Nardos Bellete
@nardosbellete.bsky.social
I’m curious, quirky, and quixotic. I tend to think about human dynamics a lot. And I talk about stuff most people avoid talking about.
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Nardos Bellete
@nardosbellete.bsky.social
· Apr 18
Relationships built on ego and inauthenticity will cost you so much. Soul-aligned relationships will always bless both parties.
I’m LOVING Marvel’s shadow work era.
We need to look at our blocks to let more light in 💗
We need to look at our blocks to let more light in 💗
‘SPIDER-MAN: BRAND NEW DAY’ will reportedly force Peter Parker and The Hulk to confront their personal trauma and the guilt of their past.
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December 13, 2025 at 6:16 PM
I’m LOVING Marvel’s shadow work era.
We need to look at our blocks to let more light in 💗
We need to look at our blocks to let more light in 💗
The people trying to control others have been rewriting what Jesus meant since he was living.
MEEK doesn’t mean passive or silent or anything like that.
MEEK really means having the humility to be Open-minded to new beliefs and ideas. Having the ability to change your mind without ego!
MEEK doesn’t mean passive or silent or anything like that.
MEEK really means having the humility to be Open-minded to new beliefs and ideas. Having the ability to change your mind without ego!
December 13, 2025 at 3:38 PM
The people trying to control others have been rewriting what Jesus meant since he was living.
MEEK doesn’t mean passive or silent or anything like that.
MEEK really means having the humility to be Open-minded to new beliefs and ideas. Having the ability to change your mind without ego!
MEEK doesn’t mean passive or silent or anything like that.
MEEK really means having the humility to be Open-minded to new beliefs and ideas. Having the ability to change your mind without ego!
Carl Jung is a pioneer in human psychology and yet he wrote this on his wife’s epitaph: “Oh outstanding vessel of devotion and obedience!…”
This shows how clueless people can be in relationships despite being smart.
This shows how clueless people can be in relationships despite being smart.
December 7, 2025 at 5:01 AM
Carl Jung is a pioneer in human psychology and yet he wrote this on his wife’s epitaph: “Oh outstanding vessel of devotion and obedience!…”
This shows how clueless people can be in relationships despite being smart.
This shows how clueless people can be in relationships despite being smart.
Love can be unconditional
But relationships are ALWAYS conditional on how you are treated
Even if you think someone is “the one” you gotta choose and protect yourself first—sometimes you have to break soul ties and wish them well unto God’s next
But relationships are ALWAYS conditional on how you are treated
Even if you think someone is “the one” you gotta choose and protect yourself first—sometimes you have to break soul ties and wish them well unto God’s next
July 11, 2025 at 2:18 AM
Love can be unconditional
But relationships are ALWAYS conditional on how you are treated
Even if you think someone is “the one” you gotta choose and protect yourself first—sometimes you have to break soul ties and wish them well unto God’s next
But relationships are ALWAYS conditional on how you are treated
Even if you think someone is “the one” you gotta choose and protect yourself first—sometimes you have to break soul ties and wish them well unto God’s next
Stranger danger signs I tell kiddos & families:
—if an adult (not your caregivers) is trying to rush you into making a decision/go somewhere
—if an adult is asking a minor for help
—if an adult (ANY adult, even family) asks you to keep something a secret from your caregivers
—if an adult (not your caregivers) is trying to rush you into making a decision/go somewhere
—if an adult is asking a minor for help
—if an adult (ANY adult, even family) asks you to keep something a secret from your caregivers
July 10, 2025 at 1:12 AM
Stranger danger signs I tell kiddos & families:
—if an adult (not your caregivers) is trying to rush you into making a decision/go somewhere
—if an adult is asking a minor for help
—if an adult (ANY adult, even family) asks you to keep something a secret from your caregivers
—if an adult (not your caregivers) is trying to rush you into making a decision/go somewhere
—if an adult is asking a minor for help
—if an adult (ANY adult, even family) asks you to keep something a secret from your caregivers
We should normalize relationships where mutual respect, good communication, & validation is the foundation. That’s the basic standard.
Why is it normal to be in transactional relationships or to not respect your partner or to think settling is okay? Don’t both ppl deserve so much more than that?
Why is it normal to be in transactional relationships or to not respect your partner or to think settling is okay? Don’t both ppl deserve so much more than that?
July 9, 2025 at 7:37 PM
We should normalize relationships where mutual respect, good communication, & validation is the foundation. That’s the basic standard.
Why is it normal to be in transactional relationships or to not respect your partner or to think settling is okay? Don’t both ppl deserve so much more than that?
Why is it normal to be in transactional relationships or to not respect your partner or to think settling is okay? Don’t both ppl deserve so much more than that?
Working with families I often see parents who overaccommodate their child’s anxiety or discomfort by lowering expectations for their behavior or letting them avoid places or tasks.
My response: Noooooo! Anxiety goes up with avoidance and lowering expectations hurts their social skills/relationships
My response: Noooooo! Anxiety goes up with avoidance and lowering expectations hurts their social skills/relationships
July 9, 2025 at 1:41 PM
Working with families I often see parents who overaccommodate their child’s anxiety or discomfort by lowering expectations for their behavior or letting them avoid places or tasks.
My response: Noooooo! Anxiety goes up with avoidance and lowering expectations hurts their social skills/relationships
My response: Noooooo! Anxiety goes up with avoidance and lowering expectations hurts their social skills/relationships
I’ve been randomly thinking a lot about Jackie O today. I always thought she epitomized style, grace, kindness, and a quiet strength. Most importantly, she was authentically herself, you see it in her effortless manner.
Being authentically yourself is what makes you glow.
Being authentically yourself is what makes you glow.
July 9, 2025 at 2:22 AM
I’ve been randomly thinking a lot about Jackie O today. I always thought she epitomized style, grace, kindness, and a quiet strength. Most importantly, she was authentically herself, you see it in her effortless manner.
Being authentically yourself is what makes you glow.
Being authentically yourself is what makes you glow.
Great affirmation to try!
“May I love myself as I am, not as others think I should be.”
“May I love myself as I am, not as others think I should be.”
July 8, 2025 at 1:43 AM
Great affirmation to try!
“May I love myself as I am, not as others think I should be.”
“May I love myself as I am, not as others think I should be.”
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I have no notes!!! Amen 👏🏽
A soulmate is someone who is committed to evolving with you and wants to work through things together. They're willing to have difficult conversations and are dedicated to finding solutions that make you both feel safe, secure, loved, reassured, and respected in the relationship.
July 7, 2025 at 11:56 PM
I have no notes!!! Amen 👏🏽
Jesus didn’t want to be praised or exalted above anyone. He wanted us to remember our own divinity within, the light of our own soul that has the answers you seek.
July 4, 2025 at 11:46 PM
Jesus didn’t want to be praised or exalted above anyone. He wanted us to remember our own divinity within, the light of our own soul that has the answers you seek.
It’s not about making mistakes—we all have to accept that mistakes come with being a human and being alive. What counts is how you clean up your mistakes and learn from them.
July 1, 2025 at 7:53 PM
It’s not about making mistakes—we all have to accept that mistakes come with being a human and being alive. What counts is how you clean up your mistakes and learn from them.
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“Very funny, Jesus. Give it back.”
July 1, 2025 at 5:41 PM
“Very funny, Jesus. Give it back.”
How crazy is it that most people live their lives not trusting themselves, their intuition, or the timing of things in their life?
July 1, 2025 at 5:07 AM
How crazy is it that most people live their lives not trusting themselves, their intuition, or the timing of things in their life?
Feeling like you can’t be soft or open hearted when dating (man/woman/nonbinary) is likely a sign of being unhealed. Healed folks can date and be open hearted, they know vulnerability is their strength.
July 1, 2025 at 4:44 AM
Feeling like you can’t be soft or open hearted when dating (man/woman/nonbinary) is likely a sign of being unhealed. Healed folks can date and be open hearted, they know vulnerability is their strength.
I’m so torn between seeing Most Adorable New England towns or Most Haunted New England towns! Talk about hard choices.
June 29, 2025 at 3:14 PM
I’m so torn between seeing Most Adorable New England towns or Most Haunted New England towns! Talk about hard choices.
Growing and healing is a journey to freedom. To no longer be bound by your autopilot brain and reactions, to become more fully aware of your choices in any given moment and to select the most discerning choice for yourself—that’s true liberation.
June 26, 2025 at 7:53 PM
Growing and healing is a journey to freedom. To no longer be bound by your autopilot brain and reactions, to become more fully aware of your choices in any given moment and to select the most discerning choice for yourself—that’s true liberation.
Sometimes letting go of your idea of ‘the one’ is why letting go of them was so hard.
Reframing it as ‘letting go of who my mind made up’ is more accurate and helpful.
Reframing it as ‘letting go of who my mind made up’ is more accurate and helpful.
June 26, 2025 at 1:38 AM
Sometimes letting go of your idea of ‘the one’ is why letting go of them was so hard.
Reframing it as ‘letting go of who my mind made up’ is more accurate and helpful.
Reframing it as ‘letting go of who my mind made up’ is more accurate and helpful.
Have you ever stayed up to finish a 1000 piece puzzle and found out you were missing 2 pieces in the end?
My triumph has been dashed by the universe.
My triumph has been dashed by the universe.
June 24, 2025 at 5:34 AM
Have you ever stayed up to finish a 1000 piece puzzle and found out you were missing 2 pieces in the end?
My triumph has been dashed by the universe.
My triumph has been dashed by the universe.
Don’t give up God’s gifts to connect with someone who’s unable to connect with you in your growth. The people really meant for you can’t find you if you’re delaying your growth to connect with a person/people that don’t get you and don’t see you.
June 21, 2025 at 10:26 PM
Don’t give up God’s gifts to connect with someone who’s unable to connect with you in your growth. The people really meant for you can’t find you if you’re delaying your growth to connect with a person/people that don’t get you and don’t see you.
Who doesn’t love Owen Wilson?? It’s impossible. Unless you don’t like lightheartedness and whimsy.
PS Stick on Apple TV+ is a fun watch
PS Stick on Apple TV+ is a fun watch
June 16, 2025 at 2:01 AM
Who doesn’t love Owen Wilson?? It’s impossible. Unless you don’t like lightheartedness and whimsy.
PS Stick on Apple TV+ is a fun watch
PS Stick on Apple TV+ is a fun watch
I can’t believe I JUST found Lucy Score books! Her themes are rom com classics but inclusive and thoughtful. Her heroines are funny and strong and the picture of what a quirky lady’s 30s really look like. Plus she totally gets folks who were love-ruined by Pride&Prejudice and Beauty&the Beast.
June 11, 2025 at 5:39 PM
I can’t believe I JUST found Lucy Score books! Her themes are rom com classics but inclusive and thoughtful. Her heroines are funny and strong and the picture of what a quirky lady’s 30s really look like. Plus she totally gets folks who were love-ruined by Pride&Prejudice and Beauty&the Beast.