Did something I never thought would work
I added 2 RAM sticks to my PC and stopped posting
Thinking it was the new RAM I removed them, wouldn't post with the old sticks that worked fine
After many attempts and different configurations, cleaned the contacts of a stick with isopropyl alcohol
WORKED!!

Really proud of my self host main server 💻
It's all just a bunch of friends hand-me-downs old hardware and some cheap things I bought strategically
I got an UPS that has a USB interface and programmed the server to gracefully shutdown
Last night power was all sorts of broken and it handled it nicely

Been trying to setup a custom network with VLANs and some firewall rules for the last 4 days and failing....
Just figures it out, turns out it was the f*cking DNS