Mistress DragonFly
@mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social
I'm Mistress DragonFly and I really believe that the world would be a much better place if women were in charge. I'm married to a wonderful submissive husband whom has made my dream of a high protocol Female-led relationship possible. We live in Norway.
I really love how my husband's eagerness to do pretty much anything I ask (including very naughty things 😈) correlates directly with how long it's been since he's had a release. His last orgasm was November 9, and his Libido is now almost at the optimal level for our high protocol #FLR standards.
November 18, 2025 at 9:10 AM
I really love how my husband's eagerness to do pretty much anything I ask (including very naughty things 😈) correlates directly with how long it's been since he's had a release. His last orgasm was November 9, and his Libido is now almost at the optimal level for our high protocol #FLR standards.
Happiness is; A female-led relationship!
I'm sipping my Saturday morning coffee, checking out the internet and watching my husband do his household chores. Life doesn't get much better.
I'm sipping my Saturday morning coffee, checking out the internet and watching my husband do his household chores. Life doesn't get much better.
November 15, 2025 at 8:48 AM
Happiness is; A female-led relationship!
I'm sipping my Saturday morning coffee, checking out the internet and watching my husband do his household chores. Life doesn't get much better.
I'm sipping my Saturday morning coffee, checking out the internet and watching my husband do his household chores. Life doesn't get much better.
Last night was absolutely wonderful.
I was pampered with a nice hot bath, a delicious meal with some nice red wine. My husband's eager tongue made the evening perfect.
I was pampered with a nice hot bath, a delicious meal with some nice red wine. My husband's eager tongue made the evening perfect.
November 15, 2025 at 8:37 AM
Last night was absolutely wonderful.
I was pampered with a nice hot bath, a delicious meal with some nice red wine. My husband's eager tongue made the evening perfect.
I was pampered with a nice hot bath, a delicious meal with some nice red wine. My husband's eager tongue made the evening perfect.
Never forget that chivalry is a major turn-on for most women.
November 14, 2025 at 3:27 PM
Never forget that chivalry is a major turn-on for most women.
If I ran a bar or a restaurant this would be be the sign guiding people to the restrooms 🤣
November 14, 2025 at 3:12 PM
If I ran a bar or a restaurant this would be be the sign guiding people to the restrooms 🤣
This afternoon my husband is coming home from a 5 day business trip. After 5 full days in #chastity it's time for me to start working on his libido again 😈. I need him highly motivated to do his weekly household chores over the weekend.
November 14, 2025 at 2:50 AM
This afternoon my husband is coming home from a 5 day business trip. After 5 full days in #chastity it's time for me to start working on his libido again 😈. I need him highly motivated to do his weekly household chores over the weekend.
We are beck from our third "love weekend" this year and it has been a wonderful weekend for both of us. For my husband this weekend has been quite different than what he is used to. He has never had this many orgasms in such a short time period (90 hours), but he has also been 100% #pussyfree.
November 10, 2025 at 1:21 PM
We are beck from our third "love weekend" this year and it has been a wonderful weekend for both of us. For my husband this weekend has been quite different than what he is used to. He has never had this many orgasms in such a short time period (90 hours), but he has also been 100% #pussyfree.
#7: On Sunday he will be well spent and not very eager 😈. It will be a nice time for me to restrain him to the bed again and bring out "The Sucker". He is going to be completely dry and begging for mercy before I lock him back into #chastity for the last 50 days of the year. Video by The Shackler.
November 5, 2025 at 1:28 PM
#7: On Sunday he will be well spent and not very eager 😈. It will be a nice time for me to restrain him to the bed again and bring out "The Sucker". He is going to be completely dry and begging for mercy before I lock him back into #chastity for the last 50 days of the year. Video by The Shackler.
#6: Throughout the weekend there will be a lot of dirty talk and #SPH #humiliation. Simply because my husband gets so turned on by it. Comparing his tiny penis to my 10" Mr. perfect dildo, mocking his stamina, real hung men vs his #pussyfree lifestyle, making him suck and orally worship my dildos...
November 4, 2025 at 5:14 AM
#6: Throughout the weekend there will be a lot of dirty talk and #SPH #humiliation. Simply because my husband gets so turned on by it. Comparing his tiny penis to my 10" Mr. perfect dildo, mocking his stamina, real hung men vs his #pussyfree lifestyle, making him suck and orally worship my dildos...
Q: Does your #FLR relationship dynamic change during your love weekends?
A: Not much. The weekend is his reward for his 100 days of pussyfree #chastity. He is out of chastity obviously, and can have as many orgasms as he wants any way he wants, but he is still #submissive and I'm in charge.
A: Not much. The weekend is his reward for his 100 days of pussyfree #chastity. He is out of chastity obviously, and can have as many orgasms as he wants any way he wants, but he is still #submissive and I'm in charge.
November 3, 2025 at 10:39 PM
Q: Does your #FLR relationship dynamic change during your love weekends?
A: Not much. The weekend is his reward for his 100 days of pussyfree #chastity. He is out of chastity obviously, and can have as many orgasms as he wants any way he wants, but he is still #submissive and I'm in charge.
A: Not much. The weekend is his reward for his 100 days of pussyfree #chastity. He is out of chastity obviously, and can have as many orgasms as he wants any way he wants, but he is still #submissive and I'm in charge.
#5: Only a few more days to go 🤩. After two whole reward days with 100% focus on my husband, next Saturday will be mine. We've never done RL #cuckolding, but my husband is no stranger to seeing me orgasm on "Mr Perfect", my wonderful 10" dark brown dildo powered by my Stallion #fuckingmachine.
November 3, 2025 at 8:28 AM
#5: Only a few more days to go 🤩. After two whole reward days with 100% focus on my husband, next Saturday will be mine. We've never done RL #cuckolding, but my husband is no stranger to seeing me orgasm on "Mr Perfect", my wonderful 10" dark brown dildo powered by my Stallion #fuckingmachine.
#4: I know he has been dreaming about access to my divine cunt and to make love to me like a normal man. He has been 100% #pussyfree for 100 days. I will MAYBE grant him access! On Thursday when we've arrived at our holiday home. He'll be SO eager, but his tiny #prejac peanut won't last long 😈.
November 2, 2025 at 7:36 AM
#4: I know he has been dreaming about access to my divine cunt and to make love to me like a normal man. He has been 100% #pussyfree for 100 days. I will MAYBE grant him access! On Thursday when we've arrived at our holiday home. He'll be SO eager, but his tiny #prejac peanut won't last long 😈.
Me (us) next Thursday? On our way to our cabin by the sea?
I love being naughty in semi-public settings 😈.
I love being naughty in semi-public settings 😈.
November 1, 2025 at 9:02 AM
Me (us) next Thursday? On our way to our cabin by the sea?
I love being naughty in semi-public settings 😈.
I love being naughty in semi-public settings 😈.
#3: Next Friday will be MY day 😈, but he is going to love it. He'll spend most of the day in tight inescapable bondage and the sensory deprivation hood he loves so much. Hopefully I'll be able frustrate him and to keep him on the edge of orgasm for hours using my #Edgeomatic and various tools.
November 1, 2025 at 6:03 AM
#3: Next Friday will be MY day 😈, but he is going to love it. He'll spend most of the day in tight inescapable bondage and the sensory deprivation hood he loves so much. Hopefully I'll be able frustrate him and to keep him on the edge of orgasm for hours using my #Edgeomatic and various tools.
#2: At least once during the weekend I'll give him his absolute favorite. I'll eat his ass as I make him cum. He'll be in heaven!
October 31, 2025 at 3:23 AM
#2: At least once during the weekend I'll give him his absolute favorite. I'll eat his ass as I make him cum. He'll be in heaven!
For a dominant woman it is important to have a comprehensive collection of quality toys. And the most important toys must have proper names.
I just named my husband's SquarePeg buttplugs; "Little Improvement" (L/XL) and "Big Improvement" (XL).
There should always be room for improvement, right? 😈
I just named my husband's SquarePeg buttplugs; "Little Improvement" (L/XL) and "Big Improvement" (XL).
There should always be room for improvement, right? 😈
October 30, 2025 at 6:52 PM
For a dominant woman it is important to have a comprehensive collection of quality toys. And the most important toys must have proper names.
I just named my husband's SquarePeg buttplugs; "Little Improvement" (L/XL) and "Big Improvement" (XL).
There should always be room for improvement, right? 😈
I just named my husband's SquarePeg buttplugs; "Little Improvement" (L/XL) and "Big Improvement" (XL).
There should always be room for improvement, right? 😈
God I love my husband's tongue! He was amazing yesterday.
October 30, 2025 at 7:59 AM
God I love my husband's tongue! He was amazing yesterday.
I love my husband with all my heart. We make magic together!
..but I must admit that I long for a really massive cock that would make me cum. Preferably a beautiful circumcised girthy 10" black cock.
Does that make me a bad wife i wonder?
..but I must admit that I long for a really massive cock that would make me cum. Preferably a beautiful circumcised girthy 10" black cock.
Does that make me a bad wife i wonder?
October 29, 2025 at 7:29 AM
I love my husband with all my heart. We make magic together!
..but I must admit that I long for a really massive cock that would make me cum. Preferably a beautiful circumcised girthy 10" black cock.
Does that make me a bad wife i wonder?
..but I must admit that I long for a really massive cock that would make me cum. Preferably a beautiful circumcised girthy 10" black cock.
Does that make me a bad wife i wonder?
Just the tight grip of a condom may be enough to make him cum right after I've unlocked his #chastitycage. To his defense I have to add that his stamina improves quite a lot during the love weekend.
October 28, 2025 at 3:22 PM
Just the tight grip of a condom may be enough to make him cum right after I've unlocked his #chastitycage. To his defense I have to add that his stamina improves quite a lot during the love weekend.
Q: How bad really, is your husband's #prematureejaculation problem?
A: After 100 #pussyfree days with no penile stimulation, no real orgasm and 15 days since his last prostate draining, it's bad 😆. His first ejaculation always happen immediately almost right after or while undressing.
A: After 100 #pussyfree days with no penile stimulation, no real orgasm and 15 days since his last prostate draining, it's bad 😆. His first ejaculation always happen immediately almost right after or while undressing.
October 28, 2025 at 3:22 PM
Q: How bad really, is your husband's #prematureejaculation problem?
A: After 100 #pussyfree days with no penile stimulation, no real orgasm and 15 days since his last prostate draining, it's bad 😆. His first ejaculation always happen immediately almost right after or while undressing.
A: After 100 #pussyfree days with no penile stimulation, no real orgasm and 15 days since his last prostate draining, it's bad 😆. His first ejaculation always happen immediately almost right after or while undressing.
The kneeling position itself is quite painful if you're forced to sit like that for an hour or two. Add a 6,5cm wide rectal dilator (with for instance Tiger Balm as lube) and everything gets very interesting 😈. My husband needs to be thoroughly gagged. I'll supply a photo my "Boybreaker" later.
October 28, 2025 at 8:03 AM
The kneeling position itself is quite painful if you're forced to sit like that for an hour or two. Add a 6,5cm wide rectal dilator (with for instance Tiger Balm as lube) and everything gets very interesting 😈. My husband needs to be thoroughly gagged. I'll supply a photo my "Boybreaker" later.
After my husband's post earlier today I've received two questions asking me what my "Boybreaker" is.
Well it's a low stool with three restraining points. On for his hands (behind his back) and two for his legs. The restraining points keeps him firmly seated in a quite stressful kneeling position.
Well it's a low stool with three restraining points. On for his hands (behind his back) and two for his legs. The restraining points keeps him firmly seated in a quite stressful kneeling position.
October 28, 2025 at 8:03 AM
After my husband's post earlier today I've received two questions asking me what my "Boybreaker" is.
Well it's a low stool with three restraining points. On for his hands (behind his back) and two for his legs. The restraining points keeps him firmly seated in a quite stressful kneeling position.
Well it's a low stool with three restraining points. On for his hands (behind his back) and two for his legs. The restraining points keeps him firmly seated in a quite stressful kneeling position.
I just received a different kind of question: Can a woman have a #ruinedorgasm?
Definitley! If clit stimulation is withdrawn at the exact point of no return, the body still goes through some involuntary spasms (when contractions begin), but the brain doesn't get the full dopamine/oxytocin payoff.
Definitley! If clit stimulation is withdrawn at the exact point of no return, the body still goes through some involuntary spasms (when contractions begin), but the brain doesn't get the full dopamine/oxytocin payoff.
October 28, 2025 at 4:46 AM
I just received a different kind of question: Can a woman have a #ruinedorgasm?
Definitley! If clit stimulation is withdrawn at the exact point of no return, the body still goes through some involuntary spasms (when contractions begin), but the brain doesn't get the full dopamine/oxytocin payoff.
Definitley! If clit stimulation is withdrawn at the exact point of no return, the body still goes through some involuntary spasms (when contractions begin), but the brain doesn't get the full dopamine/oxytocin payoff.