@mypugviolet.bsky.social
High school teacher, kids, cats, books, plants, hiking, DnD, long-Covid, AuDHD (late-diagnosed). 💙
I’m not rich, but I have four 9x12 ruggables and that’s definitely a flex (they’re all secondhand). We don’t have “too many” pets, but we have enough that they’ve become a tactical consideration.
November 13, 2025 at 1:52 PM
I’m not rich, but I have four 9x12 ruggables and that’s definitely a flex (they’re all secondhand). We don’t have “too many” pets, but we have enough that they’ve become a tactical consideration.
I need this coffee to make me poop. 🙏 🙏🙏
November 12, 2025 at 1:28 PM
I need this coffee to make me poop. 🙏 🙏🙏
My guardian, keeping a watchful eye from the peak of Comfy Mountain.
November 11, 2025 at 6:02 PM
My guardian, keeping a watchful eye from the peak of Comfy Mountain.
So my bitch-ass auto-immune system decided it had beef with my thyroid and subsequently ruined my life. #hashimotos
November 9, 2025 at 10:22 PM
So my bitch-ass auto-immune system decided it had beef with my thyroid and subsequently ruined my life. #hashimotos
I am LIVING for the out-loud, full volume phone conversation I am hearing at the laundromat (my machine is broken). I don’t like drama in my life, but I want to KNOW the drama - drama-adjacent, if you will. #delicioustea
November 7, 2025 at 7:06 PM
I am LIVING for the out-loud, full volume phone conversation I am hearing at the laundromat (my machine is broken). I don’t like drama in my life, but I want to KNOW the drama - drama-adjacent, if you will. #delicioustea
The husbeast has once again captured his wily opponent, established dominance, and returned it to its watery lair. They say “happy wife, happy life,” but happiness matters for everyone.
November 6, 2025 at 5:21 PM
The husbeast has once again captured his wily opponent, established dominance, and returned it to its watery lair. They say “happy wife, happy life,” but happiness matters for everyone.
Sometime, despite buying cute clothes that were approved at the time of purchase, your autistic tween will dress in ways that you don’t like. It’s not worth distressing them - it’s just clothes. #AuDHDmom #AuDHDtween
November 6, 2025 at 5:15 PM
Sometime, despite buying cute clothes that were approved at the time of purchase, your autistic tween will dress in ways that you don’t like. It’s not worth distressing them - it’s just clothes. #AuDHDmom #AuDHDtween
I am really struggling with feeling ungrateful right now. In the last 10 days I’ve had a uterine biopsy, gotten a crown (stainless steel), and selected an insurance plan - three things I hated. But I’m well aware that I’m lucky to be able to afford one of these, much less all three.
November 5, 2025 at 2:46 PM
I am really struggling with feeling ungrateful right now. In the last 10 days I’ve had a uterine biopsy, gotten a crown (stainless steel), and selected an insurance plan - three things I hated. But I’m well aware that I’m lucky to be able to afford one of these, much less all three.
The PTA is sponsoring a “parent mixer” at a wine bar and my introverted, AuDHD self would rather DIE. It would probably be fun for someone…normal? Regular? My socially awkward ass could never.
November 3, 2025 at 3:23 PM
The PTA is sponsoring a “parent mixer” at a wine bar and my introverted, AuDHD self would rather DIE. It would probably be fun for someone…normal? Regular? My socially awkward ass could never.
I know my husband loves me. But he will choose himself over me every time. If I’m having an emotional need and he doesn’t know what to do or say, he will just pretend nothing’s happening while I’m quietly dying inside. In his mind, it’s better to do nothing than risk doing the wrong thing.
November 2, 2025 at 10:23 PM
I know my husband loves me. But he will choose himself over me every time. If I’m having an emotional need and he doesn’t know what to do or say, he will just pretend nothing’s happening while I’m quietly dying inside. In his mind, it’s better to do nothing than risk doing the wrong thing.
It’s taken 48 hours to realize that my past experience with SA was a looming cloud over my uterine biopsy. The biopsy was very painful, but the experience of being vulnerable and helpless while someone hurts you intimately launched an unending stream of panic attacks. #uterinebiopsy #sasurvivor
November 1, 2025 at 7:40 PM
It’s taken 48 hours to realize that my past experience with SA was a looming cloud over my uterine biopsy. The biopsy was very painful, but the experience of being vulnerable and helpless while someone hurts you intimately launched an unending stream of panic attacks. #uterinebiopsy #sasurvivor
One of my favorite pics of myself - my “Aunt Gladys” phase with victory rolls, circle pin, and cardigans.
October 29, 2025 at 2:05 AM
One of my favorite pics of myself - my “Aunt Gladys” phase with victory rolls, circle pin, and cardigans.
Menopause (for me) is wearing a black bra under a mint green shirt with blissful indifference. #unbothered
October 28, 2025 at 4:06 PM
Menopause (for me) is wearing a black bra under a mint green shirt with blissful indifference. #unbothered
This sweet gum outside my house…always staring! 😤
October 28, 2025 at 12:48 AM
This sweet gum outside my house…always staring! 😤
This bitch is doing the most, I swear to God. She was all, “Oh, you wanted to propagate? I got you!!”
October 16, 2025 at 2:14 PM
This bitch is doing the most, I swear to God. She was all, “Oh, you wanted to propagate? I got you!!”
So, I hear a nice brown lady got the Nobel prize…😏
October 10, 2025 at 10:44 PM
So, I hear a nice brown lady got the Nobel prize…😏
I just heard someone say “Living paycheck to paycheck used to be the struggle, now it’s the dream” and I think we’re fucked.
October 10, 2025 at 2:31 PM
I just heard someone say “Living paycheck to paycheck used to be the struggle, now it’s the dream” and I think we’re fucked.
I hope whichever ICE agent gets stuck monitoring my social media enjoys cats, plants, and mild GenX sarcasm.
October 5, 2025 at 2:34 PM
I hope whichever ICE agent gets stuck monitoring my social media enjoys cats, plants, and mild GenX sarcasm.
I’m listening to All Things Considered in my Subaru, so that tells you how to stereotype me. 🙂
October 3, 2025 at 8:06 PM
I’m listening to All Things Considered in my Subaru, so that tells you how to stereotype me. 🙂
A possum came by to check out my Halloween decorations 😍 It was 4:00 am - I suppose they were on their way home to bed. #possum #possuminthecity
October 3, 2025 at 5:14 PM
A possum came by to check out my Halloween decorations 😍 It was 4:00 am - I suppose they were on their way home to bed. #possum #possuminthecity
I ❤️ my elderly kitty girl, vintage linens, pothos cuttings in bottles and jars, and slow Sunday mornings.
September 28, 2025 at 3:00 PM
I ❤️ my elderly kitty girl, vintage linens, pothos cuttings in bottles and jars, and slow Sunday mornings.
My poor little autistic tween - I had to take her shopping because she needs a black dress and appropriate shoes for her grandpa’s funeral. She survived DSW and Old Navy and was in severe sensory overload and is currently resetting at a nearly empty Jason’s Deli. #autism #tween
September 27, 2025 at 9:15 PM
Me most days but especially in any social situation where I want to make a good impression…😬
September 26, 2025 at 3:10 PM
Me most days but especially in any social situation where I want to make a good impression…😬