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Em, enby extraordinaire
@ninethenby.bsky.social
1994. They. Gamedev at UbiMtl. Sexy monster appreciator. Not for kids. Linguistics and languages enthusiast. Opinions my own not my employer's.
There may be allegations that I'm a writer, and I guess it's true even if it's just a hobby.
We need more shelf space for maple syrup, so we had to get rid of pickles.
November 17, 2025 at 2:13 PM
I just want to wrap my boi in a blanket and have him nap on me while I play games until we can get him medical attention.
November 17, 2025 at 12:21 PM
Between the patronising "but for girls" marketing and the still terrible trend of removing vowels from words to created "a brand", this is awful and, out of pure pettiness, I hope it fails and bankrupts monster energy altogether.
November 17, 2025 at 11:05 AM
Because soon enough saving your documents locally will require payment.
November 16, 2025 at 1:19 PM
Big "why can't we do both" moment too
November 16, 2025 at 12:56 PM
I say better having a little snack (or drink) after brushing your teeth than skipping teeth brushing altogether in favour of late snacks.
November 16, 2025 at 11:52 AM
No no you're right! I also firmly believe that as much the accidents as the driver misconduct incidents can be linked to road overcrowding due to needless trips to offices. We desperately need to reduce the number of cars on the roads be it via improved public transit or full remote work solutions.
November 16, 2025 at 11:26 AM
I want to keep him with me forever, and simultaneously I dread the weeks and months to come if we let things progress to the very end.
November 16, 2025 at 12:25 AM
Part of me hopes that the vet might tell me that the merciful and humane thing to do is to say goodbye. I feel selfish, but seeing him deteriorate, seeing the effects of illness on him, it's all so difficult.
November 16, 2025 at 12:25 AM
Is well really as simple walking, eating, etc? Despite a mass pressing on his tear ducts, causing his eye to constantly be tearing up? Despite him seemingly having wounds open in his mouth repeatedly and potentially getting infected?
November 16, 2025 at 12:23 AM
It's very distressing to think that he might be suffering greatly despite the pain killers but he can't say it. We are doing our best to keep him comfortable and obviously we don't want to lose him if he's still well, but this honestly brings me to really question what is "well" for a cat.
November 16, 2025 at 12:23 AM
We have an appointment at the vet on Thursday but I'm probably gonna call on Monday to ask if they can give me a call if they have a cancellation before then and I'll negociate to work from home all week just in case.
November 16, 2025 at 12:14 AM
I don't want pull on his cheek too much to give it a good look, so I can't be quite sure. I know one of his teeth fell out and there didn't seem to be much or any bleeding going on...
November 16, 2025 at 12:14 AM