Serenedipity
@nothingbutanumber.bsky.social
Queer, Kinky and Ethically Non Monogamous in my sixties. Growing old disgracefully. Love life.
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I am - just - a Boomer, and as such I reserve my right to use the internet in the way I please.
I will not ‘follow back’ as a politeness or like or share posts which don’t stand out for me.
I was on Twitter a long time without posting at all. Now I record things that I don’t want to forget.
I will not ‘follow back’ as a politeness or like or share posts which don’t stand out for me.
I was on Twitter a long time without posting at all. Now I record things that I don’t want to forget.
I just came back from Berlin. At 63 I became a fetish model. As it should be
June 3, 2025 at 8:18 AM
I just came back from Berlin. At 63 I became a fetish model. As it should be
#budapestpride I am interested in talking to people from Switzerland or neighbouring France intending to travel to Budapest pride. Safety in numbers
March 29, 2025 at 9:44 AM
#budapestpride I am interested in talking to people from Switzerland or neighbouring France intending to travel to Budapest pride. Safety in numbers
Views of kink from the outside are often based in clichés. A male Dom roughly taking a female sub or a dominatrix pegging a man in stockings.
There is so much more.
There is so much more.
March 22, 2025 at 9:41 AM
Views of kink from the outside are often based in clichés. A male Dom roughly taking a female sub or a dominatrix pegging a man in stockings.
There is so much more.
There is so much more.
Me, organising a queer rope jam.
A fellow ‘older’ female rope bottom “May I come with (male partner)?”
No, friend, you may not. I don’t police who is queer and who is not, but if someone can’t even say queer without grimacing they don’t come into my space.
A fellow ‘older’ female rope bottom “May I come with (male partner)?”
No, friend, you may not. I don’t police who is queer and who is not, but if someone can’t even say queer without grimacing they don’t come into my space.
January 25, 2025 at 7:33 PM
Me, organising a queer rope jam.
A fellow ‘older’ female rope bottom “May I come with (male partner)?”
No, friend, you may not. I don’t police who is queer and who is not, but if someone can’t even say queer without grimacing they don’t come into my space.
A fellow ‘older’ female rope bottom “May I come with (male partner)?”
No, friend, you may not. I don’t police who is queer and who is not, but if someone can’t even say queer without grimacing they don’t come into my space.
I feel sorry for the men who wear ‘crazy socks’ with their work suit. A tiny corner of their soul says they are individual, but still no-one is allowed to see.
January 25, 2025 at 8:37 AM
I feel sorry for the men who wear ‘crazy socks’ with their work suit. A tiny corner of their soul says they are individual, but still no-one is allowed to see.
Downright creepy and sad ways to refer to people in a relationship:
- an item
- soulmates
- other half
- better half
- missing piece
- an item
- soulmates
- other half
- better half
- missing piece
January 7, 2025 at 7:18 PM
Downright creepy and sad ways to refer to people in a relationship:
- an item
- soulmates
- other half
- better half
- missing piece
- an item
- soulmates
- other half
- better half
- missing piece
I realise I have to say this out loud for there to be a chance it will work.
I wish to connect with the queer and kinky. Those for whom kink is a playground, not a workaround for misogyny.
I wish to connect with the queer and kinky. Those for whom kink is a playground, not a workaround for misogyny.
January 4, 2025 at 9:19 AM
I realise I have to say this out loud for there to be a chance it will work.
I wish to connect with the queer and kinky. Those for whom kink is a playground, not a workaround for misogyny.
I wish to connect with the queer and kinky. Those for whom kink is a playground, not a workaround for misogyny.
Dominant men hide their misogyny behind ‘alpha’ fantasies. Submissive men build fantasies of latex clad dominatrices. Queer and kinky women provide experiences for each other as they explore their fantasies. With laughter, and love.
January 4, 2025 at 8:53 AM
Dominant men hide their misogyny behind ‘alpha’ fantasies. Submissive men build fantasies of latex clad dominatrices. Queer and kinky women provide experiences for each other as they explore their fantasies. With laughter, and love.
I have a kitten. He’s 34 years old and sings vocals in a metal band. Soothes his chronic pain with the chosen pain of masochism.
January 1, 2025 at 7:53 PM
I have a kitten. He’s 34 years old and sings vocals in a metal band. Soothes his chronic pain with the chosen pain of masochism.
New Years Day 2025. I wake nestled in with one of my partners and her husband. There is bright sunshine outside. The year starts well
January 1, 2025 at 3:35 PM
New Years Day 2025. I wake nestled in with one of my partners and her husband. There is bright sunshine outside. The year starts well
It’s hard to post pictures of my hobbies here because they are usually naked.
December 28, 2024 at 10:50 AM
It’s hard to post pictures of my hobbies here because they are usually naked.
Christmas morning. Joe Biden has transmuted 37 death penalties. Families respond with anger and disappointment. They would rather see death.
Thank you baby Jebus for letting me not live in the US.
Thank you baby Jebus for letting me not live in the US.
December 25, 2024 at 9:42 AM
Christmas morning. Joe Biden has transmuted 37 death penalties. Families respond with anger and disappointment. They would rather see death.
Thank you baby Jebus for letting me not live in the US.
Thank you baby Jebus for letting me not live in the US.
You don’t celebrate a lovers’ birthday this way?
December 23, 2024 at 9:31 AM
You don’t celebrate a lovers’ birthday this way?
Someone asked what I was doing in this part of my life and was upset when I said I’m learning how to die.
It’s true though. I still lend my energy in various places but my interior project is to accept my mortality. Still so taboo! As if by saying ‘death’ we invoke it. That’s not how it works.
It’s true though. I still lend my energy in various places but my interior project is to accept my mortality. Still so taboo! As if by saying ‘death’ we invoke it. That’s not how it works.
December 13, 2024 at 3:02 PM
Someone asked what I was doing in this part of my life and was upset when I said I’m learning how to die.
It’s true though. I still lend my energy in various places but my interior project is to accept my mortality. Still so taboo! As if by saying ‘death’ we invoke it. That’s not how it works.
It’s true though. I still lend my energy in various places but my interior project is to accept my mortality. Still so taboo! As if by saying ‘death’ we invoke it. That’s not how it works.
Ive got a cold, and I know exactly who I got it from. My girlfriend’s Dominant’s wife. More partners, more exposure 🤷
December 12, 2024 at 3:58 PM
Ive got a cold, and I know exactly who I got it from. My girlfriend’s Dominant’s wife. More partners, more exposure 🤷
Reposted by Serenedipity
❤️ “To “queer” something means going against societal norms. So, learning to love my fat body feels to me like queering the goal of thinness - a goal pushed on us by society” - Ruby Gill
www.wearequeeraf.com/coming-out-a...
www.wearequeeraf.com/coming-out-a...
Coming out as both fat and queer
Fat liberation and queer liberation are intertwined. Both movements fight for bodily autonomy
www.wearequeeraf.com
December 9, 2024 at 2:09 PM
❤️ “To “queer” something means going against societal norms. So, learning to love my fat body feels to me like queering the goal of thinness - a goal pushed on us by society” - Ruby Gill
www.wearequeeraf.com/coming-out-a...
www.wearequeeraf.com/coming-out-a...
At the queer Christmas market, among the candles shaped like female torsos, the deep belly and fupa ones sold best. Because why would anyone argue with more of a good thing?
December 9, 2024 at 1:43 PM
At the queer Christmas market, among the candles shaped like female torsos, the deep belly and fupa ones sold best. Because why would anyone argue with more of a good thing?
I lie in bed in the mornings and attend to my social media like a queer Barbara Cartland.
December 6, 2024 at 11:09 AM
I lie in bed in the mornings and attend to my social media like a queer Barbara Cartland.
I am - just - a Boomer, and as such I reserve my right to use the internet in the way I please.
I will not ‘follow back’ as a politeness or like or share posts which don’t stand out for me.
I was on Twitter a long time without posting at all. Now I record things that I don’t want to forget.
I will not ‘follow back’ as a politeness or like or share posts which don’t stand out for me.
I was on Twitter a long time without posting at all. Now I record things that I don’t want to forget.
December 5, 2024 at 1:16 PM
I am - just - a Boomer, and as such I reserve my right to use the internet in the way I please.
I will not ‘follow back’ as a politeness or like or share posts which don’t stand out for me.
I was on Twitter a long time without posting at all. Now I record things that I don’t want to forget.
I will not ‘follow back’ as a politeness or like or share posts which don’t stand out for me.
I was on Twitter a long time without posting at all. Now I record things that I don’t want to forget.
Hosting two lovers this afternoon (1M, 1F). Each of us will have 90 minutes in which we are the sovereign, and can request activity from the other two which centres our pleasure in exactly the way we wish.
Then we’ll have dinner together.
Then we’ll have dinner together.
December 5, 2024 at 1:05 PM
Hosting two lovers this afternoon (1M, 1F). Each of us will have 90 minutes in which we are the sovereign, and can request activity from the other two which centres our pleasure in exactly the way we wish.
Then we’ll have dinner together.
Then we’ll have dinner together.
You know when you pull yesterday’s jeans on and realise hours later that yesterday’s underwear was still trapped in there?
Yeah. That.
Yeah. That.
December 4, 2024 at 3:14 PM
You know when you pull yesterday’s jeans on and realise hours later that yesterday’s underwear was still trapped in there?
Yeah. That.
Yeah. That.
Last night I, along with a friend, interviewed a service submissive. He took us out for dinner at a Michelin star restaurant, having travelled to our city from his. We thus established that he is ‘for real’. Dinner chat showed that he is nice normal guy. More detailed negotiation can now follow.
December 4, 2024 at 1:03 PM
Last night I, along with a friend, interviewed a service submissive. He took us out for dinner at a Michelin star restaurant, having travelled to our city from his. We thus established that he is ‘for real’. Dinner chat showed that he is nice normal guy. More detailed negotiation can now follow.
Did ‘boring old Belgium’ just become the most progressive European state for sex workers?
December 2, 2024 at 10:32 AM
Did ‘boring old Belgium’ just become the most progressive European state for sex workers?
I spent Friday with a 34 year old masochist (male). We went out to see a musical comedy.
On Saturday I went on a country walk with a 56 year old bondage specialist (female). I have friends, good people, that I never would have met but through BDSM.
On Saturday I went on a country walk with a 56 year old bondage specialist (female). I have friends, good people, that I never would have met but through BDSM.
December 2, 2024 at 8:20 AM
I spent Friday with a 34 year old masochist (male). We went out to see a musical comedy.
On Saturday I went on a country walk with a 56 year old bondage specialist (female). I have friends, good people, that I never would have met but through BDSM.
On Saturday I went on a country walk with a 56 year old bondage specialist (female). I have friends, good people, that I never would have met but through BDSM.
This is the third and last act of my life. I am living it with as much consciousness as I can, and as much joy.
I am still not able to look at death with equanimity, but I aim to achieve that by living very hard indeed for the time that I can. I’ve made a fucking good start.
I am still not able to look at death with equanimity, but I aim to achieve that by living very hard indeed for the time that I can. I’ve made a fucking good start.
November 28, 2024 at 10:26 AM
This is the third and last act of my life. I am living it with as much consciousness as I can, and as much joy.
I am still not able to look at death with equanimity, but I aim to achieve that by living very hard indeed for the time that I can. I’ve made a fucking good start.
I am still not able to look at death with equanimity, but I aim to achieve that by living very hard indeed for the time that I can. I’ve made a fucking good start.