Smellen
@nellyn0knicks.bsky.social
I broke up with my ex 3 months ago.
His constant need to talk about himself just made me feel invisible because he just never actually checked in with me or whether I was ok. Amongst other things of course.
He was livid when I ended things as he 'didn't see it coming', despite me telling him
His constant need to talk about himself just made me feel invisible because he just never actually checked in with me or whether I was ok. Amongst other things of course.
He was livid when I ended things as he 'didn't see it coming', despite me telling him
November 25, 2025 at 1:10 PM
I broke up with my ex 3 months ago.
His constant need to talk about himself just made me feel invisible because he just never actually checked in with me or whether I was ok. Amongst other things of course.
He was livid when I ended things as he 'didn't see it coming', despite me telling him
His constant need to talk about himself just made me feel invisible because he just never actually checked in with me or whether I was ok. Amongst other things of course.
He was livid when I ended things as he 'didn't see it coming', despite me telling him
Took the lad to his first gig on Thursday.
He spent the whole time looking bored, annoyed and worried.
Then declared it amazing when we'd left, and wants to do another one 🤷♀️
He spent the whole time looking bored, annoyed and worried.
Then declared it amazing when we'd left, and wants to do another one 🤷♀️
November 16, 2025 at 9:05 AM
Took the lad to his first gig on Thursday.
He spent the whole time looking bored, annoyed and worried.
Then declared it amazing when we'd left, and wants to do another one 🤷♀️
He spent the whole time looking bored, annoyed and worried.
Then declared it amazing when we'd left, and wants to do another one 🤷♀️
After many years of the boy rejecting any proposal of being out and about in public with me, we went to the cinema last night in what I hope will be a new tradition for us.
Scaring ourselves shitless, together.
Scaring ourselves shitless, together.
November 1, 2025 at 11:18 AM
After many years of the boy rejecting any proposal of being out and about in public with me, we went to the cinema last night in what I hope will be a new tradition for us.
Scaring ourselves shitless, together.
Scaring ourselves shitless, together.
I took the lad to the cinema on Saturday to watch Frankenstein.
As he so rarely wants to go anywhere with me anymore this was particularly lovely.
❤️
As he so rarely wants to go anywhere with me anymore this was particularly lovely.
❤️
October 27, 2025 at 7:52 AM
I took the lad to the cinema on Saturday to watch Frankenstein.
As he so rarely wants to go anywhere with me anymore this was particularly lovely.
❤️
As he so rarely wants to go anywhere with me anymore this was particularly lovely.
❤️
I went to a family party last night, home by 11 and God am I drained today.
Total idiot me has arranged a walk with a friend this morning.
Total idiot me has arranged a walk with a friend this morning.
September 21, 2025 at 8:20 AM
I went to a family party last night, home by 11 and God am I drained today.
Total idiot me has arranged a walk with a friend this morning.
Total idiot me has arranged a walk with a friend this morning.
I've spent this weekend cleaning and decluttering.
I was planning on seeing a couple of friends, but one had to cancel and the other one I was too knackered to see after all the decluttering.
It's been a quiet one. But I'm ok with that as its preferable to chaos.
I was planning on seeing a couple of friends, but one had to cancel and the other one I was too knackered to see after all the decluttering.
It's been a quiet one. But I'm ok with that as its preferable to chaos.
September 15, 2025 at 6:42 AM
I've spent this weekend cleaning and decluttering.
I was planning on seeing a couple of friends, but one had to cancel and the other one I was too knackered to see after all the decluttering.
It's been a quiet one. But I'm ok with that as its preferable to chaos.
I was planning on seeing a couple of friends, but one had to cancel and the other one I was too knackered to see after all the decluttering.
It's been a quiet one. But I'm ok with that as its preferable to chaos.
Anyway, back to the single life again.
Need to find a way to not find men who want me to sort their life out.
I mean have they not seen the state of mine?
Need to find a way to not find men who want me to sort their life out.
I mean have they not seen the state of mine?
September 15, 2025 at 6:00 AM
Anyway, back to the single life again.
Need to find a way to not find men who want me to sort their life out.
I mean have they not seen the state of mine?
Need to find a way to not find men who want me to sort their life out.
I mean have they not seen the state of mine?
Ok. Trying to pick this back up again.
Did I miss anything?
Did I miss anything?
September 13, 2025 at 8:16 PM
Ok. Trying to pick this back up again.
Did I miss anything?
Did I miss anything?
I slept for 3.5 hours after travelling for 12 hours yesterday.
My bloke decided he'd have a chat with me before heading to work. Leaving me wide awake for the day.
Feels like I'm having an out of body experience today.
My bloke decided he'd have a chat with me before heading to work. Leaving me wide awake for the day.
Feels like I'm having an out of body experience today.
July 4, 2025 at 8:22 PM
I slept for 3.5 hours after travelling for 12 hours yesterday.
My bloke decided he'd have a chat with me before heading to work. Leaving me wide awake for the day.
Feels like I'm having an out of body experience today.
My bloke decided he'd have a chat with me before heading to work. Leaving me wide awake for the day.
Feels like I'm having an out of body experience today.
So.... after working my arse off for the last few years, I am being promoted, while my team mate gets seconded to another role.
Anyway, that's my exciting news
Anyway, that's my exciting news
June 27, 2025 at 7:10 AM
So.... after working my arse off for the last few years, I am being promoted, while my team mate gets seconded to another role.
Anyway, that's my exciting news
Anyway, that's my exciting news
I can't believe its May already and this year hasn't stopped dishing out shit yet.
What a ride eh?
What a ride eh?
May 16, 2025 at 9:55 PM
I can't believe its May already and this year hasn't stopped dishing out shit yet.
What a ride eh?
What a ride eh?
My boy had 4 tooth extractions today as hes got a small jaw and his teeth were jutting out all over the place.
He was an absolute champ through it all.
I almost fainted.
😂
After I sent him to rest in bed for a bit and him declaring he'd never be able to sleep, hes passed out.
He was an absolute champ through it all.
I almost fainted.
😂
After I sent him to rest in bed for a bit and him declaring he'd never be able to sleep, hes passed out.
April 9, 2025 at 7:54 PM
My boy had 4 tooth extractions today as hes got a small jaw and his teeth were jutting out all over the place.
He was an absolute champ through it all.
I almost fainted.
😂
After I sent him to rest in bed for a bit and him declaring he'd never be able to sleep, hes passed out.
He was an absolute champ through it all.
I almost fainted.
😂
After I sent him to rest in bed for a bit and him declaring he'd never be able to sleep, hes passed out.
My boy has turned 16.
When I was 16 I was getting shitfaced in pubs, smoking and thinking about how mature I was.
Times have really changed.
When I was 16 I was getting shitfaced in pubs, smoking and thinking about how mature I was.
Times have really changed.
April 6, 2025 at 10:04 PM
My boy has turned 16.
When I was 16 I was getting shitfaced in pubs, smoking and thinking about how mature I was.
Times have really changed.
When I was 16 I was getting shitfaced in pubs, smoking and thinking about how mature I was.
Times have really changed.
The dog has just scratched himself, farted and then moved away from the fart.
He was sitting next to me.
Send help
He was sitting next to me.
Send help
March 23, 2025 at 10:43 PM
The dog has just scratched himself, farted and then moved away from the fart.
He was sitting next to me.
Send help
He was sitting next to me.
Send help
Big weekend for the lad. He's had braces put onto his top teeth and just as we were heading to the dentist, his national insurance number arrived in the post.
Feeling so old now.
*digs out his baby pics*
Feeling so old now.
*digs out his baby pics*
March 23, 2025 at 10:31 PM
Big weekend for the lad. He's had braces put onto his top teeth and just as we were heading to the dentist, his national insurance number arrived in the post.
Feeling so old now.
*digs out his baby pics*
Feeling so old now.
*digs out his baby pics*
At least the hole in my wall will be filled today and the rats have left the building.
So that's positive.
Still knackered though.
So that's positive.
Still knackered though.
March 13, 2025 at 8:10 AM
At least the hole in my wall will be filled today and the rats have left the building.
So that's positive.
Still knackered though.
So that's positive.
Still knackered though.
The bloke has been repeatedly asking about why I'm so exhausted, despite knowing all the problems I've had with my flat and the fact I am inundated with work, and the single parenting with very little time away from that.
It's a fucking mystery isn't it?
Why would I even be tired?
It's a fucking mystery isn't it?
Why would I even be tired?
a cat in a monkey costume is holding a banana with the caption i am losing my grip on reality
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March 13, 2025 at 8:08 AM
The bloke has been repeatedly asking about why I'm so exhausted, despite knowing all the problems I've had with my flat and the fact I am inundated with work, and the single parenting with very little time away from that.
It's a fucking mystery isn't it?
Why would I even be tired?
It's a fucking mystery isn't it?
Why would I even be tired?
Looks like the rat invasion has slowed down considerably 🤞
I can sleep again
I can sleep again
March 8, 2025 at 9:08 AM
Looks like the rat invasion has slowed down considerably 🤞
I can sleep again
I can sleep again
I have a haircut booked in for 10.15 and am still not dressed.
I'm not feeling lazy at all
I'm not feeling lazy at all
March 8, 2025 at 9:07 AM
I have a haircut booked in for 10.15 and am still not dressed.
I'm not feeling lazy at all
I'm not feeling lazy at all
Could have done without knowing what it feels like to have rats eat their way through my heating pipes and then into my flat, but here we are.
February 27, 2025 at 9:15 PM
Could have done without knowing what it feels like to have rats eat their way through my heating pipes and then into my flat, but here we are.
My boy told me he'd quite like a girlfriend.
But not any of the girls he knows or is friends with because they're all like sisters to him.
Gawd knows who he has in mind
But not any of the girls he knows or is friends with because they're all like sisters to him.
Gawd knows who he has in mind
February 13, 2025 at 10:51 PM
My boy told me he'd quite like a girlfriend.
But not any of the girls he knows or is friends with because they're all like sisters to him.
Gawd knows who he has in mind
But not any of the girls he knows or is friends with because they're all like sisters to him.
Gawd knows who he has in mind
I was walking the dog earlier and wasnt sure whether the woman slumped in the corner between the church and an abandoned building had died.
Anyway, she was just drugged up and then came around and promptly did more drugs.
So that was nice
Anyway, she was just drugged up and then came around and promptly did more drugs.
So that was nice
February 11, 2025 at 10:13 PM
I was walking the dog earlier and wasnt sure whether the woman slumped in the corner between the church and an abandoned building had died.
Anyway, she was just drugged up and then came around and promptly did more drugs.
So that was nice
Anyway, she was just drugged up and then came around and promptly did more drugs.
So that was nice
January 27, 2025 at 7:15 AM
It's been a rough week and a bit tbh.
Bloke got made redundant, then his car failed the MOT and I am tired af.
On the plus side though, my son has finally been given a dentist so they can start looking at fixing his very wonky teeth.
Bloke got made redundant, then his car failed the MOT and I am tired af.
On the plus side though, my son has finally been given a dentist so they can start looking at fixing his very wonky teeth.
January 16, 2025 at 10:16 PM
It's been a rough week and a bit tbh.
Bloke got made redundant, then his car failed the MOT and I am tired af.
On the plus side though, my son has finally been given a dentist so they can start looking at fixing his very wonky teeth.
Bloke got made redundant, then his car failed the MOT and I am tired af.
On the plus side though, my son has finally been given a dentist so they can start looking at fixing his very wonky teeth.
Anyway shes worried about dumping him because everyone thinks he's lovely.
I don't.
He sounds needy and controlling and when she told him to calm his tits over christmas he managed a week of reining it in.
Stop that shit man.
He sounds deranged.
I don't.
He sounds needy and controlling and when she told him to calm his tits over christmas he managed a week of reining it in.
Stop that shit man.
He sounds deranged.
January 12, 2025 at 10:59 AM
Anyway shes worried about dumping him because everyone thinks he's lovely.
I don't.
He sounds needy and controlling and when she told him to calm his tits over christmas he managed a week of reining it in.
Stop that shit man.
He sounds deranged.
I don't.
He sounds needy and controlling and when she told him to calm his tits over christmas he managed a week of reining it in.
Stop that shit man.
He sounds deranged.