Are they right? Probably... Usually people leave sooner or later when it gets too much for them...
Is it a good idea to tell a suicidal person in distress that her biggest fear will definitely become real? Probably not... 🤷♀️
Is it a good idea to tell a suicidal person in distress that her biggest fear will definitely become real? Probably not... 🤷♀️
December 26, 2025 at 7:49 PM
Are they right? Probably... Usually people leave sooner or later when it gets too much for them...
Is it a good idea to tell a suicidal person in distress that her biggest fear will definitely become real? Probably not... 🤷♀️
Is it a good idea to tell a suicidal person in distress that her biggest fear will definitely become real? Probably not... 🤷♀️
Yay, tyyyyy <3 ^__^
December 26, 2025 at 5:31 AM
Yay, tyyyyy <3 ^__^
I'm deliberately ignoring the fact that my girlfriend is only here because her parents couldn't accept that she's trans... It makes me feel a little guilty for being happy about her presence 🫤
December 25, 2025 at 7:11 AM
I'm deliberately ignoring the fact that my girlfriend is only here because her parents couldn't accept that she's trans... It makes me feel a little guilty for being happy about her presence 🫤
...It actually worked. After just one year of girlmode I actually found a wonderful girlfriend 🥰💖
December 23, 2025 at 6:22 PM
...It actually worked. After just one year of girlmode I actually found a wonderful girlfriend 🥰💖
> That's so mean 😒
Maybe, but you know what's actually worse? Telling dysphoric trans women that it's ok to perma-boymode, that it's ok to stay off HRT, that it's actually "valid" to not strive for real self-actualization out of fear... <___<
bsky.app/profile/mela...
Maybe, but you know what's actually worse? Telling dysphoric trans women that it's ok to perma-boymode, that it's ok to stay off HRT, that it's actually "valid" to not strive for real self-actualization out of fear... <___<
bsky.app/profile/mela...
I actually think it's pretty despicable to trick other trans women into self-sabotaging...
But, hey, what do I know? I'm just one of those evil assimilationists, right? 🤷♀️
But, hey, what do I know? I'm just one of those evil assimilationists, right? 🤷♀️
> Ugh, you're an assimilationist 🙄
My main goal is to live my best life, girl. Not constantly being discriminated against is a big part of that, yeah 🤷♀️
My main goal is to live my best life, girl. Not constantly being discriminated against is a big part of that, yeah 🤷♀️
December 22, 2025 at 11:54 AM
> That's so mean 😒
Maybe, but you know what's actually worse? Telling dysphoric trans women that it's ok to perma-boymode, that it's ok to stay off HRT, that it's actually "valid" to not strive for real self-actualization out of fear... <___<
bsky.app/profile/mela...
Maybe, but you know what's actually worse? Telling dysphoric trans women that it's ok to perma-boymode, that it's ok to stay off HRT, that it's actually "valid" to not strive for real self-actualization out of fear... <___<
bsky.app/profile/mela...
Sorry, it's just so frustrating to express dysphoria only to get hit with a "uhm, ackchyually passing doesn't even matter and you're basically kinda transphobic or whatever for feeling bad about it"... <___<
Sorry but this society makes it very clear it *does* matter... a lot actually.
Sorry but this society makes it very clear it *does* matter... a lot actually.
December 22, 2025 at 5:11 AM
Sorry, it's just so frustrating to express dysphoria only to get hit with a "uhm, ackchyually passing doesn't even matter and you're basically kinda transphobic or whatever for feeling bad about it"... <___<
Sorry but this society makes it very clear it *does* matter... a lot actually.
Sorry but this society makes it very clear it *does* matter... a lot actually.
Sure, everyone else thinks I'm a creepy ugly man and a subhuman freak, but that's just transphobic society... that I am forced to live in every fucking day
Seriously, what's the point of being a real woman in theory if no one sees or treats me as such? 😖
bsky.app/profile/mela...
Seriously, what's the point of being a real woman in theory if no one sees or treats me as such? 😖
bsky.app/profile/mela...
When I say "passing is everything" I basically mean that cis society is ridiculously lookist but also not allowed to admit it. Most cis people fundamentally believe a version of "looks like a woman, is a woman," and their actions reflect that, but they have to pretend they don't...
It is kinda funny how pretty much the most difficult step in my transition was only achieved due to me rejecting the "passing is everything"-belief, just to then later, in girlmode, make experiences that kinda made me realize it was just true all along...
December 22, 2025 at 5:11 AM
Sure, everyone else thinks I'm a creepy ugly man and a subhuman freak, but that's just transphobic society... that I am forced to live in every fucking day
Seriously, what's the point of being a real woman in theory if no one sees or treats me as such? 😖
bsky.app/profile/mela...
Seriously, what's the point of being a real woman in theory if no one sees or treats me as such? 😖
bsky.app/profile/mela...
And now I'm just completely ok again...??
...I really am a fake woman with fake feelings 🤷♀️
...I really am a fake woman with fake feelings 🤷♀️
December 21, 2025 at 9:03 PM
And now I'm just completely ok again...??
...I really am a fake woman with fake feelings 🤷♀️
...I really am a fake woman with fake feelings 🤷♀️
Look, it's really fucking good... Love it...
I'm just saying that they probably knew *exactly* what they were doing when they named the main character Zoe... 🤭
I'm just saying that they probably knew *exactly* what they were doing when they named the main character Zoe... 🤭
December 21, 2025 at 10:00 AM
Look, it's really fucking good... Love it...
I'm just saying that they probably knew *exactly* what they were doing when they named the main character Zoe... 🤭
I'm just saying that they probably knew *exactly* what they were doing when they named the main character Zoe... 🤭
I guess when you're openly trans, like I was at my old job, also being openly gay doesn't feel like a big deal...
But now that I'm stealth and people somehow default to assuming I'm straight it really does feel... shameful 😭
But now that I'm stealth and people somehow default to assuming I'm straight it really does feel... shameful 😭
December 19, 2025 at 6:57 PM
I guess when you're openly trans, like I was at my old job, also being openly gay doesn't feel like a big deal...
But now that I'm stealth and people somehow default to assuming I'm straight it really does feel... shameful 😭
But now that I'm stealth and people somehow default to assuming I'm straight it really does feel... shameful 😭