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notwaving.bsky.social
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@notwaving.bsky.social
British, enby, ~elder millennial~, disabled, often furious.

Write, quiz, photograph, read, sleep, repeat.

Passionate about disabled access and inclusion.

Equally embarrassing!
October 10, 2025 at 3:03 PM
I can't see their profile or message at all so maybe I'm blocked by them? I'm not entirely sure how BSky works with that still.
August 24, 2025 at 2:22 AM
How can you tell it's him?? Can you IP track?
August 23, 2025 at 8:56 PM
Partner and I have seen them 3 times together, tbh we have pretty similar taste in music. The only things he goes to with friends and not me is emo nostalgia stuff 😂
August 20, 2025 at 8:13 PM
Aye, we're heading back to London for a few days for them. (I lived there most of my life, had to move out of the city when it came time to buy somewhere of my own because I am not rich lol)
August 20, 2025 at 11:19 AM
Next: cholesterol checks in modern Britain?
August 16, 2025 at 12:26 AM
The same way you do any break up, one day at a time. Therapy would probably help? I guess you could also consider the positives you've gained from an otherwise lost decade - experience, resilience, your daughter!
August 15, 2025 at 7:46 PM
Well at least it's something, and they are things you can replace even if they won't be exactly the same. I don't want to 1-up you - every lost meaningful item hurts - but my box that got lost in transit was the one with a painting my great-grandmother gave me when I was 3. Literally irreplaceable.
August 13, 2025 at 5:14 AM
Call the moving company, and put a claim in through their insurance. They must have something in place for this kind of thing? Boxes get dropped, even lost sometimes (mine did when I moved back to the UK!).
August 13, 2025 at 4:21 AM
I guess many jobs fall within the remit of "housewife" if the others have work themselves. Balancing this stuff can be tricky though - my partner works full time (from home) but I'm disabled and can't do the more physical chores. I try to even it out by doing the scheduling, phone calls, paperwork..
August 13, 2025 at 4:20 AM
I think the way he just stopped trying to get her attention when she pushed him down made me feel like this was a normal thing to him. I get moms are busy, maybe on the bus is the only time she has to sit down and make this phonecall, but the kid's face just killed me.
August 11, 2025 at 4:18 AM