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Very Tired Lesbian
@mistinguettes.bsky.social
LitFic & essay whisperer
Nonprofit/philanthropic wrangler
MPA. INTJ.FAFO.
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WHY YOU NEED TO KNOW THIS: So you can get in where you fit in.

Can you give $$? Give time? Can you cook? Keep good records? Have a flatbed truck? Can your strong back haul bags of groceries? Are you a good table host? A great greeter?

Find your right place. Your neighbors need you NOW.
October 30, 2025 at 7:22 PM
🧵MEAL SITE = Local. Provides communal hot meals or brown bag takeaway lunches. Think: soup kitchens, elder group meals, afterschool programs. Need volunteer cooks, servers, cleaners, distribution staff, and people w/ trucks to pick up food, which is primarily sourced from food banks. Also need $.
October 30, 2025 at 7:14 PM
If you want to give to a food pantry: Donations of $$ help them buy the meat or butter needed to make a meal of food bank supplied dry goods.

If you want to do a food drive/give donations of food, ask what *specific* foods your pantry needs to make their grocery bags complete meals for families.
October 30, 2025 at 7:10 PM
🧵FOOD PANTRY Local. Distributes bags of groceries to individuals and families. Food mostly comes from food banks, supplemented by food and $$ donations. Mix of staff and volunteers. Need volunteers for stocking, distribution, people with trucks to go to the Food Bank.
October 30, 2025 at 7:08 PM
The national network of Food Banks is called Feeding America.
Find your local Food Bank here:
www.feedingamerica.org/find-your-lo...
Find Your Local Food Bank | Feeding America
Find the Feeding America member food bank nearest you. Over 200 member food banks can connect you with free food, food pantries, soup kitchens, and mobile pantries in your community.
www.feedingamerica.org
October 30, 2025 at 7:04 PM
🧵FOOD BANK = Warehouse that collects literal tons of govt surplus, farm gleanings & chain grocery donations. Distributes food to pantries, meal sites, & childcare programs, not individuals. Staffed by tractor-trailer and pallet jack drivers. Give $$: $1 donated to a food bank buys $7 worth of food.
October 30, 2025 at 7:03 PM
Reposted by Very Tired Lesbian
Notably: every single rally (including in the small towns) was bigger than the surrounding police force available. That kind of image event is VERY IMPORTANT if you're, I dunno, demonstrating social coherence AGAINST a fascist government and it's makeshift gestapo.
October 19, 2025 at 1:56 AM
Krystal, thank you for this frequent prompt. Could you include a link to “how to do this” next time? Not your job, but for effectiveness. I trusted your voice, so when you gave the prompt + the how-to, I actually changed my behavior. Now always use ALT-text!

Offered with much appreciation
September 20, 2025 at 7:36 PM
Former food bank administrator here. Food banks are giant warehouses that receive & distribute government surplus and bulk purchased food to your local emergency food pantry & meal sites. This survey determines how food banks are funded. This means no govt cheese or PB, no community meals.
September 20, 2025 at 7:15 PM
More to the point: Fuck them so I can be safe. Sacrifice them so I can be safe.
September 20, 2025 at 3:39 PM
OH resident here. I think the subtext is “sacrifice women/Appalachians/etc so that coastal metros can keep their freedom, comfort, and sense of superiority” e.g. maintain the liberal status quo
September 20, 2025 at 3:19 PM
It is always clarifying to say “Guantanamo Bay, Cuba.” Most Americans don’t understand this political prison is not in the U.S.
September 14, 2025 at 2:08 PM
Thank you for beginning this conversation long ago, with your cemetery tours and research to write your novel Spider In A Tree. Northampton once lived in denial that it had residents held in slavery. You are a part of the illumination and rememory of their precious lives in that place.
September 14, 2025 at 2:28 AM
Got mine last weekend. So hard to find in Ohio.
September 12, 2025 at 7:43 PM
I’ve spent decades building community groups and shifting distribution of $$$ towards building a more just future. I have 12-15 people I call to check on. I have 0.5 people who check on me. It feels like “weak sauce” if you’re held in community, but not if you’re the one doing the holding.
September 12, 2025 at 7:29 PM
I don’t know which newsletter you mean, but I sure could use some uplift
August 8, 2025 at 6:21 PM