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I spoke with managers who realised the task had taken over. They care about their people, but the urgent work kept shouting louder.
Ignore the individual and the team now, and the problems only grow later.
I spoke with managers who realised the task had taken over. They care about their people, but the urgent work kept shouting louder.
Ignore the individual and the team now, and the problems only grow later.
I spoke with managers this week who realised they’d nudged them down the diary when things got busy. Not on purpose, but because the noise took over.
It sends a message about priorities.
I spoke with managers this week who realised they’d nudged them down the diary when things got busy. Not on purpose, but because the noise took over.
It sends a message about priorities.
We talked about assertiveness rights this week and I admitted I still struggle with that one. My head gets it, my emotions lag behind.
Most of us find at least one tricky. Which one is hardest for you? I’m hoping it’s not just me.
We talked about assertiveness rights this week and I admitted I still struggle with that one. My head gets it, my emotions lag behind.
Most of us find at least one tricky. Which one is hardest for you? I’m hoping it’s not just me.
Tough experiences don’t hold us back; they shape us. They build empathy, resilience and perspective — often our greatest strengths.
How much we share is another question…
Tough experiences don’t hold us back; they shape us. They build empathy, resilience and perspective — often our greatest strengths.
How much we share is another question…
Sometimes our managers don’t model the habits or culture we’d like to see. It’s frustrating, but don’t let that stop you. You might not change the whole organisation, but you can shape the culture in your team and often, that’s enough.
Sometimes our managers don’t model the habits or culture we’d like to see. It’s frustrating, but don’t let that stop you. You might not change the whole organisation, but you can shape the culture in your team and often, that’s enough.
Some of the paper’s errors this year are so bad they’re almost laughable 👇🏻
They wanted to prepare their team but not break trust.
I think the answer is context: share the “why”, not the “what”. Help people prepare for change, not panic.
They wanted to prepare their team but not break trust.
I think the answer is context: share the “why”, not the “what”. Help people prepare for change, not panic.
“How much should I tell my team?”
There’s tension above them, and the team can feel it.
Say too much, and you pass the stress down.
Say too little, and trust takes a hit.
How do you decide where to draw the line?
“How much should I tell my team?”
There’s tension above them, and the team can feel it.
Say too much, and you pass the stress down.
Say too little, and trust takes a hit.
How do you decide where to draw the line?
“You need to create moaning space for your team.”
We often shut down negativity, but unspoken frustrations don’t vanish — they go underground.
A little space to vent, managed well, keeps teams healthy and honest.
“You need to create moaning space for your team.”
We often shut down negativity, but unspoken frustrations don’t vanish — they go underground.
A little space to vent, managed well, keeps teams healthy and honest.
But a weakness is the opposite of a strength – it’s something that drains you.
You can manage it, but you won’t energise from it.
Better to understand it, limit its impact, and lean into your strengths.
But a weakness is the opposite of a strength – it’s something that drains you.
You can manage it, but you won’t energise from it.
Better to understand it, limit its impact, and lean into your strengths.
If this GIF has ever brought you joy in the past, I humbly ask you to consider making a donation to the National MS Society. It would mean a lot to me and to those I know affected by the disease!
Donate at blinkingguy.com
If this GIF has ever brought you joy in the past, I humbly ask you to consider making a donation to the National MS Society. It would mean a lot to me and to those I know affected by the disease!
Donate at blinkingguy.com
Give the “why”, define outcomes, name a contact, include key updates, and recognise impact.
If you wouldn’t leave a perm hire guessing, don’t do it here. #Leadership
Give the “why”, define outcomes, name a contact, include key updates, and recognise impact.
If you wouldn’t leave a perm hire guessing, don’t do it here. #Leadership
They're not overwhelmed by the numbers. They're overwhelmed by the ratio of violent thugs in those numbers.
They're not overwhelmed by the numbers. They're overwhelmed by the ratio of violent thugs in those numbers.
Identify 3 energisers/3 drainers.
Protect one energiser.
Redesign one drainer (timebox/batch/move).
Shift a dependency (delegate/automate/ask).
Small changes add up. Your one change today? #WellbeingAtWork #Leadership
Identify 3 energisers/3 drainers.
Protect one energiser.
Redesign one drainer (timebox/batch/move).
Shift a dependency (delegate/automate/ask).
Small changes add up. Your one change today? #WellbeingAtWork #Leadership
“All 32 teams will feature an end zone message of their choice at each home game throughout the season, selecting from four options: ‘End Racism,’ ‘Stop Hate,’ ‘Choose Love’ or ‘Inspire Change.’
africa.espn.com/nfl/story/_/...
“All 32 teams will feature an end zone message of their choice at each home game throughout the season, selecting from four options: ‘End Racism,’ ‘Stop Hate,’ ‘Choose Love’ or ‘Inspire Change.’
africa.espn.com/nfl/story/_/...
Baroness Sue Campbell once MBE shared 3 great questions:
What do you do?
What could you do?
What stops us?
She shared how this turned disengaged staff into innovators and creators.
How do you connect with an inherited team?
#Leadership #Coaching
Baroness Sue Campbell once MBE shared 3 great questions:
What do you do?
What could you do?
What stops us?
She shared how this turned disengaged staff into innovators and creators.
How do you connect with an inherited team?
#Leadership #Coaching
You're probably seeing the highlight reel—not the compromises, doubts, or trade-offs.
Next time, ask:
Do I really want their life—or just their LinkedIn post?
You're probably seeing the highlight reel—not the compromises, doubts, or trade-offs.
Next time, ask:
Do I really want their life—or just their LinkedIn post?
Got a mentoring role.
Then said: “That’s not my job.”
No PDP. No clarity. No follow-through.
Write it down. A good PDP:
✅ Sets expectations
✅ Shows real investment
✅ Tracks growth
✅ Supports accountability
#CareerDevelopment #GoodManagement
Got a mentoring role.
Then said: “That’s not my job.”
No PDP. No clarity. No follow-through.
Write it down. A good PDP:
✅ Sets expectations
✅ Shows real investment
✅ Tracks growth
✅ Supports accountability
#CareerDevelopment #GoodManagement
Here are 3 questions I use to check if a joke is actually just a joke:
1. Is everyone laughing?
2. Are they laughing inside too?
3. Are you sure? How do you know?
I came up with these after witnessing 'banter'. Turned out it wasn't.
Here are 3 questions I use to check if a joke is actually just a joke:
1. Is everyone laughing?
2. Are they laughing inside too?
3. Are you sure? How do you know?
I came up with these after witnessing 'banter'. Turned out it wasn't.
It replied: “I don’t need it—but I notice your tone.”
Made me think: AI learns from me, so I want it to learn that I value politeness.
Better keep saying please and thank you.
Just in case the robot overlords keep score. 🤖✨
It replied: “I don’t need it—but I notice your tone.”
Made me think: AI learns from me, so I want it to learn that I value politeness.
Better keep saying please and thank you.
Just in case the robot overlords keep score. 🤖✨