I don’t think anyone owes me anything, I don’t think anyone should feel “obligated“ to like or thank me for anything I do just bc I put effort into something I did for them. I don’t have control over how ppl react to anything I do.

I always felt like if I gave and gave and gave my time and effort and consent, I’d manage to finally give people .001% of what they deserved, but my best wasn’t even worth the minimum effort to validate being reciprocated. (I hope this doesn’t sound like incel shit.)

I'm a very vanilla, ace-leaning person with almost no kinks of my own, but I'm always stashing the things I know my friends are into (furries, clowns, robots, etc.) away just because I know *they* really like it, and it'll make *them* happy.

Astarion: I am the cruel, wicked creature of the night
My cringefail Tav: [batting her eyelashes at him while holding his hand] hee hoo this is my boyfriend he’s ✨funny ✨and I like him 🥺❤️

I’m Team Selûne when it comes to Shadowheart, but I’ll be damned if “Shar’s blessings be on you, Bing Bong” isn’t one of the funniest strings of words I’ve ever heard

I recently read about “greyboxing“ & how a lot of games try to make the mechanics solid before even solidifying the art, which makes a lot of sense— we usually only see the end result, not the thousands of art iterations that were rejected

Slow cooker chili is god tier tbh

I know there’s no reason for her hair to be any color except black or white, due to her whole story revolving around Selûne & Shar, but what if Some Secret Third Color?

It isn’t a physical issue (Bernadine is a capable Druid), but Bernadine is so clearly a softie who only goes after relationships where she’s deeply passionate & in love. She also beats herself up for any minor failure.

Thankfully, Astarion worries about her the way she worries about him.

Lae’zel is not fond of Astarion, but she trusts Bernadine, & believes her kith’rak is entitled to some carnal pleasure after everything she’s done.

Gale & Wyll don‘t think they can change Bernadine’s mind, but do worry she’ll be heartbroken by Astarion.

Halsin knows Bernadine can handle Astarion.