Your tastes can be refined by logic, a social ethics, a cultural standard of beauty, but the authority arrow goes inward, not outward. In the real world, you have to still 'show your work.' An alliance of personal tastes don't cut it.

we are all of us the merging of two sexes, the maleness and femaleness pervade us no matter what the culture thinks at any particular point in human history. Associating gender only with sex organs is as stupid as associating white skin only with purity.

You should watch the Mare of Easttown creator’s next limited Series Task with Ruffalo. He’s a birdist and whole plot point about vagrant birds that deviate from the path. If you haven’t seen Mare get on it, Kate Winslet disgruntled detective.