Ms. Sam Stegemann
@mssamstegemann.bsky.social
Trans woman 🏳️⚧️ in the Hudson Valley of NY. Into that hard left stuff & The Mets. Oh, just like Sister Ray said.
open.substack.com/pub/mssamste... there’s a duck yelling at me again.
Places That Are Gone
And Where I'm Coming From
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April 9, 2025 at 3:46 AM
open.substack.com/pub/mssamste... there’s a duck yelling at me again.
Holy shit this Alabama- Maryland game is wild.
March 24, 2025 at 11:29 PM
Holy shit this Alabama- Maryland game is wild.
I have a Substack where I write about being trans and cats mssamstegemann.substack.com/p/sunday-mor...
Sunday Morning, Feeling Like A Girl
Mind and Body
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March 19, 2025 at 1:02 AM
I have a Substack where I write about being trans and cats mssamstegemann.substack.com/p/sunday-mor...
Haven’t had a drink since Obama’s first term which feel like 65 years ago.
March 18, 2025 at 12:54 AM
Haven’t had a drink since Obama’s first term which feel like 65 years ago.
At a point in my transition where I’m increasingly happy with my appearance but I have next to no sex drive. Kinda fine with that trade off right now.
March 17, 2025 at 1:51 AM
At a point in my transition where I’m increasingly happy with my appearance but I have next to no sex drive. Kinda fine with that trade off right now.
Cat being cat.
March 15, 2025 at 2:20 PM
Cat being cat.
The fastest way to my heart is to be a big something and a small something. The best option being big dog and a little dog who are friends but a big barn and a little barn will do.
March 15, 2025 at 12:58 AM
The fastest way to my heart is to be a big something and a small something. The best option being big dog and a little dog who are friends but a big barn and a little barn will do.
Making an effort to remember to use this account.
March 15, 2025 at 12:54 AM
Making an effort to remember to use this account.
The jump from 2019 to 2025 in the same shirt. Sometimes I used to wear the quiet part out loud. The shirt is no longer accurate at all.
March 15, 2025 at 12:39 AM
The jump from 2019 to 2025 in the same shirt. Sometimes I used to wear the quiet part out loud. The shirt is no longer accurate at all.
The view of the woods outside my kitchen is, like that one tree unparalleled.
March 14, 2025 at 8:08 PM
The view of the woods outside my kitchen is, like that one tree unparalleled.
Just shared a short piece about housing, traveling and girls on my Substack mssamstegemann.substack.com/p/detours-an...
Detours and Delays
Work, Snowstorms and The Adventures Of Being Myself In The World
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February 15, 2025 at 3:16 AM
Just shared a short piece about housing, traveling and girls on my Substack mssamstegemann.substack.com/p/detours-an...
One of my favorites baseball writers, and writers period has a new Mets Newsletter that you should read if you know a Mets fan or if you happen to be one like me.
Presenting The Mets Newsletter, a daily newsletter documenting all things Mets! In today's installment, I write about Pete Alonso, Jose Iglesias, fried deer steak, and much much more.
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Candelita Extinguished?
At least the Re-Pete is officially official
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February 13, 2025 at 7:20 PM
One of my favorites baseball writers, and writers period has a new Mets Newsletter that you should read if you know a Mets fan or if you happen to be one like me.
Trans girl morning coffee.
January 22, 2025 at 2:45 PM
Trans girl morning coffee.
Woke up trans yet again. This is just going to keep on happening.
January 22, 2025 at 1:30 AM
Woke up trans yet again. This is just going to keep on happening.
Stupid that we stopped at player pianos. I want a self playing oboe.
January 10, 2025 at 7:35 PM
Stupid that we stopped at player pianos. I want a self playing oboe.
Reposted by Ms. Sam Stegemann
Sharing this again
https://medium.com/@fruitygalalex/a-short-guide-to-avoiding-performative-allyship-d1868ed1eacc
https://medium.com/@fruitygalalex/a-short-guide-to-avoiding-performative-allyship-d1868ed1eacc
A Short Guide To Avoiding Performative Allyship | by Alex Herrera Wong | Dec, 2024 | Medium
When it comes to being an Ally to any marginalized community, it’s really easy to get derailed down the road and end up doing absolute nonsense that doesn’t actually help anyone. The following…
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January 8, 2025 at 8:31 PM
Always the back up. Never the back that ass up.
January 8, 2025 at 4:40 PM
Always the back up. Never the back that ass up.
A constant in my life on either side of my transition is I feel like I’m at best a romantic back up plan, never the plan. I’m 50, trans, single and cute but probably going to spend the rest of my life alone because I don’t want to be treated like that anymore.
January 8, 2025 at 4:12 PM
A constant in my life on either side of my transition is I feel like I’m at best a romantic back up plan, never the plan. I’m 50, trans, single and cute but probably going to spend the rest of my life alone because I don’t want to be treated like that anymore.
If I’m going to use this app I should share some cute pics of me in various outfits.
January 7, 2025 at 6:08 PM
If I’m going to use this app I should share some cute pics of me in various outfits.
Over the Holidays my sister gave me these road signs that my dad stole fair and square from the City of NY many years ago. Two of them will stay with me. The Yankees sign is going to a new home.
January 7, 2025 at 5:58 PM
Over the Holidays my sister gave me these road signs that my dad stole fair and square from the City of NY many years ago. Two of them will stay with me. The Yankees sign is going to a new home.
Good morning
December 13, 2024 at 1:30 PM
Good morning
Getting more colorful as I get older.
December 13, 2024 at 2:45 AM
Getting more colorful as I get older.
Kitchen devices a a girl who has them.
December 1, 2024 at 2:59 PM
Kitchen devices a a girl who has them.
At this time I’d like to recognize all of the people who just couldn’t be bothered to give a shit. You’re the real ones. I admire your dedication to absolutely nothing.
November 23, 2024 at 11:28 AM
At this time I’d like to recognize all of the people who just couldn’t be bothered to give a shit. You’re the real ones. I admire your dedication to absolutely nothing.