No, I am trying to get a second therapist letter

Yatzhee on being called "young," though

"Who will think of the transphobes!?!?" we wail, hearts bleeding and going out to this precious minority as we use our government provided surgeries and hormones to establish a transsexual paradise enabled by our dominant, economically enfranchised position in society

Hi Claaaaaiiiirrrrreeeee ~~~~~

Total reset. While I definitely understand you not doing it, I have found this place is enough of a reset that I am not scared of posting face and leaving it up. Like I have not seen people here being nearly as weird as on Twitter.

like it is the outcome of the liberal trend to see gender transition as something that is at its core most realized when nothing is transgressed

I keep meaning to spend more time here, but in the time I have spent here I have yet to have a bad experience

Ditto

If you are avoiding talking about yourself, you just socially make yourself smaller. You diminish yourself, and we live in a society that tells us we should do exactly that.

I am actually learning this lesson right now, too

Diminishment is never the answer

Wow, I really typoed the hell out of that

It definitely was supposed to be out if my earshot, and they definitely had a tone that tells me they discuss other things this way, so I am not surprised. If anything else is fair game, we tend to be, too.

(Also, those trousers are pinstripe. Did not show up well in the pic, but central to this look)

I hate the reactionary idea that we can just take our identities off and dress for AGAB as much as the next trans woman, but I also enjoy it in a really acerbic way because it is comically refuted by showing we are still visibly trans in AGAB garb.

I strongly suspect that they really could not pin down anything but my voice, but they combined that with a feminine body to get "men in women's clothes" despite actually wearing men's clothes today (except the belt)

And I know I am not the only one

And they don't have to be. They should just be honest about what they are doing. I have just seen one too many discussions irl at this point where the only thing a trans leader knows to say is pronouns should be respected, and like I cannot tell you how little that impacts my life versus other needs