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Normal Zebra ADHD Coaching
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ADHD coaching and support online/based in Glasgow.

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Welcome! It certainly seems to be so far!
November 19, 2024 at 6:05 AM
Yes 😬 Very common in people with ADHD (about 75%!) sadly.
November 18, 2024 at 9:45 AM
Oh that’s fantastic you’ve got an understanding manager. I did notice you said “gone as far as” rejecting those calls. It’s really not that far; many people do it. Sometimes we need to recalibrate our expectations a little.
November 15, 2024 at 9:43 PM
Common story (I’ve done the same). That external accountability can be vital. Maybe a friend/ADHDer you could send workout selfies to who’ll chase you if you don’t? I do this with a few friends for various things and it can work. Or an online PT in another time zone who’s working at that time
November 15, 2024 at 9:40 PM
…meetings they don’t need to be; the minutes would be enough. If that applies to you it might help to free up a little more time for other work. Might be worth talking to someone — eg your line manager or the meeting chairs. We often feel obliged to be there when it’s not really productive.
November 15, 2024 at 9:06 PM
Calendar blocking is a great shout! Get that status on “do not disturb” as much as possible, and get your notifications silenced while you’re in those precious meeting-free blocks.

It might be possible (depending on your role) to be in less of those calls too — a lot of people end up in…
November 15, 2024 at 9:04 PM
Coffee is a problem. There’s only so many ways you can mess up with a pod machine, but I manage them all every day 🫠

How can we be expected to be able to make coffee *before* we’ve had coffee?
November 15, 2024 at 9:00 PM
😭 I’m lucky to live near an Anytime Fitness now; open 24 hours. I used to live somewhere the gyms only opened after 9 or 10. There should be more facilities for people with non-standard job/schedules. Maybe some cheap weights/resistance bands and home exercise would work in the morning?
November 15, 2024 at 8:58 PM
Definitely the ADHD 😂 So easily done and it’s heartbreaking
November 15, 2024 at 8:45 PM
Yup and you’re definitely not the only one 😂
November 15, 2024 at 8:40 PM
I agree. You’re just exhausted by evening. Can you go in the mornings instead?
November 15, 2024 at 8:36 PM
…others muted while I’m working to check on later, and my team knew to use it only when it really was urgent. Depends a lot on the details of your job, but hopefully you can adapt some of these. Good luck!
November 15, 2024 at 8:34 PM
If you feel able (depends on your position, company, relationship with coworkers etc) tell them/put in your email signature that you generally won’t reply immediately. We often feel like we have to react instantly but we usually don’t. I’ve had a “genuine emergency” chat on Teams before, with my…
November 15, 2024 at 8:33 PM
A good way to deal with any distractions is to make them unavailable — no biscuits in the house if you’re trying to lose weight! Close your email/turn off notifications except for dedicated time slots during the day, mute message notifications while working and check them after at a dedicated time.
November 15, 2024 at 8:30 PM
😂 This is *very* authentically ADHD
November 15, 2024 at 8:14 PM
If it’s for students it should be done by the start of the term 🤦🏼‍♂️
November 15, 2024 at 8:11 PM
This is excellent! Thank you 🙏
November 15, 2024 at 8:08 PM
Hi all! 👋
November 15, 2024 at 7:19 PM