Ted Knutson
mandownted.bsky.social
Ted Knutson
@mandownted.bsky.social
Co-Host of the Man Down Podcast @mandownpodcast.bsky.social
Producing thoughtful content on male friendships, dating, relationships, wellness and sex.
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We released a new Man Down this week, this time on attachment styles.

If you DON'T know what they are, knowing them will absolutely change your self understanding and how you interact with others in your life.

This is transformational learning.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=oT3H...
April 6, 2025 at 12:38 PM
I have now had multiple women I have dated tell me I eat TOO healthy.

Which I am choosing to take as a huge compliment.

(I still eat good stuff and at GREAT restaurants, but all my baselines are basically protein and veg now.)
April 4, 2025 at 1:35 PM
Nice.
April 1, 2025 at 9:42 PM
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I am at the point in my life where I don't NEED to do this to myself...

But it ended up very funny and I think will be hugely helpful to others. @patrickbvs.bsky.social had way too much fun.

AND... there's a chance for listeners to get feedback on their profiles too!
April 1, 2025 at 12:42 PM
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You lot asked, we delivered.

We walk through all the data on the various dating apps, and give you tips on how to spend more efficiently in Appland.

And also... the personal pain of getting my dating profile crtiqued and improved by an expert.

She TRIPLED my matches!

youtu.be/57eaytm2VMA...
April 1, 2025 at 12:39 PM
I don't do it myself, but I like the idea that OTHER people have lists and characteristics.

I felt it would be too transgressive for me, as a deep data nerd, to do things like this. But others? I am all for it. Enshrine your sexy memories so you can re-live them at heir leisure.
April 1, 2025 at 8:32 AM
In case you don't listen to the football pod, almost the last half of it is largely bonus Man Down content.
We had 3 sets of outtakes today and @patrickbvs.bsky.social called me a "paypig", so I guess it's going to be a pretty good episode of @thetransferflow.bsky.social podcast.
April 1, 2025 at 8:16 AM
We'll talk about kids on Man Down.

There are eras of raising children.

When they are young, it's HARD. Still rewarding, but hard.
They get into school age and it gets a bit better + easier.
They get to like age 10+ and can become magical real people and friends for life.
March 29, 2025 at 6:37 PM
I like it when these are a pattern so you can immediately tell they are sus.

Presumably bloody IG DM pr*n marketing.

It's not like anyone slides into my DMs outside of Sales or nerds hoping for advice. 🤣
March 28, 2025 at 10:16 AM
I did so much adulting this week, it's actually a little terrifying.

Interviews, hiring, work evaluations, dentist, poking vendors, follow-ups, 3 podcasts, dadding, slow motion dating....

These personal accounts are quiet bc I'm trying to get someone to run the pro ones 🤣
March 28, 2025 at 7:26 AM
"Your nickname in the girl groupchat is [redacted]."

*the ghost of @solomonmissouri.bsky.social begins to cackle wildly*
March 26, 2025 at 4:51 PM
Love this.

Fits with what we've discussed on Man Down in needing to build a sense of self-worth that you can refer back to you when sad, or in turmoil, or when times are tough.
March 25, 2025 at 9:39 AM
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If you love us, tell your friends.

Episode 1: Male Friendship
youtube.com/watch?v=f0aO...

Episode 2: 5 Things Men Really Need to Know About Sex

www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wi4d...
Are Men PIGS or is it Wiring? + Sex, Kinks, and Boundaries | Ep. 2
YouTube video by ManDown Podcast
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March 24, 2025 at 9:18 AM
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This sounds so small, but we have about 3K views for @mandownpodcast.bsky.social in under a week.

V exciting when starting from zero, and feedback has been awesome.

New eps drop on Tuesday and Thursday covering Radical Honesty and then our first foray into Dating.

Links to 1 and 2 below
March 24, 2025 at 9:10 AM
Reading Jillian Turecki's book It Begins With You and these two pages hit me like a truck. Been thinking through them for days.
March 23, 2025 at 11:24 AM
Now that the daylight hours are longer, my body only tolerates about 7.5 hours of sleep at night. (My winter hibernations can be more like 9.)

BUT... I typically sleep longer/better when I am sleeping with someone I love. There are all sorts of funky mind/body things like this in life.
March 21, 2025 at 7:11 AM
March 20, 2025 at 8:38 PM
It's UP! (pun intended?)

The Man Down podcast, all about sex.

Our goal is to maybe teach you a thing or two, and improve your sex life and that of your current/future partners.

Enjoy!

www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wi4d...
Are Men PIGS or is it Wiring? + Sex, Kinks, and Boundaries | Ep. 2
YouTube video by ManDown Podcast
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March 20, 2025 at 1:52 PM
When I am doing maintenance workouts, I can usually do 4 days in a row. But when I nudge the weightlifting up, then it's weights->cardio->yoga on day 3 as recovery.

And some days I wake confused/tired bc I forgot that sex counts as extra cardio.

You gotta listen to your body.
March 20, 2025 at 8:31 AM
There are times when you are lean that you do big cardio, then sauna, and after you are re-hydrating + eating a snack and your brain just kinda pauses and gets lost for a bit...

I'm pretty sure it's just waiting for my blood sugar to catch up and power it, but I do sometimes miss the time!
March 19, 2025 at 5:35 PM
I have a friend who advises men on how to improve their dating apps, and she gave me brutal, HILARIOUS feedback a month ago on how I needed to improve mine.

We're recording the first of the Man Down episodes on Dating Apps today.
March 19, 2025 at 11:21 AM
So we launched the Man Down podcast yesterday, and both the Origin episode and Ep 1 about Male Friendships are available now.

I'm going to bring all my commentary about Man Down covered issues over here as well.

Ep 0: www.youtube.com/watch?v=5XWJ...
Ep 1: www.youtube.com/watch?v=f0aO...
Male Vulnerability, Dating Apps, and Emotional Growth | Ep. 0
YouTube video by ManDown Podcast
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March 19, 2025 at 8:06 AM
I may have a bit less hair, but I have FAR fewer body aches and pains than I did 10 years ago. A lot of that is due to lowering the weight my body has to carry, but at least some of it is due to the fact that I will just make myself do 10 mins of yoga to loosen up, any time.
March 16, 2025 at 10:05 AM
Sunday morning sun, beagle, and porridge bowl.

(And then a day of ferrying kids to play sports everywhere.)
March 16, 2025 at 9:14 AM
You made it through the week!

The Boss (Hog) says, "Good job, kid."
March 14, 2025 at 5:19 PM