Lisa M. Hayes
@lisamhayes.bsky.social
Lisa Hayes is a trailblazing life coach and mentor, known for her deep, transformative approach to coaching that challenges the status quo. As the founder and lead trainer at www.thecoachingguld.com. Editor at www.confluencedaily.com.
They’d rather have you numb in front of a screen than wild, ecstatic, and alive.
Pleasure isn’t reckless—it’s medicine. Your joy is an uprising.
Full post here 👉
www.lisamhayes.com/pleasure-isn...
Pleasure isn’t reckless—it’s medicine. Your joy is an uprising.
Full post here 👉
www.lisamhayes.com/pleasure-isn...
September 10, 2025 at 6:56 PM
They’d rather have you numb in front of a screen than wild, ecstatic, and alive.
Pleasure isn’t reckless—it’s medicine. Your joy is an uprising.
Full post here 👉
www.lisamhayes.com/pleasure-isn...
Pleasure isn’t reckless—it’s medicine. Your joy is an uprising.
Full post here 👉
www.lisamhayes.com/pleasure-isn...
Sick of coaching programs built on hype and empty promises? The Coaching Guild is neuroscience, soul, and zero bullshit. Join the rebels. Limited spots. Let's chat.
www.thecoachingguild.com/a-coach-trai...
www.thecoachingguild.com/a-coach-trai...
A Coach Training Program Built on Neuroscience, Soul, and the Radical Belief that Marketing Hype is Bullshit.
The Coaching Guild program is intended to be a University level learning experience. The learning is both interactive and individual. Live classes are held virtually, so you can attend from anywhere...
www.thecoachingguild.com
August 1, 2025 at 7:23 PM
Sick of coaching programs built on hype and empty promises? The Coaching Guild is neuroscience, soul, and zero bullshit. Join the rebels. Limited spots. Let's chat.
www.thecoachingguild.com/a-coach-trai...
www.thecoachingguild.com/a-coach-trai...
We’ve been told to be quieter, kinder, easier to swallow. But safety didn’t come from softness. It came from power. And sometimes, from fear.
Not vengeance—balance.
We don’t want domination. We want to live.
👉 www.lisamhayes.com/let-them-be-...
Not vengeance—balance.
We don’t want domination. We want to live.
👉 www.lisamhayes.com/let-them-be-...
July 25, 2025 at 7:45 PM
We’ve been told to be quieter, kinder, easier to swallow. But safety didn’t come from softness. It came from power. And sometimes, from fear.
Not vengeance—balance.
We don’t want domination. We want to live.
👉 www.lisamhayes.com/let-them-be-...
Not vengeance—balance.
We don’t want domination. We want to live.
👉 www.lisamhayes.com/let-them-be-...
If you want to be an “It Girl Coach” with soft filters + high conversion—
Keep scrolling.
The Coaching Guild is for the ones who came to disrupt.
We teach you to coach through contradiction, not curate your brand for comfort.
www.thecoachingguild.com/if-you-want-...
Keep scrolling.
The Coaching Guild is for the ones who came to disrupt.
We teach you to coach through contradiction, not curate your brand for comfort.
www.thecoachingguild.com/if-you-want-...
If You Want to Be an “It Girl” in a Sea of “It Girls”—This Isn’t for You
The Coaching Guild program is intended to be a University level learning experience. The learning is both interactive and individual. Live classes are held virtually, so you can attend from anywhere...
www.thecoachingguild.com
July 24, 2025 at 7:01 PM
If you want to be an “It Girl Coach” with soft filters + high conversion—
Keep scrolling.
The Coaching Guild is for the ones who came to disrupt.
We teach you to coach through contradiction, not curate your brand for comfort.
www.thecoachingguild.com/if-you-want-...
Keep scrolling.
The Coaching Guild is for the ones who came to disrupt.
We teach you to coach through contradiction, not curate your brand for comfort.
www.thecoachingguild.com/if-you-want-...
You didn’t become a coach to be liked.
You became a coach to be honest.
To stop disappearing into the soft edges of spiritual bypass.
The Coaching Guild is for people who are done managing emotions instead of honoring emergence.
www.thecoachingguild.com/becoming-a-c...
You became a coach to be honest.
To stop disappearing into the soft edges of spiritual bypass.
The Coaching Guild is for people who are done managing emotions instead of honoring emergence.
www.thecoachingguild.com/becoming-a-c...
Becoming a Coach is a Trap for People Pleasers
The Coaching Guild program is intended to be a University level learning experience. The learning is both interactive and individual. Live classes are held virtually, so you can attend from anywhere...
www.thecoachingguild.com
June 24, 2025 at 6:57 PM
You didn’t become a coach to be liked.
You became a coach to be honest.
To stop disappearing into the soft edges of spiritual bypass.
The Coaching Guild is for people who are done managing emotions instead of honoring emergence.
www.thecoachingguild.com/becoming-a-c...
You became a coach to be honest.
To stop disappearing into the soft edges of spiritual bypass.
The Coaching Guild is for people who are done managing emotions instead of honoring emergence.
www.thecoachingguild.com/becoming-a-c...
They told you to heal in a way that made you more productive.
More quiet.
More "good."
My work isn’t about self-improvement.
It’s a reclamation.
Unfiltered. Unrushed. Unruly.
🖤 New post: “Stop Being Good. Start Being Free.”
www.lisamhayes.com/be-unruly-be...
More quiet.
More "good."
My work isn’t about self-improvement.
It’s a reclamation.
Unfiltered. Unrushed. Unruly.
🖤 New post: “Stop Being Good. Start Being Free.”
www.lisamhayes.com/be-unruly-be...
June 17, 2025 at 7:56 PM
They told you to heal in a way that made you more productive.
More quiet.
More "good."
My work isn’t about self-improvement.
It’s a reclamation.
Unfiltered. Unrushed. Unruly.
🖤 New post: “Stop Being Good. Start Being Free.”
www.lisamhayes.com/be-unruly-be...
More quiet.
More "good."
My work isn’t about self-improvement.
It’s a reclamation.
Unfiltered. Unrushed. Unruly.
🖤 New post: “Stop Being Good. Start Being Free.”
www.lisamhayes.com/be-unruly-be...
Pretty plz give this a read and a like. It would be really helpful for me.
www.elephantjournal.com/2025/06/self...
www.elephantjournal.com/2025/06/self...
Self-Care was never Supposed to Replace Community. | elephant journal
This is how white supremacy culture sustains itself: by convincing us that self-responsibility is the only responsibility, that needing others is weakness, This is how white supremacy culture sustains itself: by convincing us that self-responsibility is the only responsibility, that needing others is weakness,
www.elephantjournal.com
June 3, 2025 at 6:09 PM
Pretty plz give this a read and a like. It would be really helpful for me.
www.elephantjournal.com/2025/06/self...
www.elephantjournal.com/2025/06/self...
You don’t have to heal like a good girl.
You don’t have to stay pretty, quiet, or palatable to be whole.
Let it be messy.
Let it be sacred.
Let it be yours.
🖤 New post: Stop Healing Like a Good Girl
www.lisamhayes.com/what-if-heal...
You don’t have to stay pretty, quiet, or palatable to be whole.
Let it be messy.
Let it be sacred.
Let it be yours.
🖤 New post: Stop Healing Like a Good Girl
www.lisamhayes.com/what-if-heal...
May 29, 2025 at 7:04 PM
You don’t have to heal like a good girl.
You don’t have to stay pretty, quiet, or palatable to be whole.
Let it be messy.
Let it be sacred.
Let it be yours.
🖤 New post: Stop Healing Like a Good Girl
www.lisamhayes.com/what-if-heal...
You don’t have to stay pretty, quiet, or palatable to be whole.
Let it be messy.
Let it be sacred.
Let it be yours.
🖤 New post: Stop Healing Like a Good Girl
www.lisamhayes.com/what-if-heal...
You were never too much.
You were a mirror the world couldn’t stand to look into.
There’s a version of you—
feral, holy, and unbothered by permission—
who never forgot.
This is for her.
🖤 New post: “You Are More Terrifying Than You Know”
www.lisamhayes.com/you-are-more...
You were a mirror the world couldn’t stand to look into.
There’s a version of you—
feral, holy, and unbothered by permission—
who never forgot.
This is for her.
🖤 New post: “You Are More Terrifying Than You Know”
www.lisamhayes.com/you-are-more...
May 27, 2025 at 7:56 PM
You were never too much.
You were a mirror the world couldn’t stand to look into.
There’s a version of you—
feral, holy, and unbothered by permission—
who never forgot.
This is for her.
🖤 New post: “You Are More Terrifying Than You Know”
www.lisamhayes.com/you-are-more...
You were a mirror the world couldn’t stand to look into.
There’s a version of you—
feral, holy, and unbothered by permission—
who never forgot.
This is for her.
🖤 New post: “You Are More Terrifying Than You Know”
www.lisamhayes.com/you-are-more...
When the model is built on maximizing profit over depth,
you stop asking:
What does this person need?
And start asking:
How can I convert them faster?
That's not coaching.
www.thecoachingguild.com/high-ticket-...
you stop asking:
What does this person need?
And start asking:
How can I convert them faster?
That's not coaching.
www.thecoachingguild.com/high-ticket-...
High-Ticket Coaching Doesn't Make You a Leader—It Makes You a Marketer
The Coaching Guild program is intended to be a University level learning experience. The learning is both interactive and individual. Live classes are held virtually, so you can attend from anywhere...
www.thecoachingguild.com
May 20, 2025 at 6:05 PM
When the model is built on maximizing profit over depth,
you stop asking:
What does this person need?
And start asking:
How can I convert them faster?
That's not coaching.
www.thecoachingguild.com/high-ticket-...
you stop asking:
What does this person need?
And start asking:
How can I convert them faster?
That's not coaching.
www.thecoachingguild.com/high-ticket-...
.This world doesn’t need more order.
It needs women who remember how to read the dark.
You don’t owe them your silence.
Or your softness.
Or your survival.
You were always magic.
✨ Read the full spell here: www.lisamhayes.com/you-were-alw...
It needs women who remember how to read the dark.
You don’t owe them your silence.
Or your softness.
Or your survival.
You were always magic.
✨ Read the full spell here: www.lisamhayes.com/you-were-alw...
May 13, 2025 at 6:50 PM
.This world doesn’t need more order.
It needs women who remember how to read the dark.
You don’t owe them your silence.
Or your softness.
Or your survival.
You were always magic.
✨ Read the full spell here: www.lisamhayes.com/you-were-alw...
It needs women who remember how to read the dark.
You don’t owe them your silence.
Or your softness.
Or your survival.
You were always magic.
✨ Read the full spell here: www.lisamhayes.com/you-were-alw...
May 9, 2025 at 6:48 PM
You built the life you were supposed to want—
but it feels like you’re watching it through glass.
This isn’t failure.
It’s a threshold.
And the way forward starts by coming home to you.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/the-grey-sca...
but it feels like you’re watching it through glass.
This isn’t failure.
It’s a threshold.
And the way forward starts by coming home to you.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/the-grey-sca...
May 8, 2025 at 6:28 PM
You built the life you were supposed to want—
but it feels like you’re watching it through glass.
This isn’t failure.
It’s a threshold.
And the way forward starts by coming home to you.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/the-grey-sca...
but it feels like you’re watching it through glass.
This isn’t failure.
It’s a threshold.
And the way forward starts by coming home to you.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/the-grey-sca...
The revolution doesn’t need more good girls.
It needs women who remember they are wild—
unmanageable, untamed, and absolutely necessary.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/the-revoluti...
#Rewilding #RadicalFeminism #WomenWhoLead #RevolutionaryEnergy
It needs women who remember they are wild—
unmanageable, untamed, and absolutely necessary.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/the-revoluti...
#Rewilding #RadicalFeminism #WomenWhoLead #RevolutionaryEnergy
May 7, 2025 at 5:41 PM
The revolution doesn’t need more good girls.
It needs women who remember they are wild—
unmanageable, untamed, and absolutely necessary.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/the-revoluti...
#Rewilding #RadicalFeminism #WomenWhoLead #RevolutionaryEnergy
It needs women who remember they are wild—
unmanageable, untamed, and absolutely necessary.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/the-revoluti...
#Rewilding #RadicalFeminism #WomenWhoLead #RevolutionaryEnergy
They erased the feminine divine to control what they couldn’t embody.
But we didn’t forget.
We’re not asking to be sacred—we’ve always been.
🖤 Read the full piece: www.lisamhayes.com/she-was-the-...
#SacredFeminine #Rewilding #SpiritualReclamation #FeministSpirituality #TempleInHerOwnBones
But we didn’t forget.
We’re not asking to be sacred—we’ve always been.
🖤 Read the full piece: www.lisamhayes.com/she-was-the-...
#SacredFeminine #Rewilding #SpiritualReclamation #FeministSpirituality #TempleInHerOwnBones
May 6, 2025 at 6:36 PM
They erased the feminine divine to control what they couldn’t embody.
But we didn’t forget.
We’re not asking to be sacred—we’ve always been.
🖤 Read the full piece: www.lisamhayes.com/she-was-the-...
#SacredFeminine #Rewilding #SpiritualReclamation #FeministSpirituality #TempleInHerOwnBones
But we didn’t forget.
We’re not asking to be sacred—we’ve always been.
🖤 Read the full piece: www.lisamhayes.com/she-was-the-...
#SacredFeminine #Rewilding #SpiritualReclamation #FeministSpirituality #TempleInHerOwnBones
You don’t need another breakthrough.
You need to come home to yourself.
To the parts you forgot.
To the wisdom beneath the noise.
To the version of you that was never lost—just buried.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/you-don-t-ne...
#RadicalCoaching #SelfRemembering #CoachingForWomen #HealingWork
You need to come home to yourself.
To the parts you forgot.
To the wisdom beneath the noise.
To the version of you that was never lost—just buried.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/you-don-t-ne...
#RadicalCoaching #SelfRemembering #CoachingForWomen #HealingWork
May 1, 2025 at 6:54 PM
You don’t need another breakthrough.
You need to come home to yourself.
To the parts you forgot.
To the wisdom beneath the noise.
To the version of you that was never lost—just buried.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/you-don-t-ne...
#RadicalCoaching #SelfRemembering #CoachingForWomen #HealingWork
You need to come home to yourself.
To the parts you forgot.
To the wisdom beneath the noise.
To the version of you that was never lost—just buried.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/you-don-t-ne...
#RadicalCoaching #SelfRemembering #CoachingForWomen #HealingWork
You’re not burned out because you’re broken.
You’re burned out because you’re living through collapse.
Self-care matters, but it won’t save us from fascism.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/self-help-wo...
#AntiCapitalism #SelfCareTruth #CollectiveHealing #CoachingThatResists #FascismFatigue
You’re burned out because you’re living through collapse.
Self-care matters, but it won’t save us from fascism.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/self-help-wo...
#AntiCapitalism #SelfCareTruth #CollectiveHealing #CoachingThatResists #FascismFatigue
April 30, 2025 at 4:54 PM
You’re not burned out because you’re broken.
You’re burned out because you’re living through collapse.
Self-care matters, but it won’t save us from fascism.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/self-help-wo...
#AntiCapitalism #SelfCareTruth #CollectiveHealing #CoachingThatResists #FascismFatigue
You’re burned out because you’re living through collapse.
Self-care matters, but it won’t save us from fascism.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/self-help-wo...
#AntiCapitalism #SelfCareTruth #CollectiveHealing #CoachingThatResists #FascismFatigue
You don’t need a niche. You need range.
The future of coaching isn’t about packaging—it’s about presence.
We’re not building brands. We’re building coaches who can hold grief, rage, joy, and truth in the same breath.
🖤 www.thecoachingguild.com/you-don-t-ne...
The future of coaching isn’t about packaging—it’s about presence.
We’re not building brands. We’re building coaches who can hold grief, rage, joy, and truth in the same breath.
🖤 www.thecoachingguild.com/you-don-t-ne...
April 29, 2025 at 6:25 PM
You don’t need a niche. You need range.
The future of coaching isn’t about packaging—it’s about presence.
We’re not building brands. We’re building coaches who can hold grief, rage, joy, and truth in the same breath.
🖤 www.thecoachingguild.com/you-don-t-ne...
The future of coaching isn’t about packaging—it’s about presence.
We’re not building brands. We’re building coaches who can hold grief, rage, joy, and truth in the same breath.
🖤 www.thecoachingguild.com/you-don-t-ne...
You were never here by accident.
You are favored by the old gods—the ones who chose survivors, truth-tellers, warriors.
You carry a strength this world forgot it needed.
It’s time to remember.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/you-are-favo...
#WildPresence #SacredResilience #Unbreakable #HealingIsResistance
You are favored by the old gods—the ones who chose survivors, truth-tellers, warriors.
You carry a strength this world forgot it needed.
It’s time to remember.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/you-are-favo...
#WildPresence #SacredResilience #Unbreakable #HealingIsResistance
April 29, 2025 at 5:06 PM
You were never here by accident.
You are favored by the old gods—the ones who chose survivors, truth-tellers, warriors.
You carry a strength this world forgot it needed.
It’s time to remember.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/you-are-favo...
#WildPresence #SacredResilience #Unbreakable #HealingIsResistance
You are favored by the old gods—the ones who chose survivors, truth-tellers, warriors.
You carry a strength this world forgot it needed.
It’s time to remember.
🖤 www.lisamhayes.com/you-are-favo...
#WildPresence #SacredResilience #Unbreakable #HealingIsResistance
We were never meant to heal alone.
Self-care matters, but it won’t fix what community neglect has broken.
The self-care industrial complex is profitable—but it’s not revolutionary.
We need each other.
Always have.
Always will.
www.lisamhayes.com/self-care-wa...
Self-care matters, but it won’t fix what community neglect has broken.
The self-care industrial complex is profitable—but it’s not revolutionary.
We need each other.
Always have.
Always will.
www.lisamhayes.com/self-care-wa...
April 25, 2025 at 7:34 PM
We were never meant to heal alone.
Self-care matters, but it won’t fix what community neglect has broken.
The self-care industrial complex is profitable—but it’s not revolutionary.
We need each other.
Always have.
Always will.
www.lisamhayes.com/self-care-wa...
Self-care matters, but it won’t fix what community neglect has broken.
The self-care industrial complex is profitable—but it’s not revolutionary.
We need each other.
Always have.
Always will.
www.lisamhayes.com/self-care-wa...
We expect to be given the benefit of the doubt,
to center our innocence,
our confusion,
our comfort—
every time harm is named.
www.confluencedaily.com/2025/04/24/w...
to center our innocence,
our confusion,
our comfort—
every time harm is named.
www.confluencedaily.com/2025/04/24/w...
White People Want to be Judged By Their Intentions and This is Why We are Sinking into Fascism
By Lisa Hayes for Confluence Daily Confluence Daily is your daily news source for women in the know. White people love to talk about intentions. “I didn’t mean it like that.” “That’s not what I was...
www.confluencedaily.com
April 24, 2025 at 5:45 PM
We expect to be given the benefit of the doubt,
to center our innocence,
our confusion,
our comfort—
every time harm is named.
www.confluencedaily.com/2025/04/24/w...
to center our innocence,
our confusion,
our comfort—
every time harm is named.
www.confluencedaily.com/2025/04/24/w...
If your coaching can’t hold grief, rage, or silence—
it’s not transformation.
It’s performance.
We train coaches who don’t flinch.
This isn’t a brand.
It’s a revolution.
Join us → www.thecoachingguild.com/the-coaching...
it’s not transformation.
It’s performance.
We train coaches who don’t flinch.
This isn’t a brand.
It’s a revolution.
Join us → www.thecoachingguild.com/the-coaching...
April 22, 2025 at 9:04 PM
If your coaching can’t hold grief, rage, or silence—
it’s not transformation.
It’s performance.
We train coaches who don’t flinch.
This isn’t a brand.
It’s a revolution.
Join us → www.thecoachingguild.com/the-coaching...
it’s not transformation.
It’s performance.
We train coaches who don’t flinch.
This isn’t a brand.
It’s a revolution.
Join us → www.thecoachingguild.com/the-coaching...