Mistress DragonFly
@mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social
I'm Mistress DragonFly and I really believe that the world would be a much better place if women were in charge. I'm married to a wonderful submissive husband whom has made my dream of a high protocol Female-led relationship possible. We live in Norway.
I really love how my husband's eagerness to do pretty much anything I ask (including very naughty things 😈) correlates directly with how long it's been since he's had a release. His last orgasm was November 9, and his Libido is now almost at the optimal level for our high protocol #FLR standards.
November 18, 2025 at 9:10 AM
I really love how my husband's eagerness to do pretty much anything I ask (including very naughty things 😈) correlates directly with how long it's been since he's had a release. His last orgasm was November 9, and his Libido is now almost at the optimal level for our high protocol #FLR standards.
The perfect way to to make chaste and submissive men servile and obedient.
November 16, 2025 at 3:38 PM
The perfect way to to make chaste and submissive men servile and obedient.
Happiness is; A female-led relationship!
I'm sipping my Saturday morning coffee, checking out the internet and watching my husband do his household chores. Life doesn't get much better.
I'm sipping my Saturday morning coffee, checking out the internet and watching my husband do his household chores. Life doesn't get much better.
November 15, 2025 at 8:48 AM
Happiness is; A female-led relationship!
I'm sipping my Saturday morning coffee, checking out the internet and watching my husband do his household chores. Life doesn't get much better.
I'm sipping my Saturday morning coffee, checking out the internet and watching my husband do his household chores. Life doesn't get much better.
Last night was absolutely wonderful.
I was pampered with a nice hot bath, a delicious meal with some nice red wine. My husband's eager tongue made the evening perfect.
I was pampered with a nice hot bath, a delicious meal with some nice red wine. My husband's eager tongue made the evening perfect.
November 15, 2025 at 8:37 AM
Last night was absolutely wonderful.
I was pampered with a nice hot bath, a delicious meal with some nice red wine. My husband's eager tongue made the evening perfect.
I was pampered with a nice hot bath, a delicious meal with some nice red wine. My husband's eager tongue made the evening perfect.
Never forget that chivalry is a major turn-on for most women.
November 14, 2025 at 3:27 PM
Never forget that chivalry is a major turn-on for most women.
If I ran a bar or a restaurant this would be be the sign guiding people to the restrooms 🤣
November 14, 2025 at 3:12 PM
If I ran a bar or a restaurant this would be be the sign guiding people to the restrooms 🤣
This afternoon my husband is coming home from a 5 day business trip. After 5 full days in #chastity it's time for me to start working on his libido again 😈. I need him highly motivated to do his weekly household chores over the weekend.
November 14, 2025 at 2:50 AM
This afternoon my husband is coming home from a 5 day business trip. After 5 full days in #chastity it's time for me to start working on his libido again 😈. I need him highly motivated to do his weekly household chores over the weekend.
We are beck from our third "love weekend" this year and it has been a wonderful weekend for both of us. For my husband this weekend has been quite different than what he is used to. He has never had this many orgasms in such a short time period (90 hours), but he has also been 100% #pussyfree.
November 10, 2025 at 1:21 PM
We are beck from our third "love weekend" this year and it has been a wonderful weekend for both of us. For my husband this weekend has been quite different than what he is used to. He has never had this many orgasms in such a short time period (90 hours), but he has also been 100% #pussyfree.
The car is packed and ready. We take off early tomorrow morning. Just unlocking his cage and giving him his first quick "reward" 🤣 before leaving.
My husband's 3rd love-weekend reward is coming up in just over a week. He is extremely excited, but also a bit nervous about the changes I'm going to make. I'm busy planning it all and getting quite excited myself. We're going to our cabin by the sea and I'm bringing the following gear + some.
November 5, 2025 at 7:34 PM
The car is packed and ready. We take off early tomorrow morning. Just unlocking his cage and giving him his first quick "reward" 🤣 before leaving.
Q: Does your #FLR relationship dynamic change during your love weekends?
A: Not much. The weekend is his reward for his 100 days of pussyfree #chastity. He is out of chastity obviously, and can have as many orgasms as he wants any way he wants, but he is still #submissive and I'm in charge.
A: Not much. The weekend is his reward for his 100 days of pussyfree #chastity. He is out of chastity obviously, and can have as many orgasms as he wants any way he wants, but he is still #submissive and I'm in charge.
November 3, 2025 at 10:39 PM
Q: Does your #FLR relationship dynamic change during your love weekends?
A: Not much. The weekend is his reward for his 100 days of pussyfree #chastity. He is out of chastity obviously, and can have as many orgasms as he wants any way he wants, but he is still #submissive and I'm in charge.
A: Not much. The weekend is his reward for his 100 days of pussyfree #chastity. He is out of chastity obviously, and can have as many orgasms as he wants any way he wants, but he is still #submissive and I'm in charge.
This was a very good piece on prostate play. Understanding how the prostate work is the key to understanding the male orgasm, and once you do it's way easier to get started with male #chastity.
November 3, 2025 at 8:38 PM
This was a very good piece on prostate play. Understanding how the prostate work is the key to understanding the male orgasm, and once you do it's way easier to get started with male #chastity.
My husband was unable to sit down at work today after yesterday's rather harsh maintenance #spanking. It's a good thing his office building is equipped with standing desks 🤣. He got to taste both the bath brush and my Delrin cane before finishing up with 30 mins of #cornertime.
November 3, 2025 at 5:10 PM
My husband was unable to sit down at work today after yesterday's rather harsh maintenance #spanking. It's a good thing his office building is equipped with standing desks 🤣. He got to taste both the bath brush and my Delrin cane before finishing up with 30 mins of #cornertime.
Sweet. I need one of these... 😈
What a nice little box...
It let me control the e-shock collar of my slave @reprogrammed.bsky.social via the Internet.
😈
It let me control the e-shock collar of my slave @reprogrammed.bsky.social via the Internet.
😈
November 2, 2025 at 1:19 PM
Sweet. I need one of these... 😈
I just received a question regarding our "love wekends" and how I deal with his refractory periods.
To be honest, it isn't easy. He wants to be constantly horny, but his body deceives him. He is 50+, with both minor erection issues and long refractory periods. My solution so far = #Cialis.
To be honest, it isn't easy. He wants to be constantly horny, but his body deceives him. He is 50+, with both minor erection issues and long refractory periods. My solution so far = #Cialis.
November 2, 2025 at 8:01 AM
I just received a question regarding our "love wekends" and how I deal with his refractory periods.
To be honest, it isn't easy. He wants to be constantly horny, but his body deceives him. He is 50+, with both minor erection issues and long refractory periods. My solution so far = #Cialis.
To be honest, it isn't easy. He wants to be constantly horny, but his body deceives him. He is 50+, with both minor erection issues and long refractory periods. My solution so far = #Cialis.
Me (us) next Thursday? On our way to our cabin by the sea?
I love being naughty in semi-public settings 😈.
I love being naughty in semi-public settings 😈.
November 1, 2025 at 9:02 AM
Me (us) next Thursday? On our way to our cabin by the sea?
I love being naughty in semi-public settings 😈.
I love being naughty in semi-public settings 😈.
I just love the #SPH and #Cuckolding comics by @burdieowo.bsky.social. They are super cute. I'd love to see some with #FLR and #Chastity theme as well 😉.
November 1, 2025 at 7:13 AM
I just love the #SPH and #Cuckolding comics by @burdieowo.bsky.social. They are super cute. I'd love to see some with #FLR and #Chastity theme as well 😉.
For a dominant woman it is important to have a comprehensive collection of quality toys. And the most important toys must have proper names.
I just named my husband's SquarePeg buttplugs; "Little Improvement" (L/XL) and "Big Improvement" (XL).
There should always be room for improvement, right? 😈
I just named my husband's SquarePeg buttplugs; "Little Improvement" (L/XL) and "Big Improvement" (XL).
There should always be room for improvement, right? 😈
October 30, 2025 at 6:52 PM
For a dominant woman it is important to have a comprehensive collection of quality toys. And the most important toys must have proper names.
I just named my husband's SquarePeg buttplugs; "Little Improvement" (L/XL) and "Big Improvement" (XL).
There should always be room for improvement, right? 😈
I just named my husband's SquarePeg buttplugs; "Little Improvement" (L/XL) and "Big Improvement" (XL).
There should always be room for improvement, right? 😈
Today I'll start the countdown towards the unlocking my husband's #chastitycage which will happen the morning of Thursday November 6th at 06:00. There are only 7 days left of this chastity period of 100 days.
October 30, 2025 at 8:54 AM
Today I'll start the countdown towards the unlocking my husband's #chastitycage which will happen the morning of Thursday November 6th at 06:00. There are only 7 days left of this chastity period of 100 days.
God I love my husband's tongue! He was amazing yesterday.
October 30, 2025 at 7:59 AM
God I love my husband's tongue! He was amazing yesterday.
I love my husband with all my heart. We make magic together!
..but I must admit that I long for a really massive cock that would make me cum. Preferably a beautiful circumcised girthy 10" black cock.
Does that make me a bad wife i wonder?
..but I must admit that I long for a really massive cock that would make me cum. Preferably a beautiful circumcised girthy 10" black cock.
Does that make me a bad wife i wonder?
October 29, 2025 at 7:29 AM
I love my husband with all my heart. We make magic together!
..but I must admit that I long for a really massive cock that would make me cum. Preferably a beautiful circumcised girthy 10" black cock.
Does that make me a bad wife i wonder?
..but I must admit that I long for a really massive cock that would make me cum. Preferably a beautiful circumcised girthy 10" black cock.
Does that make me a bad wife i wonder?
Q: How bad really, is your husband's #prematureejaculation problem?
A: After 100 #pussyfree days with no penile stimulation, no real orgasm and 15 days since his last prostate draining, it's bad 😆. His first ejaculation always happen immediately almost right after or while undressing.
A: After 100 #pussyfree days with no penile stimulation, no real orgasm and 15 days since his last prostate draining, it's bad 😆. His first ejaculation always happen immediately almost right after or while undressing.
October 28, 2025 at 3:22 PM
Q: How bad really, is your husband's #prematureejaculation problem?
A: After 100 #pussyfree days with no penile stimulation, no real orgasm and 15 days since his last prostate draining, it's bad 😆. His first ejaculation always happen immediately almost right after or while undressing.
A: After 100 #pussyfree days with no penile stimulation, no real orgasm and 15 days since his last prostate draining, it's bad 😆. His first ejaculation always happen immediately almost right after or while undressing.
Yesterday I wrote a short recommendation for the Obedient Love" podcast.
If you're a woman and curious about female-led relationships #FLR and long term male #chastity you definitely should listen to episode #20.
obedientlove.podbean.com/e/obedient-l...
If you're a woman and curious about female-led relationships #FLR and long term male #chastity you definitely should listen to episode #20.
obedientlove.podbean.com/e/obedient-l...
Obedient Love 20 | Obedient Love Podcast
Ms. Viola talks about the many aspects of long term chastity.
Custom devices:
https://www.maturemetal.com/
https://www.evotionwearables.com/
Uniquely Us by Ms. Rika:
https://www.lulu.com/en/us/sho...
obedientlove.podbean.com
October 28, 2025 at 10:37 AM
Yesterday I wrote a short recommendation for the Obedient Love" podcast.
If you're a woman and curious about female-led relationships #FLR and long term male #chastity you definitely should listen to episode #20.
obedientlove.podbean.com/e/obedient-l...
If you're a woman and curious about female-led relationships #FLR and long term male #chastity you definitely should listen to episode #20.
obedientlove.podbean.com/e/obedient-l...
After my husband's post earlier today I've received two questions asking me what my "Boybreaker" is.
Well it's a low stool with three restraining points. On for his hands (behind his back) and two for his legs. The restraining points keeps him firmly seated in a quite stressful kneeling position.
Well it's a low stool with three restraining points. On for his hands (behind his back) and two for his legs. The restraining points keeps him firmly seated in a quite stressful kneeling position.
October 28, 2025 at 8:03 AM
After my husband's post earlier today I've received two questions asking me what my "Boybreaker" is.
Well it's a low stool with three restraining points. On for his hands (behind his back) and two for his legs. The restraining points keeps him firmly seated in a quite stressful kneeling position.
Well it's a low stool with three restraining points. On for his hands (behind his back) and two for his legs. The restraining points keeps him firmly seated in a quite stressful kneeling position.
I just received a different kind of question: Can a woman have a #ruinedorgasm?
Definitley! If clit stimulation is withdrawn at the exact point of no return, the body still goes through some involuntary spasms (when contractions begin), but the brain doesn't get the full dopamine/oxytocin payoff.
Definitley! If clit stimulation is withdrawn at the exact point of no return, the body still goes through some involuntary spasms (when contractions begin), but the brain doesn't get the full dopamine/oxytocin payoff.
October 28, 2025 at 4:46 AM
I just received a different kind of question: Can a woman have a #ruinedorgasm?
Definitley! If clit stimulation is withdrawn at the exact point of no return, the body still goes through some involuntary spasms (when contractions begin), but the brain doesn't get the full dopamine/oxytocin payoff.
Definitley! If clit stimulation is withdrawn at the exact point of no return, the body still goes through some involuntary spasms (when contractions begin), but the brain doesn't get the full dopamine/oxytocin payoff.
In my continuous search for other strong women leading high protocol female-led relationships, I came across Ms. Viola Strepsata Voltairine and her awesome Obedient Love Podcast.
If you want to know more about the #FLR lifestyle, her episodes are highly recommended. obedientlove.podbean.com
If you want to know more about the #FLR lifestyle, her episodes are highly recommended. obedientlove.podbean.com
October 27, 2025 at 1:05 PM
In my continuous search for other strong women leading high protocol female-led relationships, I came across Ms. Viola Strepsata Voltairine and her awesome Obedient Love Podcast.
If you want to know more about the #FLR lifestyle, her episodes are highly recommended. obedientlove.podbean.com
If you want to know more about the #FLR lifestyle, her episodes are highly recommended. obedientlove.podbean.com