Mainstream media: thank you for pointing out that the general public is frightened for their safety but thankfully the NYPD has their backs. Don’t rope the NYPD into your game. The GP isn’t worried.

Thinking about the Brian Thompson murder. C-Suite execs: the easy response is increase security for execs and increased surveillance for the public. The tough response is to self-reflect about your role within society and adjust accordingly.

So yeah. When us confident adults experience conflict, we do the difficult thing. We confront the conflict head-on as scary as it may seem. And we work to resolve the conflict. Narcs don’t do this, they are way too scared of confrontation. They’re cowards. Fucking cowards. #narc #raisedbynarcissists

Recognize the Narc. Do they present as confident? But when conflict arises they don’t confront the conflict head-on with confidence, instead they scheme for revenge? This is a narcissist. A coward. #narc #empathy #sociopath #bpd #borderline

Then, proceed to do what you need to do. Destroy them by using their own plan against them. Start lining up your escape plan, start acquiring things that you’ll need (on their dime), and start documenting their shenanigans including photos and video.

So if you as the victim recognize their shady game, then you can gain control of the situation and begin to exploit the narcs blind spot. Acting is involved, so just act like you were before: none the wiser. Act aloof, just as they assume that you are. NEVER tell them that you’ve figured them out.

Here is a huge blind spot of the narc. Narcissists believe that they are so smart, and they believe that their targets are aloof. They get into a rhythm with their manipulations, and they assume that since they are so crazy smart and devious that they’ll again perfectly get away with their plan.

Starting to recognize toxicity is difficult esp. if you grew up in a toxic environment. Often it comes down to figuring it out yourself - after years of abuse.

#narcissism #aspd #borderline #toxicfamilyroles

Once you’ve begun to recognize your situation, PLAY DUMB and just watch what is going on. NEVER confront your abuser about what you now know to be happening. Keep everything in your head - for now. It’ll be tough but you must do it. If you don’t, your cover will be blown. #psychology #abuse

Intro 4: Here I’ll discuss what has worked for me in my long, painful journey of being a codependent whipping boy for shitty individuals. Years of hell until well in adulthood when I learned to turn the tables. I enjoy destroying toxic individuals.

#narcissism #scapegoat #cluster-b

Intro 3: I feel your pain brothers and sisters. It’s not you. It’s them. And they deserve to be destroyed for what they’ve done to you.

#psychology #narcissism #smearcampaign #scapegoat #toxicity #toxicfamilystructure #toxicfamilyroles #revenge

Intro 2: Just as importantly are you competitive? Do you have the drive to declare war upon your abusers? To do whatever it takes to fucking win this bullshit game that they created?

#psychology #narcissism #smearcampaign #scapegoat #toxicity #toxicfamilystructure #toxicfamilyroles #revenge

Intro 1: This account is intended to empower victims of narcissistic abuse by providing strategies that I have learned over the years. Are you an outcast member of your own family? Are you a victim of a smear campaign? Are you morally principled yet keep finding yourself a victim of abuse?