.
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I think of this video often. We shouldn’t be fighting the same fight. Waiting for comfort and decorum isn’t the way. Progress happens when you don’t stop.
January 22, 2025 at 7:46 AM
I think of this video often. We shouldn’t be fighting the same fight. Waiting for comfort and decorum isn’t the way. Progress happens when you don’t stop.
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Current internal battle: Should I be terrified of Trump on main, or should I recognize that pretending like he has powers he does not have helps to grant him those powers.
January 22, 2025 at 4:49 PM
Current internal battle: Should I be terrified of Trump on main, or should I recognize that pretending like he has powers he does not have helps to grant him those powers.
Tiktok is back, and to no one's surprise, free speech isn't free anymore!
January 20, 2025 at 1:38 AM
Tiktok is back, and to no one's surprise, free speech isn't free anymore!
This man is one of the best known science communicators of this generation. I stand by my theory that Hank has been internet famous for "too long" and has fallen down into Tommy Wiseau level immortal insanity
I'm spending the rest of the day writing a fanfic about Vine and TikTok boinking each other in every single way.
January 20, 2025 at 12:59 AM
This man is one of the best known science communicators of this generation. I stand by my theory that Hank has been internet famous for "too long" and has fallen down into Tommy Wiseau level immortal insanity
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I love pigeons.
Especially because they walk like this.
Especially because they walk like this.
January 19, 2025 at 7:45 PM
I love pigeons.
Especially because they walk like this.
Especially because they walk like this.
tRuMp Is sO pOwErFuL hE's fIxInG tHiNgS bEfOrE hE's EvEn iN OfFiCe!!!
January 19, 2025 at 6:59 PM
tRuMp Is sO pOwErFuL hE's fIxInG tHiNgS bEfOrE hE's EvEn iN OfFiCe!!!
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Original poster I painted for the Knights of Guinevere teaser. Been a while since I painted but I had a lot of fun. 💙✨
January 19, 2025 at 5:06 AM
Original poster I painted for the Knights of Guinevere teaser. Been a while since I painted but I had a lot of fun. 💙✨
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There’s a small bookshop “adult scholastic book fair” at a local brewery
They vastly misunderstood the demand
They vastly misunderstood the demand
January 11, 2025 at 6:17 PM
There’s a small bookshop “adult scholastic book fair” at a local brewery
They vastly misunderstood the demand
They vastly misunderstood the demand
@samreich.bsky.social what do we have to do to get Dropout to do Taskmaster?
January 12, 2025 at 3:21 AM
@samreich.bsky.social what do we have to do to get Dropout to do Taskmaster?
I know it won't happen, just really wish Biden would step down. There's nothing Kamala could do in this amount of time, but it would break the glass ceiling/seal for bigots who wouldn't vote for her. It would suck to have the first female president be a technicality, but would make 47 inaccurate 😂
January 7, 2025 at 2:45 PM
I know it won't happen, just really wish Biden would step down. There's nothing Kamala could do in this amount of time, but it would break the glass ceiling/seal for bigots who wouldn't vote for her. It would suck to have the first female president be a technicality, but would make 47 inaccurate 😂
Random accommodations I make to improve my life, 5 of?
I found myself losing track of time when I didn't wear a watch, because looking at my phone didn't actually tell the time (I'd get distracted). So I downloaded an app that audibly tells me the time. It's helped so much to ground me in reality
I found myself losing track of time when I didn't wear a watch, because looking at my phone didn't actually tell the time (I'd get distracted). So I downloaded an app that audibly tells me the time. It's helped so much to ground me in reality
Random accommodations I make to improve my life, 4 of ?
So many of my friends are neurodivergent that I've gotten a small tub of fidget toys and have made it part of my host offering when people come over. "Can I get you anything to drink, something to eat, a fidget toy?"
So many of my friends are neurodivergent that I've gotten a small tub of fidget toys and have made it part of my host offering when people come over. "Can I get you anything to drink, something to eat, a fidget toy?"
Random accommodations I make to improve my life, 3 of ?
Backing out of parking spots is super stressful for me, so I've started backing in. It doesn't make it less stressful, but now that stress is at the end of driving instead of starting me out on a bad foot for the whole drive.
Backing out of parking spots is super stressful for me, so I've started backing in. It doesn't make it less stressful, but now that stress is at the end of driving instead of starting me out on a bad foot for the whole drive.
January 7, 2025 at 2:32 PM
Random accommodations I make to improve my life, 5 of?
I found myself losing track of time when I didn't wear a watch, because looking at my phone didn't actually tell the time (I'd get distracted). So I downloaded an app that audibly tells me the time. It's helped so much to ground me in reality
I found myself losing track of time when I didn't wear a watch, because looking at my phone didn't actually tell the time (I'd get distracted). So I downloaded an app that audibly tells me the time. It's helped so much to ground me in reality