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Phteve
@lncstrlgnd.bsky.social
Now with a clearer lens: officially late-diagnosed autistic

Passionate about mindset, justice, & finding *our space

📍Nelson Mandela Bay, 🇿🇦
Be a safe space for all, and immediately deny abuse (especially when its disguised as polite).
#DayOfReconciliation #SouthAfrica
December 16, 2025 at 5:55 AM
Continuing a relationship, after wrong is done, implies restoration. It requires repair. It demands reparation.
If you aren’t interested in that in RSA…
Move somewhere else that accepts abusers.
This can be applied to individual lives.
#DayOfReconciliation #SouthAfrica
December 16, 2025 at 5:55 AM
Now I focus on an optimistic future, prioritizing my well-being, and rebuilding my community. I'm grateful for your understanding and look forward to reconstructing.

#AuDHD #divorce #community
December 1, 2025 at 10:48 AM
PS: it's a rhetorical question.
PPS: there will be a lot of running this week.
November 30, 2025 at 8:21 PM
Well done! Spectacular scenery!
November 13, 2025 at 3:27 PM
WFC are NOT going to hold another march: Instead, WFC is calling to shut down RSA through virtual & symbolic actions to amplify the impact of the Shutdown and make the nation’s silence impossible to ignore.
Follow them for more...
#newprofilepic #GBV #SouthAfrica
November 13, 2025 at 3:27 PM
True leadership lifts up our collective creative and intentional power. The "superhero" complex only serves to justify the failed, hyper-individualistic capitalism that is destroying our social fabric and the planet.

The future is collaborative, not caped.
November 12, 2025 at 2:42 PM
In reality, communities are built by collective, often invisible, labor: cleaners, construction, artists, nurses, & scientists. Often these "wealthy superheroes" have already gained their wealth from stolen wages. No single person, no matter how powerful they imagine themselves, builds a world.
November 12, 2025 at 2:42 PM
>A meeting with friends in the week. Future is bright... which it must be when...
>the week starts with Deepavali!

Due blessings to all... same as due respect. Look after yourselves & your community.
October 26, 2025 at 6:32 PM
You've put in the work... go make memories.
Looking forward to seeing you shine.
October 23, 2025 at 6:57 AM
To be clear: I am pro-choice. This points out the irony that I am that disabled kid!!

I am devastated with the divorce, but I am now free to get the support I need (and asked for many times).

I will continue to provide our kid with the support they need, even when we're not in the same space.
October 21, 2025 at 7:06 AM
I have just recently been made aware that I am autistic (most likely ADHD, too). And I have often asked for the help I know I've needed; and it's been refused.

I am learning I was abused. That is hard!

This is now how I want to live: No more disrespect. Now it's due respect. I know me. Do you?
2/2
October 17, 2025 at 5:19 AM