December is such a shit time of year to roll this out because it's so busy, who has time to link their fucking government ID to their fucking horny account man. And we all know this ban isn't going to work anyway. Every expert has said it's stupid but. Whatever. Useless ass politicians.

Do NOT wear clothing that pinches or leaves marks or squeezes I promise you will be so much freer in clothing that fits . You will feel so much better you'll waste so much less time focusing on your body when you're not distracted by discomfort or pain ❤️

Learning how to find clothing I liked that could fit me nicely didn't cure me but it did help my confidence ALOT. The reduced stress and time spent thinking about how my body was wrong genuinely helped rewire my brain. also not being constantly uncomfortable is such an improvement

Focusing on your body shape instead of the garment shape is a waste of time (and a bad habit) also remember underwear is the greatest weapon to achieve different looks. You can either restrict or pad parts of your body. Padding or adding structure is usually easier more comfortable and looks better

It's hard to love your body when you're always wearing clothing that doesn't fit nicely(even baggy styles should be sized and fitted properly) knowing what to look for in the construction of garments reduces so much stress and upset when buying clothes. Also makes sizing easy. I promise

Anyway actual pro tip for people struggling with body image issues as someone who made it out is to learn about garment construction, tailoring, drapery, cuts etc. you don't need to know how to do it but understanding how clothing fits bodies helps you find things that will sit nicely on you.

I should add that the women weren't just saying I was lucky. They were specifically saying I 'would be grateful when I was older'. Crying because no nice clothing fits? You'll be grateful. Trying to cover up in bathers? You're so lucky. Your boyfriend will be so happy. Breastfeeding will be easy 🥰🥰

How relatable a pic of a blob fish is when you're "having a bad day (which is like most days 😂)". Stop it 🔫🔫 I don't relate actually. And neither should you. You're 27 go shower and eat an apple and find a hobby. Stop holding space for body dysmorphia it's not something to take lightly.

Also yeah people get weird when you have big boobs young. Mostly women and other girls in my case because I was at an all girl's school. So many grown women telling me how lucky I was to have nice breasts when I was 12. I worked hard to love myself I don't want to partake in your wallowing about

Adult. I'm so much more confident now. Maybe it's because they were both very slim+skinny in school so they never actually had to address their own body image issues. I had double D's at 12 so I had to learn body neutrality REAL quick (short+boob=no clothes fit)

It's not fair to ask everyone else to give these guys some grace because they can and do say genuinely mean things to other team members and one guy always tries to get out of the worse jobs and complains if he can't do his favourite. (We all share and rotate the jobs. Everyone does some of both)

Its a mixed bag too because on the one hand I know they don't have any intention of upsetting people or being assholes, but almost everyone on this shift is divergent (ADHD/autism heavy) and other autistic people have learned to ask and not assume and to build teamwork skills

None of them view themselves as the instigator of any arguments, they all always view themselves as the victim because they truly don't understand how they come across as rude to each other, or understand that people think and speak differently to themselves. No perspective.

Maybe it's because in my job currently I'm having to supervise three young guys who all have different flavours of autism and CANNOT work together at all. Literally cant leave two of them alone because they'll start misinterpreting each other and devolve to fighting and bullying

This is about everything ever btw

Why are only men allowed to be average looking losers and bums where are my fucking unfashionable bum ass women. PLEASE. For the queers. But also for the straight men who aren't cowards. We are starving. We are dying out here.