It's the same deal as calling pederasty "queer-positive" or "gay-acceptance". As though viewing children as penetrable subjects, fit for exploitation and consumption by men, isn't bog-standard fucking patriarchy through and through.

To those with power, sex is power is violence.

"You're sopodes to only do weird sexual things in secret and you're supposed to be ok with abuse bcs people with power have a right to abuse those under them" it's their real deal. And the reason why they get mad at queer freaks trying to build an open and healthy sexuality.

They are allowed and expected to do those things... they just ain't allowed to /most/ of those things in the open.

That's why they get so mad about queer people being openly freaky and pushing back against the abuse ingrained in the heterosexual norms.

I don't even see those abuses as "transgressing moral norms"

Heterosexual norms are incestuous, they include the abuse of children and teenagers in various ways, I guess the only transgression would be zoophilia but even that it's kinda expected that teen boys in rural settings will do it :^)

I don't think it's anti queer theory at all to make this analysis.

And it makes a lot of sense to me. Those guys aren't marginalized for their behavior, they gain status and power by doing this shit. Abuse is part of the heterosexual norm, it's expected and praised.

*supposed to

I literally just woke up dkdjdjdhddjdjjd 😭👍

"You're sopodes to only do weird sexual things in secret and you're supposed to be ok with abuse bcs people with power have a right to abuse those under them" it's their real deal. And the reason why they get mad at queer freaks trying to build an open and healthy sexuality.

They are allowed and expected to do those things... they just ain't allowed to /most/ of those things in the open.

That's why they get so mad about queer people being openly freaky and pushing back against the abuse ingrained in the heterosexual norms.

I don't even see those abuses as "transgressing moral norms"

Heterosexual norms are incestuous, they include the abuse of children and teenagers in various ways, I guess the only transgression would be zoophilia but even that it's kinda expected that teen boys in rural settings will do it :^)

I don't think it's anti queer theory at all to make this analysis.

And it makes a lot of sense to me. Those guys aren't marginalized for their behavior, they gain status and power by doing this shit. Abuse is part of the heterosexual norm, it's expected and praised.

i personally do not believe that most cishet men are as straight as they want us to believe ftr, but i think turning this clear act of humiliation into some kind of queer affirmation is actually bizarre and weird